Red Dress – Mid Range Narcissist Vs Intimate Partner Primary Source (Respite Period) and Shelf Intimate Partner Secondary Source (White)

In this scenario the players are as follows :-

(1) A Middle Mid Range Narcissist – (“MMR”)

(2) An Intimate Partner Primary Source (“IPPS”) – the MMR and the IPPS had a golden period of  16 months. Devaluation commenced. Devaluation is 6 months’ old. There have been three Respite Periods within this six month period. A fourth Respite Period has just commenced. Thus, the IPPS is currently painted white.

(3) A Shelf Intimate Partner Secondary Source (“SIPSS”) – this is a colleague of the MMR and was therefore a Non Intimate Secondary Source. Once devaluation of the IPPS commenced, the MMR moved to engage with the then NISS in an intimate fashion. His main method of seduction was based on his girlfriend (IPPS) neglecting him and not being interested in his work achievements. There has been an affair between MMR and the SIPSS for 4 months. The SIPSS is painted white and is on the shelf because the IPPS is in a Respite (new golden) Period and therefore the IPPS has no need to engage with the SIPSS.

The SIPSS naturally knows about the existence of the IPPS and only engages with the MMR when he contacts first because the SIPSS has been warned that the IPPS peeks at the MMR’s phone (this does not actually happen). 

It is Monday evening. The MMR and the IPPS are at home…..