What Happens When the Narcissist Realises You Have Them Figured out?

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  1. Narc Repellent? says:

    So, if the IPPS were to find and screenshot evidence of a narcissist’s homosexual (group) affairs during marriage and share them publicly along with detailed descriptions of their financial and emotional abuse of the spouse and child, that would result in a discard, correct? Particularly if special care was taken to ensure the narcissist’s entire extended family and acquaintances saw it as well?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      That would most likely cause a disengagement trigger but it is not guaranteed, it will depend on other material factors at the time of doing as you describe. What is more important is that if you realise you are the IPPS to a narcissist, you effect GOSO and escape.

  2. Ciara says:

    Hmmmm….Unconscious!? H.G.,Thanks for breaking it down to understand.

  3. Asp Emp says:

    There are occasions where a narcissist (ie at work) may have ‘instinctively’ sensed that I am, in some way, a ‘threat’ to them, in a way that ‘unnerved’ them (they didn’t know why).

    Part way through this video, I was reminded of HG’s video ’10 Online Threats to the Narcissist’s Control’ and the article ‘Found In Translation’ and the book ‘Decipher’.

    In relation to the ‘involvement’ I had with the MRN – there were many conversations, where the MRN was using what HG describes as ‘Narcspeak’ and I was using similar ‘language’ (as can be found in HG’s ‘The Empath’s Riposte Grenades’). Yet, neither myself or the MRN were consciously aware of what we are (him being the narcissist and me being myself).

    Thank you for this video, HG, another ‘lesson’ in clarification about narcissism.

  4. A Victor says:

    Hm, I just described this happening to me in a comment to BC30. HG, this is not a supernova then?

    1. BC30 says:

      I forgot to mention something about my departure—N never saw it coming. I didn’t say goodbye. I just cut off contact.

      1. A Victor says:

        My first ex didn’t know ahead, I packed up and left while he was at work, without a word. No idea if he’s a narcissist, I don’t even care at this point, I saw him a couple weeks ago at our grandson’s birthday party, he is just sad now. Oh, but it wasn’t NC, it was just me leaving. ANC came a little later, so much so that in 33 years I have seen him 5-10 times. He’s never hoovered, he’s probably not a narc.

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