Alec Baldwin : A Very Angry Narcissist : Part 6
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HG, I’m curious if you heard about the recent lawsuit against Alec by a fallen US marine’s sister who he gave 5,000 to her to help out her brother’s widow? I was just reading that he defamed her by posting on twitter how she was an insurrectionist because she posted a picture of herself in the January 6 riot in DC. What do you think about him just up and offering the 5,000 to the widow and also now what he has done to harm the sister’s reputation? She was interviewed and found not guilty of anything illegal by the FBI but now she and family are getting much hate mail and threats because of his posting about her on twitter. Just curious about your thoughts. Thanks!
No, I am not familiar with this, Wendy.
HG, thanks. It’s just a pretty big story now and it really is interesting to me being he is a narcissist. Showing kindness at first and then doing what he did. I guess he wanted to look like a sympathetic hero until the narrative changed for him given his disgust for President Trump! Lol
Dear Mr Tudor,
I hope Alec Baldwin had Occ Health n Safety insurance in place …. now a brown recluse spider has bitten one of his ‘Rust’ staff and a possible amputation is on the cards
🕷
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Bubbles, that is an interesting consideration RE: the insurance. Does their equivalent of ’employer liability’ (if one exists) covers people, never mind having one in relation to H&S? The ‘quagmire’ has just been ‘sullied’ further……RE: the spider, maybe individuals also have an ‘accountability’ for themselves? I have said it at work before, that everybody is responsible where H&S is concerned whilst at work. I have just remembered, I was absolutely MORTIFIED when there was out of date First Aid contents within the box – bandages being 8 years out of date! Obvs, I looked into the organisation’s H&S policy / procedures, nothing was mentioned about First Aid at all, then I looked into the HSE guidelines on it then I made a ‘report’. LOL. Rattled their ‘cage’ so to speak LOL. The higher management did not like it but the person responsible for H&S audits was impressed and thanked me for my work into it. Even with the ‘evidence’, the narcissist higher-ups still did not ‘register’ had the HSE had reason to visit (HSE do not miss a thing and go through everything with a fine tooth comb!).
Dearest Asp Emp,
An employer owes a duty of care to their employees …. that includes an up-to-date first aid kit
You did good Asp Emp
How’s the fire extinguisher ? 😂
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Bubbles, according to the HSE in UK (at that time) was basic guidelines, not a legal requirement but I still ‘pulled’ them up on it. The main reason why was the fact we had a regular group of adults who had learning disabilities and their support workers attending sessions. So basically, either the organisation gets left with ‘egg’ on their faces should an outside organisation’s support worker raise it as an issue. It is COMMON SENSE to have a First Aid kit with basic and minimal requirements. Yes, I did good. Too good for them. Thanks to my Machiavellian traits 😉 As for the fire extinguishers? Well, they never had to be used, let’s put it that way 😉 But they were regularly checked (not always on TIME though ie over-ran due dates), same with the Employer Liability insurance AND the Data Protection certificates, fkg useless organisation! It was only my retail management experience that made me question why the fk is even the minimal legal stuff not being “met”?! Knowing about narcissists now, that organisation would have just turned round and said that they have ‘procedures’ in place and blamed the staff. Hence why the staff were always in a Catch 22 situation – challenge or keep quiet (lose their jobs).
Dearest Asp Emp,
That was very proactive of you, ‘thanks to my Machiavellian traits’ haha, congrats and good onya AE
I’ve been known to ‘crumple the paper’ in the office on occasion ….. I too was a first aider …..I’m more into aged care now 🤣
Obviously they weren’t on the set of Rust …. they should’ve had you there 🤣
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Every gun is a loaded gun. He’s completely to blame. Thx, HG for this breakdown. It is so very, very helpful, on so many levels.
Hi Carey, that was my thinking also. Even as kids with our toy guns, except for squirt guns, we were trained first thing, you never point them at anything that is living. Not ever, not even toys. It is a fundamental gun safety rule that Alec clearly had not been taught. I agree that as such, he does hold some degree of culpability, and not a small degree either.
Always down range.
Right, where no people are!
Purchased! I was correct, but HG gave lots of hints throughout so I can’t take credit. I didn’t realize how similar AB and The Donald are until this series. A lot I didn’t know about AB before this. Mainly what a grade A jerk he is. This analysis should be getting more views! Amazing work HG.
Thank you, MB.
Dear Mr Tudor,
I felt very uneasy watching the full interview
Looks like two narcissists colliding to me (Alec n Hilaria-ous) and Hilaria-ous holding out the phone, what a joke trying to look intimidating (she’s as angry as him)
I bet they have a lot of ‘make up’ sex haha
Who in their right mind keeps a ‘live gun’ on a film set (even for recreation) …. I would’ve joined the others who walked off the set
Baldwin then goes trick or treating with his family 10 days after and then they post happy family snappies …they just can’t help themselves, can they ?
I happened to view a video of Brendan Fraser on why he disappeared from acting
Poor buggar was sexually assaulted by a former President of the Hollywood Foreign press and was strangulated by the rope used in the movie The Mummy ….Fraser spiralled into depression and went underground for 10 years whilst continually in and out of hospital to repair his vocal cords and numerous other injuries from stunts. He went thru a divorce and his mother died
He joined the #metoo movement and is returning to acting …. his ‘extra’ massive weight gain is due to his upcoming role
What an absolute total contrast!
I came across this ……
Before you marry someone, WAIT
WAIT until you see them when they’re angry. Are they abusive?
Are they quiet ? How do they deal with anger ?
Because your children can’t choose who gets to be their parents, but you can.
Thank you for another most informative and interesting series Mr Tudor, you’ve done yourself proud 😊
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Bubbles, I really like your last sentences about waiting for someone to get angry and that you can choose a parent for your child.
I screwed up the whole line in that regard. My only defense is that, I did not plan a child in my life (but it had to be taken into account!). My sister was also against having a child and has four, ha ha ha 🙂
I will tell my daughter. Maybe she will remember, being in the fumes of love 🙂 Of course, she also does not intend to have children…
Dearest Joa,
We didn’t know back then what we know now and need to know for our own preservation
We all live in the moment and take what’s offered at the time
Spontenaity can be good …….aaaaaand not so good…hehe
Just for the record, you did not ‘screw up the whole line’ … that’s negative thinking
You produced a beautiful daughter …now that’s truly a positive 💕
I didn’t plan or even think of children either Joa (I wanted to travel first) …….it just worked out that way at that particular time (I was in my 30’s with our first)
None of our 3 kids intend on having any children either …..
It’s interesting, the weasel’s ex partner (mother of his child) had been with this chap for 10 years. She was painfully desperate to marry him, however, he adamantly vowed n declared never ever again would he get married.
They’re now married 👰🏼🤵
🤣
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Enjoyed the breakdown of the roadside interview on this one.
I’m going to guess Lesser narcissist due to the fact he seems to lack a facade in terms of displaying his fury. I think “A Very Belligerent Narcissist” would also work for Alec Baldwin. I’m enjoying the wordplay on this one, but “angry” has him down to a tee. You can feel the aggression coming off him and his means of control is quite ‘bullish’, as in he has no other method except ‘in your face’.
Another excellent teaching tool for those seeking to understand more about narcissism.
PS: ¿pepino? Hahaha.
STELLAR!!!!! And also, I learned sooo much from your dissection about how to decide on one cadre or the other/ one school or the other. This was an exemplary demonstration of how to analyze a narcissist’s traits. Thanks so much!!!!
You are welcome.
Reading what Alec says about the loss of the woman he shot actually makes me feel sick, especially after reading all the previous videos in this series on him and his behaviours towards other people.
So, when it comes to watching a film star on screen, people are ‘judging’ actors by what they see in a film. This is not the reality of the film stars themselves. In a film, it is a ‘facade’. Just like how narcissists ‘mingle’ within society. People see the ‘facade’ the narcissist ‘wear’, the ‘mask’ hiding the characteristics of narcissism.
Interesting choice of words here “exhibits somebody who’s well practised in the use of a facade”. Exactly. In Baldwin’s ‘case’, he has been in the acting field for around 40 years, of course, he would have ‘mastered the art’ of wearing a facade.
Live rounds ?! Live ammunition being used ?! Well, maybe the Law needs to review and apply a change to out Law the use of live ammunition in circumstances where it is not required, ie in filming.
I watched him in this clip. His one hand on his mid-drift, in my view, he is using his mobile phone to subconsciously ‘protect’ his creature from ‘exposure’ (or, maybe he is filming the reporters as his wife is doing). His other hand is gesticulating (emphasising his ‘point’) and the words “she was my friend” (deflecting / ‘I am not accountable, nor was it my fault’).
When he says ‘excuse me’ to his wife, he has ‘learned’ from the years of acting in how to ‘maintain’ a ‘mask’ in front of other people and basically he is telling her to ‘fk off’.
As he is speaking, his eyes are moving around quite a bit, indicating that he is ‘avoiding’ what he has been advised not to do. When he says the words “I’ve been told multiple times don’t make any comments” – it is as if he is remembering ‘threats to his control’ whenever those words were said to him and as he says these words, he shuts his eyes tightly as if to ‘block out’ the memory of ‘threats to his control’.
Watching him in this video reminds me so much of the Lesser I knew. The mannerisms, the hand gestures, the ‘stance’ the facial expression. I feel sick. I also suspect that I may experience similar sensation of ‘nausea’ (not fear), should I ever see that fu*ken tarmac-scraper again. Ugh. There is absolutely no fkg chance in hell of a conversation to be ‘permitted’, I will NOT engage. It is at this point where I do not really wish to continue to read this video. It is as if I am ‘putting’ myself through a ‘form’ of ‘punishment’. That is illogical thinking. That is the wrong emotional thinking.
Then I read the words “I wonder if she remembers the word for cucumber”. Fkg hell. A bit of distraction. Which was what I needed as a way of ‘jolting’ myself out of the ‘frame’ of thinking and feeling that I was experiencing just minutes ago. I’ll add here, cats are afraid of cucumbers, again, that is a matter for another time 😉
I am aware that HG ‘tests’ people who are using his work to ‘measure’ where they are on their journey in relation to the addiction to narcissism and also where they stand on the ‘recovery process’. I would suggest that, in my view, I am still ‘good’ because I realise and knew that it was a moment of illogical thinking.
At the same time, I can ‘avoid’ further invoking memories of that tarmac-scraper by reading the words instead of watching the actions of Alec in this video. So, effectively, I have a choice.
Right, back to the video again. Alec does appear to realise the seriousness of the overall situation. Yet he still deflecting by ‘how many times in 75 years’ etc. In his mind, he is telling himself (by ‘dissociation’) that it is not his fault, despite the fact he is the one who held the gun and someone died as a result.
If he was “hysterical” just after the shooting, maybe he experienced the narcissist’s reality gap, which is totally different from the ‘404’ of the narcissist. Referring to HG’s ‘The 404 Narcissist’ and ‘The Narcissist’s Reality Gap’. Maybe Alec could be experiencing a number of the ‘reality gap’, especially when moments of anxiety ‘kick in’ over what has happened.
Bloody hell. Just moments ago, reminders of that Lesser’s violence, his hurting me physically. The main reason why I felt sick was in relation to when he raped me. That is what my mind has tried to ‘block’. I will not be thinking about it, it happened and I will not let it ‘bother me’. In my view, that is the right way to look at it. I feel ok now. This fu*ken Lesser got away with it.
So, in saying that, I passed my ‘test’ even though it invoked what I described as above.
Will Alec Baldwin also ‘not pay for what he did’? Let’s see.
Thank you, HG, for your time on these videos. I appreciate and respect the ‘lesson’ today 🙂 I still have an apple for my favourite teacher 🙂
Asp Emp, the cucumber comment made me chuckle. She probably doesn’t know the word haha. That’s why I answered for her. She is a fake.
SP, I’ve seen videos of cats freaking out when their owners quietly put a cucumber, or courgette, or plastic snake on the floor behind them and it always seem to be when the cat has been given it’s supper (LOL).
Hahaha I didn’t know that, I’m a dog person. I was making fun of Hilaria’s Spanish cucumber. Btw, Hilaria means hilarious, she doesn’t seem very fun in the video though. I’m getting my booster shot right now and everyone is looking at me like crazy as I giggle thinking about it.
SP, have a look at some videos RE: cats and cucumbers. It will give you a right laugh! I have shared them on FB in the past and my cat-loving friend loves the videos too. You are crazy ;-);-) (I am crazier LOL).
Asp Emp, poor cats!!! Haha I think the must believe it’s a snake or something. It’s amazing how high they can jump. My dogs would have “murdered” that thing already.
SP, it is an in-built fear for cats. Yes, I find highly amusing how high they can jump and appear to have a skill for climbing up smooth walls (laughing). My dog would have taken a tentative sniff, cautiously and if it moved, she’d attack it – not the she ever had the opportunity of meeting a snake. She did attack a magpie because it was in her territory.
Yes, I took a picture years ago of my brother’s cat on the wall in which she looks like a lizard defying gravity. They are so Hilaria-flexible!
SP, laughing. You have just reminded me of Sasquatches and their fkg cat – 3 times it failed to climb the 1.5 metre high wall. My dog was not barking. But I was! It was in the wrong tree, in the wrong garden, on the wrong branch……..LOL. Thick cat = Sasquatch owner.
Hi Asp Emp, I caught the deflection regarding 75 years also, even though it’s a good point, it seems a bit of for him to bring it up given his position in all of this. I would think he’d be absolutely contrite and sad that this has happened. And, to also bring up that he’s interested in efforts to stop firearm use on sets when he has stated there have been so few accidents over the 75 years seems to be speaking out of both sides of his mouth.
His treatment of his wife was odd but she’s odd, haha, so it kind of seemed fitting.
AV, in my view, he is (inwardly) furious because basically he is not in ‘control’ of the situation in real terms and he has years of acting ‘experience’ (facades, changing the facades). Let’s consider this, is he ‘sad’ because the production of the film has been stopped? Is he ‘sad’ because of the ‘loss’ of the fuel he would have been receiving while on set? Is he only ‘feeling’ sorry for himself?
His ‘treatment’ of his wife was actually exactly how tarmac-scraper treated me in front of other people. So, in my view, it is not ‘odd’. We do not know what actually goes on behind closed doors within their house……
Asp Emp, no, I only meant that a non-narcissist “normal” response to the situation would be to be sad, not his, especially knowing now that he is a narcissist. Sorry I wasn’t more clear on that.
I suppose it is true that if a person were used to being treated in a certain way, seeing that happen wouldn’t be odd. Again, I apologize, I did not mean to diminish your experience at all.
AV, it’s absolutely fine. Thank you for saying so though 🙂
Also, I’m sorry it was stressful for you. I can relate, Laundrie and Gabby did that to me, left me shaking. You did well to get through it.
I can’t wait. Listening in 3,2,1…
HG, you are so good at what you do. Very impressive. Now for the big reveal…:)