Q&A with HG Tudor : 27 June 2021





Time to flex your Truth Seeker traits!

Want to know more about the picture above?

Want to understand more about your ensnarement with the narcissist?

Want an accessible way to get answers to your circumstances?

Keen to learn accurate information about narcissism?

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Want to know more about forthcoming works of HG Tudor?


Here is a further opportunity to join in with the highly engaging and informative Q&A sessions.

This will take place on SUNDAY 27TH JUNE 2021 at 10am PST, 1 pm EST, 6pm BST, 7pm CEST.

You will have three hours of uninterrupted access to HG Tudor and his unrivalled information. It is a golden opportunity to be informed and entertained.

This will be a strictly limited audience and is based on first come, first served by obtaining a place in advance. The cost is just US $ 24.99 This represents brilliant value and those who have attended the Q&As previously will attest to how rewarding they are.

A private forum will be created for those attending and for three hours you will in the forum be able to ask any and all questions which will be answered for you. You will be able to see other questions and the answers. You will use your blog names for the Q&A so anonymity is preserved.

Once you have secured your place, you will be provided with a short document setting out the rules and a password which will allow you attendance in the forum.

If you are unsuccessful in securing a place, your payment will be refunded.

This arrangement guarantees you will be able to ask your questions about anything to do with narcissism, narcissists and of course me and get the direct and personal answers. I will not be doing anything else other than deal with the questions that you pose in this forum. No distractions, no delays and the continuity of discussion.

I look forward to receiving your burning questions and most of all, giving you the answers.


92 thoughts on “Q&A with HG Tudor : 27 June 2021

  1. Fieke says:

    How does it work? first time and not very experienced with these things. how do I log in? Where is the link? Anyone here to help me with my comprehension? It starts in 3 minutes and I can not find it…

  2. Chihuahuamum says:

    Id definitely be interested, but im not sure if id be able to make it being so far in advance. Looks like a fun time!

  3. Anm says:

    I will be attending, and looking forward to it.

    1. WhoCares says:

      That’s awesome Anm!

  4. Surri says:

    This will be the first time attending a Q&A with HG. As it falls on my birthday, I gifted myself this opportunity to attend. His work came to me directly after I had a Supernova event that sent two narcs running for cover. As in the past it felt like an out of body experience with a very powerful self stepping in to take over the emergency situation I was in the center of. I felt a thunder clap, then a powerful push right on through these narcs and to the other side. I’m in my Tower now. 🌹.

    1. WhoCares says:

      Glad you managed to escape two Narcs!
      You’ll enjoy the Q&A.

  5. BC30 says:

    Argh 😠 I do not know if this is posting, but thank you, HG. Tears of joy 😭😭😭

    I’m at a mountain resort, gorgeous, but shitty cell/internet service. I had to walk around the lodge, waving my phone around like a goober 😦 but I was finally able to register.

    1. Asp Emp says:

      BC30, hilarious! What a wonderful description….. laughing. Good to know you succeeded 🙂

      1. A Victor says:

        Are you joining Asp Emp?

        1. Asp Emp says:

          I have signed up, yes. Will see how it goes (gulp).

          1. A Victor says:

            Yay!! Is it your first time? Will we be first-timers together? Super excited! It’s going to be fun!

          2. Asp Emp says:

            AV, well I could only observe but not comment – technology thing. I’ll tell you something now though – be warned, it can be so quick that you can miss one or two but can catch up & read afterwards……..cannot ask HG to slow down, he’s like lightning that guy. (I am not complaining, HG x).

          3. A Victor says:

            Oh no, now I’m all nervous again!! I don’t function well with a fast pace until I get used to it. But, getting used to it requires doing it so, here we go. And I will be on my phone, instead of my laptop, which makes it that much more challenging. I would never think to as HG to slow down, he needs to use the time as well as he can. If I get behind, so be it. I am going to copy and paste where I can but having purchased and read several previous Q&A scripts, the questions need to be quite complete or he doesn’t understand them since he can’t see what has gone before. So, I will double check that and do my best! I am very nervous though! That is not typical for me and I don’t like it! Haha!

          4. Asp Emp says:

            AV, don’t be nervous! We both have been here long enough to feel comfortable – just make sure you’ve got your seatbelt on! Yes, the procedures are quite specific, and justified. There is absolutely no reason to be nervous. At all. Do you remember that one night when you and I were commenting (there were others too but I recall you very well) – HG was moderating – basically non-stop for hours, I suppose the Q&A sessions are a bit like that but maybe a lot faster – as we have already had a ‘practice run’. LOL

          5. A Victor says:

            Asp Emp, okay, thank you. I will have my seatbelt on literally. Lol! Yes, I remember a couple of occasions like the one you mention, very fun. Okay, it will be fun. I will be ready to copy and paste and I will memorize the procedures, and practice a run through or two in my mind, before we get started. Then I will hope to have a good internet connection in my car and that my phone won’t cause all kinds of trouble, I really miss my old one when it comes to texting. Thank you for your encouragement. I am looking forward to it. 🙂

          6. Asp Emp says:

            AV, great! Maybe have a printout of your questions to hand if you are using a phone? I can understand your initial ‘apprehension’. I’m looking forward to the session too 🙂

          7. BC30 says:

            Woo hoo! You’re both joining. I see that many have questions prepared. A solid plan.

          8. Asp Emp says:

            BC30, I don’t have many questions – more likely to derive from as and when……. I’m much further ‘travelled’ on my journey so it’ll be easier to just take part 🙂

          9. Truthseeker6157 says:

            AV Asp,

            The text moves quickly and you will need to refresh the page regularly. If text appears not to have moved for a few minutes, then refresh to be sure. People sometimes get caught out and think nothing is happening on the page. Xx

          10. Asp Emp says:

            TS, thanks for the heads up RE: refreshing the page…… I’ll refresh, often 🙂

    2. Alexissmith2016 says:

      Agh omg I want to join so bad but Sunday’s are really tricky. Enjoy your time everyone x

      1. A Victor says:

        Alexisdmith, I will miss you and wish you were there. I hope you have a good day that day though.

  6. njfilly says:

    Oh my god! Yes! Yes!! YES!!!


  7. Fieke says:

    Hi , I just made a reservation and payment, but my paypall adress is different than the one I use on this blog. Shall I sent you the e-mail adress by wich payment is done ? Best regards Fieke

    1. HG Tudor says:

      That depends on whether you used an email address at the Gumroad site which you cannot access.

  8. Fiddleress says:

    Yes! This is wonderful, I have missed the Q&A’s. Getting my place/ticket!

  9. Truthseeker6157 says:

    I absolutely love these! Cant wait!

    1. Kiki says:

      Yeah just bought mine hopefully there are places left .


  10. lisk says:

    Woohoo! Woohoo!
    A dream come true!

    Looking forward to spending time with HG and the Tudoristas—and any Tudoristos!

    You’re the best, HG! And you know it! 😘

    1. Violetta says:

      He does know it, but I suspect he doesn’t mind hearing that we know it too.

      1. lisk says:

        I believe he is astute enough to see what I did there!

  11. FYC says:

    Excellent! Would not miss it. Hope all is well with you and yours, HG.

    For anyone who has not attended a Q & A with HG, this is a not-to-be-missed, hallmark event! Sign up and save the date. Prepare your Qs in advance. It’s a fast-paced roller coaster ride of insights, revelations, answers, intrigue, knowledge and good humor!

    1. FYC says:

      HG, I sent you an email regarding the reservation for this event. Please approve as soon as possible. Thank you!

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Replied and approved.

        1. FYC says:

          HG, thank you very much! I’ll do this right now.

          1. FYC says:


          2. Kiki says:

            Booking this now , will it work from a iphone don’t think I’ll have the laptop with me on that date ?

          3. FYC says:

            Yes, any device with internet access will do.

      2. WhoCares says:

        Oh yay! Glad to see you FYC and glad to know you’ll be joining the Q&A!

        1. FYC says:

          Thank you, Who Cares, I’m looking forward to it!

  12. Tony Dorin says:

    I love the irony of this site. It uses appeal to narcissism to attract individuals who supposedly dislike narcissism.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You’ve spectacularly missed the point.

  13. psychologyandworldaffairs says:

    Will see if there are places once I am paid. A little bit nervous as I am a reflective thinker and dyslexic – I guess I can have a couple of questions to copy and paste tho 🙂

    1. A Victor says:

      Hi PAWA, I am excited for feedback if you have any after the event. I am a reflective thinker also, this is my concern. In audio consult, ask questions, listen and respond but no pressure becauseI can listen back later. Could I do the same here? I don’t know. So if you have anything to share, I would appreciate it

      1. A Victor says:

        …a bunch, sorry, that comment sent before I finished it!

    2. WhoCares says:

      Hi there psychologyandworldaffairs,

      ” I guess I can have a couple of questions to copy and paste tho 🙂 ”

      That’s what I do! I write my main questions ahead so that I can easily follow along and don’t have to worry about composing my question in the moment, just copy and paste – although I think of questions on the fly as well.

      1. psychologyandworldaffairs says:

        Thank you Whocares, good to know others will be doing the same 🙂

    3. Truthseeker6157 says:


      I do the same thing. I type my questions in advance then copy paste so I don’t lose track. You can always read back afterwards too. You’ll love the Q&A, it’s great fun!
      I remember saying that I would just read the first time, I wouldn’t ask anything. That lasted about five minutes! Haha

      1. Fiddleress says:

        Haha, same here, TS. I remember actually telling HG that I was the quiet type and would likely just read. I was still new on the blog then. But the atmosphere in the Q&As is unbelievable, and HG makes it such fun, that I just started firing away anyway. Never missed a Q&A since, I think.
        And the funny thing is that just a few hours before getting the mail announcing the Q&A, the thought came into my head that HG was going to organise one! So it was doubly amazing when I saw there would be one soon.

        (By the way, I have replied to you latest message on “The Desire to Destroy the Narcissist”, in case you are not getting all the notifications, as has happened to me lately!)

        1. psychologyandworldaffairs says:

          You are correct I am not getting notifications – I will take a look thank you, it could be they are going to my old e-mail. I seem to have signed up with both. I forgot I had an old account – back when I was younger and more idealistic.

          Fingers crossed there will be spaces on Friday :))

          New experiences are good and my old self would not have hesitated xx

        2. Truthseeker6157 says:

          Hey Fiddleress xx

          Great to see you! I found it thank you. ( I just finished replying to you on ‘Desire to Destroy’). HG must smirk sometimes at what we all come out with. ‘I probably won’t say much. I’ll just read along.’
          ‘Aye Right.’ Haha!
          I’ll keep an eye on the ‘Desire to Destroy the Narcissist’ thread now I know you are there. X

      2. psychologyandworldaffairs says:

        Thank you – it does sound like fun. Yes like you I always like to be prepared before hand and it is great HG is allowing lots of time for this :)))

        1. Truthseeker6157 says:


          It is a very generous amount of time. You know what though? It absolutely flies by! I feel the same afterwards as I do when I finish a really great book. Satisfied, but wishing I could start it all over again!

  14. Duchessbea says:

    An Orgy with HG Tudor.
    Duchessbea Approves.

    1. Asp Emp says:

      Duchessbea! Incredulous……. ly……. laughing…..

  15. lickemtomorrow says:

    I would like to know about the picture.

    And I will need to email you about access, HG.

    Thank you for providing us with the opportunity again! It’s been sorely missed.

    1. Violetta says:

      Cliff at Lyons hotel in Ireland. Popular for weddings. Trying to tell us something, HG?

      1. NarcAngel says:

        I took it to be a mausoleum, which piques my interest in regard to the Knowing HG forum.

        1. Violetta says:

          I thought it looked like a tomb also, but did a search on GoogleLens.

          Of course with HG, this could be a multi-layered message.

          1. lickemtomorrow says:

            With a nod to HGs multilayered messaging, I have done more footwork and discovered that this is the private chapel of once owner of Lyons Demesne, Tony Ryan (co-founder of Ryan Airways) who died in 2007. Does that mean it is a mausoleum? Not sure. Apparently he is buried on the property. Is the chapel used for weddings? Maybe very small weddings (going by its size!) Did HG have a very small wedding at this stunning venue and in this private chapel? First question for the Q&A 🙂

          2. Violetta says:


            You get the Narchivist award! Dude…how? I went over the whole hotel site (I thought) and couldn’t find the right page.

          3. lickemtomorrow says:

            It’s not on the hotel site, Violetta. The internet is a vast universe of rabbit holes and I just happened to go down the right one 😉 Much like I randomly came across a ‘medium’ doing a partial reading on HG … I was looking for info on the ‘debarkles’! Harry and his wife are helping to add to the coffers of numerous people with the intrigue. But that is for another thread x

      2. lickemtomorrow says:

        Wow! I had to look it up, but that was almost too easy, Violetta. Question answered in terms of location, and what a lovely location it is <3 How did you know that? And if HG is trying to tell us something I hope we will get our answer at the Q&A. If not, I've found a 'medium' on YT who did a partial reading on him due to his absence from YT recently (total fluke how I came across that one!) and she had some interesting things to say …

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I can say with complete certainty that the medium will be wrong.

          1. lickemtomorrow says:

            Haha, HG, no doubt!

            It was a very random set of events that led me there. What can I say? I take these things with a pinch of salt.

      3. TheVimtoSlut says:


        Ohhh! Googled that! Gorgeous! A spa AND a fountain? Eire is gorgeous. I once went to C Mayo, you fly into Knock. My work colleague and I spent some little time speculating if it would be a prop plane from Luton. I did not see the Virgin Mary on approach though and I did look :-(!

        Perfectly chaotic day yesterday. The Q&A session with Hg was the only thing that bucked me up. Had a run in with a female (?) narc who is becoming a tad obsessed with me. I’m actually struggling to place school. I’m tending towards a Middle Lesser but utilises the PA of a MRN. Uses her 5 year daughter as a human shield. Real 🍑.

        This UTTERLY STUPID (Lesser) narc attempted to very loudly extort money from me. Everyone heard. Its pathetic. Real playground stuff. I can see how desperate she is to know what’s going on. There is something quite unhinged about her. She also called me stupid, three times in fact.

        She batters her male partner, cannot speak properly, neglects her daughter.

        Some people do not deserve children.

        Q&A sounds good 🙂

  16. A Victor says:

    I’m leaving town that day! 😭😭😭

    1. WhoCares says:

      AV – “I’m leaving town that day!”
      I am so bummed for you. I know you had expressed interest in attending a Q&A – would have super nice to see you there! Can you delay your departure time?

      1. A Victor says:

        No, it is with a group and I will literally be leaving at about the time it will start where I am. I am bummed. There will be another though possibly and I would adjust most things to make it work! I just can’t this one. 😭 I’m glad they are able to be purchased afterward. And I’m happy for you all that HG has worked it into his schedule, you will all have fun. I’m going to go cry now for a while…not really, HG can’t accommodate everyone and it wasn’t meant to be this time for me. What’s funny is that it is much more intimidating to me than talking to him was! Thank you for your kind words WC, they made me happy!

        1. MB says:

          AV, your response gushes with empathy! #teamempath 👊

          1. A Victor says:

            Really? It just made me cry again rereading it after I read your comment. But, thank you, I am always learning!

            #teamempath indeed! And with glitter! ✨💖✨

        2. WhoCares says:


          Sorry to hear that A Victor.

          “What’s funny is that it is much more intimidating to me than talking to him was!”

          There isn’t really any reason to be intimidated. You don’t even have to ask questions, as HG states – although it makes it much more enjoyable if you do. And people ask a huge variety of questions.
          I bet you would get over that initial feeling of being intimidated AV, once you took part. The Q&As are fun and a great (affordable) opportunity to ask *concise* questions about your own situation.
          I would never, willingly, miss a Q&A!

          I hope you get to take part in a future session AV.
          HG is always an easygoing, informative and entertaining host!

          1. A Victor says:

            Thanks WC, I will keep my eyes 👀peeled for the next one! I’m hopeful that his phrasing “has returned” means there will be future ones also. I will jump in, if I get in, and overcome my jitters, you all have convinced me! Thank you!

        3. BC30 says:

          I’m sorry. If I could, I’d ask your questions.

          1. A Victor says:

            Aw, thank you BC30! That is so sweet! I did join after all, Lisk convinced me to. My party is just going to have to deal with it!! Lol!

          2. Truthseeker6157 says:

            Awww BC30, this made me smile. You are such an empath sometimes haha xx

    2. lisk says:

      Do you have a laptop or smart phone?

      1. A Victor says:

        I do but I will likely be driving or at least in a car with other people. I thought of that too but I don’t feel like I can dedicate three hours to ignoring them, haha, though it is tempting!! And I have my list of questions all ready to go!

        1. lisk says:

          Throw in a question or two and read it later, as you will have access!

          1. A Victor says:

            Really? I thought we had to take turns? Buying my ticket now.

          2. lisk says:

            You won’t regret it!

          3. A Victor says:

            I did it and I think I got in!! An email came that said Congratulations! It won’t reverse will it?? I have been avoiding this thread all day, too sad. Now I’m super happy! Thank you for pursuing it Lisk! I’m super excited! I’m going to have my son drive!!! Lol!

          4. WhoCares says:

            Good for you AV!

  17. MB says:

    Would this be 1pm Eastern? If it’s 1am, I’ll be disappointed 😞

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. MB says:

        Thank you, HG. Enrolled and jumping up and down that GumRoad takes ApplePay 🎉Even faster and easier to gobble up my HG goodies!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          HG approves.

    2. Z - zwartbolleke says:

      Finally I see you to wish you a belated Happy Birthday. 🙂
      I searched for you on May 24 but I assume you were celebrating and everything is fine with you!!

      Birthday kisses, xxx

      1. MB says:

        Z, that is so sweet of you to remember my birthday! I can’t believe it. I was on a wonderful and well-deserved (if I say so myself) vacation in Florida the week of my birthday. My time and energy is nearly all spent running a company. I haven’t been here as much as I want to be. I try to listen to all of HG’s YT videos, but I even fall behind on those sometimes to my dismay. I hope you are well. My question for HG is, will we get another KHG?! I’ll have to wait until the 27th! Ha ha

    3. BC30 says:

      I’d have been there either way. ☕️☕️☕️

  18. WhoCares says:


    1. Z - zwartbolleke says:


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