Why did the narcissist choose you?
How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon?
Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe?
This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner.
What are the things that various types of narcissist look for?
How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits?
What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists?
Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous?
Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone?
What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights?
These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
3 thoughts on “Sitting Target”
Wow! Bringing up a memory from 2007/2008. I was sitting on a bench at a square when 3 stranger (2 ladies and 1 guy) approached me. They told me they were students of the university and made a survey about sex and asked me if they could make some questions. I agreed to that. He made the questions. First how old I was, where I came from and what I was doing. There after the sex questions: 1. How many sexual encounters did you have? I answered honestly. 2. Do you prefer soft or hard sex? I said -‘sorry, you will have to ask someone else to answer your questions coz they are to private to me’.
They said no problem and walked away. I never saw them coming but a watched them go and the didn’t approach anyone else…
A very insightful book. In my opinion (and from what I have learned), it is not necessarily the ‘starting’ point in learning about narcissism, yet it is a very good book to find out more about why certain narcissists (schools & cadres) ‘select’ empaths that possess traits that a narcissist is “looking for” (the majority of narcissists do not know what they are, so effectively it is instinct based and by the experience of the narcissist as an individual). This book also specifies the ‘special traits’ that attracts the narcissist in which not not all empaths possess (because of the experiences & background of the empath as an individual).
HG’s videos on ‘What Is Narcissism’; ‘The First Law Of Narcissism’ and ‘The Ultra Framework’; ‘How Much Narc Knowledge Should I Obtain’ provide valid information when someone is starting on the path on learning and understanding about narcissism. Upon understanding more about narcissism and intimate relationships, HG’s book ‘Sex : How The Narcissist Views Sex and the Role It Plays In Your Entanglement’ is really good, upon understanding more about narcissists at work, HG’s Assistance Package ‘How To Deal With The Narcissist At Work’ is very useful.
Amazing book, necessary information, fascinating reading.