Meghan Markle : A Less Than Royal Narcissist : Pt 21 : Why Did Harry Get Caught?

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  1. Melmel says:

    HG –
    Do you think Prince Harry will ever consider that this is what Prince William meant when he told him: “Be careful with this one.”? I hope their bond is strong enough. They do after all have the same environment making them at risk for childhood development of both extremes of personality, and both a sense of real and physical danger tied to their shared experience. I think Prince William was using emotional empathy but Prince Harry was already ensnared.

    “The narcissist will use this against them in situations when they are being devalued…”

    The unaware narcissist is unaware that this is what they are doing… To me that is not justification. If they are unaware then they should be invested and interested in change. If the ultimate provision of fuel is a healthy relationship and healthy secondary relationships, then at some point the pieces of the puzzle must come together. What is it that drives the unaware narcissist continue to make choices that ultimately end in disaster for everyone? The need to control in the NOW?

  2. Snigl37 says:

    As always, excellent analysis, HG!

  3. Asp Emp says:

    Another brilliant description, to help people not knowing about narcissism, or those who have not yet reached KTN site – to understand Harry’s empath / narcissistic traits. It was good to read your explanations about the fact Harry would have been around high profile narcissists during his whole life simply because of who he is (not necessarily what he is).

    When I read (04:16) “if you are in a position of elevated authority fame or power it’s easy to gain fuel”…….. laughing at remembering what I have said about Boris J…….

    Diana never hid her love as a mother from the public eye and showed it plenty to her boys. It is a defining factor of her empath that shone through for many many people. It si so good that Harry never became a narcissist himself. Such a credit to his mother.

    Laughing…….. (ah, brilliant, absolutely hilarious) (07:15) “empaths are not crocheting spinsters that are attending church four times a week and living a life of impeccable morals far from it empaths let their hair down too empaths can get up to some skullduggery in terms of hedonistic behaviour” – of course, empaths can be really exciting individuals, we are the perfect ‘angels’, the ‘epitome’ within society 😉

    Harry’s behaviours in his younger years are evidently indirect (an unconsciously unaware) ‘reactions’ to a life-time of being surrounded by narcissists and his mother’s passing.

    His ‘protection’ of Meghan is perfectly understandable (from his & other’s perception), it clearly shows the empath within him.

    (26:38) “emotional thinking that is associated with him won’t let him see it’s too high and it is only when that is reduced that he might start to gain that he will start to gain clarity” – absolutely, and I can certainly relate to these words myself. This is a key point in the whole ‘saga’ that people who lack understanding about the addiction to narcissists, how narcissism impacts the victims once ‘ensnared’.

    And also why people need to understand more about how the human mind works in the perceptions of narcissists; empaths and normals – it is about understanding the different psychology ‘paths’ within the brain which also impacts on the mental, emotional and quite often, the physical health (not many people would not realise this). Having said that, how has Harry’s physical health been impacted? Maybe if people look closer, they may see signs of the impact during the ‘Interview with Oprah’.

    I really enjoyed this video, HG. You have captured it very well here. Very impressive.

  4. LMR says:

    Windsor family need a Greater Narc to ruin this disgusting bitch….

  5. lickemtomorrow says:

    Exploitation – that word that jumped out at me above all the rest.

    Yes, Harry is being exploited. And it actually sickens me. Partly because it happened to me and partly because I can now see it for what it is. Narcissism is just one big game of exploitation. YUK!

    This was another very insightful presentation, HG.

    Meghan Markle studied Diana, Harry’s mother. This has been noted by multiple people. She didn’t walk into that situation naievely as she claims. Harry was her target. And she is a shark.

    Diana’s death and the ongoing consequence of that was the blood in the water.

    My impression is she’d been circling for a while.

    But as this is about Harry, I will say my impression is that Harry is trying to rescue his mother. He couldn’t save her as a child, it must have impacted him deeply. Who protected Diana? might be a question he still asks himself. I do wonder how much of his willingness to smear his own family now relates to unresolved issues from the time his mother was alive and also surrounding her death.

    Meghan has nicely spliced herself into the Diana storyline.

    And as we know, Harry loved his mother.

  6. CandaceMarie says:

    Excellent HG!

  7. Truthseeker6157 says:

    Phew! Thank goodness one does not pay attention to the dirty dirty British press! If one did, and one were to stumble with tiny ex royal feet across a Daily Mail article written by that commoner (ewww) Dominic Sandbrook, one might never emerge from the safety and security of one’s mansion ever again!

    If only Oprah had asked one the correct questions! (only a matter of time before the blame gets shifted)

    One just cannot get the staff can one? (obviously)

    1. Asp Emp says:

      TS, no doubt the seagulls will be blamed 😉 Here’s the evidence ……. laughing…..

      https://youtu.be/yonIYAfW3HM

    2. Witch says:

      @TS
      But isn’t this why she did an American interview, knowing they may not have done much research into the rules within the Royal family and titles and would have relied solely on emotion and tugging at the heart strings?

      “For just 3 dollars a month you could help contribute to this poor couple’s security after being financially neglected and orphaned by the royal family. Please don’t let another millionaire whined up in the ghetto.. the future of their baby depends on you..”

  8. Another Cat says:

    HG
    I was very moved and listened with a tear to your thorough excellent analysis and explanation of Harry’s story and his vulnerabilities. I do think and hope, though, that the children will have interveining empathic individuals (friends, nannies) to help him raise them.

  9. Em says:

    Always triggers something in me when I hear about how Harry is being treated. Thank you HG.
    All the touching of his back and hand holding she did in the early days. Now she only has to hold his hand and he is silenced. She talks over him and he stops talking.
    I ended up stuttering and not being able to speak coz of my narc constantly picking away at my grammar, pronunciation etc.
    The odd snigger here and there.
    It makes my skin prickle even thinking about it now.

  10. A Victor says:

    This is my favorite so far. So relatable and really well done.

  11. Francine says:

    I was watching a video by a body language expert who was reading Harry during the interview when it was announced that he was having a little girl. The woman’s opinion was he was disengaged until he went into portrayal of … I’m so excited and happy that it’s a girl. I’m no body language expert and I don’t know if she was right but all I was thinking was on a subconscious level does he realize now with baby number two the noose is really tightening around his neck. I think chances are very slim Harry will escape…Megan will disengage. I don’t even think it’ll be too long because she certainly moved incredibly fast to get him away from the royal family I thought she would do that but I thought it would take years. She surprised me. He will hang on and fight tooth and nail because he does not want a broken family a divorce It would get really messy Transatlantic divorce. And he knows because he said it out of his own mouth “Megan gets what Megan wants.” I hope he finds you HG… Very sad.

  12. Duchessbea says:

    HG, you are a Darling. Very thorough and precise. You leave nothing out. HG, I can only imagine you are this thorough and then some, between the sheets. Hmmmmmm. Brilliant HG. Thank you.

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