Reading this about the narcissist’s mirroring of behaviours was interesting. It made me think about an incident that took place a couple of days ago. I was rightfully “disappointed” with a “service”, so I was in that ‘mindset’ when I arrived to get the “query” sorted out. Laughing (the naughty aspie 😉 ). As I shared in a previous comment, I was calm but firm.
I was able to see how that lower mid-range / upper lesser (certainly not a MMRN type A, nor B), because of her obvious exertion of trying to maintain her facade to the point where I was seeing so much of her lack of professionalism in her job as a “customer service advisor”. It was her level of aggressiveness that was apparent, so I am not “downgrading” her narcissist school because of how she treated me, it is her inability to be professional towards a customer who has reasons to be upset, before and during my “experience” as a customer.
I was not spoken to in that way by previous telecommunications providers but it is the same level of ignorance. It is the same old issue for me, once again. This time, I am able to use The Law and the organisation’s own policy but in a different way. So, I just have to wait to see what they have to say.
It is really uncanny that this particular video I was able to ‘resonate’ with and apply my own experience alongside it. Thank you, HG, this video helped me a lot xx
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Reading this about the narcissist’s mirroring of behaviours was interesting. It made me think about an incident that took place a couple of days ago. I was rightfully “disappointed” with a “service”, so I was in that ‘mindset’ when I arrived to get the “query” sorted out. Laughing (the naughty aspie 😉 ). As I shared in a previous comment, I was calm but firm.
I was able to see how that lower mid-range / upper lesser (certainly not a MMRN type A, nor B), because of her obvious exertion of trying to maintain her facade to the point where I was seeing so much of her lack of professionalism in her job as a “customer service advisor”. It was her level of aggressiveness that was apparent, so I am not “downgrading” her narcissist school because of how she treated me, it is her inability to be professional towards a customer who has reasons to be upset, before and during my “experience” as a customer.
I was not spoken to in that way by previous telecommunications providers but it is the same level of ignorance. It is the same old issue for me, once again. This time, I am able to use The Law and the organisation’s own policy but in a different way. So, I just have to wait to see what they have to say.
It is really uncanny that this particular video I was able to ‘resonate’ with and apply my own experience alongside it. Thank you, HG, this video helped me a lot xx