Ultra Livestream : 10th April : 1-15pm BST


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  1. Dani says:

    Mr. Tudor–

    Thank you so much for the live! You’re so good to us.

    1. Have any of your interviews on YouTube been conducted by a narcissist?
    I know Harry and Doug are empaths as per their discussing their empath detector results with you. And Dr. Friedman (interview and one of the 100K interviews, I think) is narcissistic…

    2. You said that you think you would keep some of your friends despite their knowing you’re a narcissistic psychopath…Of those you think most likely to remain, what are their classifications? Empath/normal/narcissist/narcissistic?

    3. Of those friends who would back off knowing your diagnoses, how many would you try to hoover back in? Would any be subjected to malign hoovers for abandoning you?

    4. Regarding travelling to Italy later this year…you indicated that you did not know how enjoyable the trip would be for your travel companion(s)…how far ahead can you anticipate changes in your fuel matrix/need for control over particular people?
    I would guess it depends in part upon their position within the fuel matrix.

    Thank you so much for your time. I greatly appreciate it. I always learn something from listening to you or reading something you’ve written.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. There are no narcissists in the 100K interviews.
      2. They would be found in all four of the categories.
      3. It would very much depend on circumstance, one would not be prescriptive about it at this juncture.
      4. The answer was more recognition of the fact that a person’s status can change rapidly.

      1. Rebecca says:


        I have questions based on your answer to number 4. How extreme can someone’s status change and how quick does it occur and why does it change? Thanks xx

        1. HG Tudor says:

          From black to white or black to white and instantly.

          1. Dani says:

            Mr. Tudor,

            Has the first instance of someone going from white to black ever resulted in a long-term disengagement from a DLS, NISS, IPSS, or IPPS?

            Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Do you mean, on the first occasion someone is painted black are they disengaged from? If so, it would be highly unusual for this to happen, but conceivably it could happen.

          3. Dani says:

            Thank you, Mr. Tudor! Much appreciated.

        2. Dani says:


          There are a few videos HG has made about Black and White thinking on YouTube. These are quite fascinating and informative.

          Why the Narcissist Views in Black and White

          Black and White

          1. Rebecca says:

            Hi Dani,

            Thank you, I appreciate it, but I was meaning in HG’s personal perspective with his own IPPS, IPSS, NISS etc…thank you for being helpful. Xx

      2. Dani says:

        Thank you, Sir!

        1. Have any of your YouTube interviewers been narcissists?
        2. If any of your YouTube interviewers were narcissists, did you know before agreeing to the interview? (I vaguely recall you saying somewhere that you go and look at the content of those who ask to interview you.)
        3. What are the similarities about the empaths you think more likely to stay verses those you think more likely to back off? Are they of similar schools/cadres, similar placement within the fuel matrix, etc?
        4. So it would depend upon the manner in which that individual chooses to withdraw from their relationship with you, their position in your fuel matrix, and how much of your private life fuel matrix found out roughly simultaneously, etc?

        BTW…really looking forward to when HG met HW…that will be just fascinating. I think a whole series of ‘when HG met the narcissist’ would be fascinating…

        Thank you for your time! Much appreciated.

  2. TBS says:

    .. and for a less esoteric offering .. I say:
    Humphrey Giles!
    Simply because apparently these were popular Tudor boys’ names. 🤓

  3. JB says:

    HG, I am still baffled by (some) people’s insistence that you must be Hugh Grant! You sound nothing like him for a start!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Well spoken English man, same initials, easy but mistaken.

      1. JB says:


        You are both well spoken, yes, but your accents are completely different. Yours has a slight northern twang in places. Mind you, I guess it depends on the audience – a non-Brit would probably not be able to make that distinction.

        Initials are too obvious! (unless it were a double-bluff..)

        1. Rebecca says:

          I told HG the same thing a while ago. 😂 I’ve had British co workers, friends and fellow classmates, who were British. I got exposed to a lot of different British accents and I don’t think HG sounds like Hugh Grant either. Hugh Grant is a tenor and HG is a bass, big difference there. Hugh Grant sounds whiny, while HG can sound like he’s growling and then there’s the reactions from others….Hugh Grant makes me yawn and HG makes me melt. 😂 xx

      2. Asp Emp says:

        It does seem that the comment section has been alonsed, a lot 😉

        1. KitKat says:

          Alonsed? I looked up the definition but didn’t find anything. A residual benefit from HG’s work is expanding my vocabulary.
          Funny story, awhile back the word ‘tetchy’ was used, and I thought ‘oh, they must mean ‘touchy’ but it was a typo.’ 😹 How I’ve gone this long without knowing the word tetchy is sketchy indeed.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            It’s the name of some bell end who was commenting a lot.

          2. Asp Emp says:

            Hahahahahahaha, thank you for answering Kit Kat’s question, HG X

          3. JB says:

            I looked the word up too! Was just coming on here to ask AspEmp what they meant, and saw HG’s comment. Thanks for clarifying, HG!

          4. Asp Emp says:

            KK, sometimes I use an initiative and HG is spot on 🙂

          5. KitKat says:

            Acquiring British insults! Possibly the best residual benefit of all.
            Bell end is hilarious, and passable in polite company. However, I find it difficult to consider it an insult since I do so admire a robust, well-defined bell end.
            They firmly occupy a space deep in my heart.

          6. KitKat says:

            I suppose you can say I’m a real carillonneur-enthusiast. Big fan. Huge.
            Although you know what they say, it’s not the size of your bell, it’s the tone you finesse from it.

          7. Duchessbea says:

            Oh HG, has someone gotten under those smooth and rather unshakable scales? Tetchy doesn’t mean that Kit Kat.

          8. Rebecca says:

            I noticed an Alfonso commenting on your most recent YT videos. I’ve seen his comments before, he likes to creep on commenters and make reference to himself as some powerful narc and then he’ll try to make offhanded remarks about HG. He’s commented to me once, something along the lines of “you’re giving him fuel” I just ignored him.

      3. TBS says:

        I say:
        Horatio Galahad!
        Horatio because of HG’s commitment to tradition and history, and Galahad because of his lust for the mediaeval. ⚔🛡

        1. Viol. says:

          Galahad was a virgin. Not HG.

          1. Sweetest Perfection says:

            A virgin in love …

      4. TBS says:

        I don’t think Hugh is a narc though .. somewhat grumpy, somewhat opinionated, somewhat older, white, privileged, male .. yes.

        1. JB says:


          Hard to say without knowing him personally..in Bridget Jones he is certainly narc-like, to a degree in About a Boy also..I have always fancied him, which probably means he is a narc (sadly!) Just something about him that I love and hate in equal measure!

          1. TBS says:

            Hi JB

            Can’t help but be drawn to many of Hugh’s major movie personas .. I’ve declared my “Hugh love” before ..

            I really don’t think he, the real Hugh Grant, is a narc, though.

            “Daniel Cleaver” (Bridget Jones) .. most definitely a narc.
            “Will” (About a Boy) .. don’t think he’s a narc, but maybe.
            “Charles” (4 Weddings) .. definitely not a narc, probably a normal.
            “William Thacker” (Notting Hill) .. definitely an empath.

            The real Hugh is likely to be a “narcissistic normal”, who is just really, really crabby. I get it. 🦀

          2. TBS says:

            .. but what about the delectable Colin Firth, oh my!

            Admired & adored (by me) since “Hope Springs” (2003)
            .. then later ..
            Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy (brilliant)
            And when did you last see you Dad?
            Bridget Jones (I definitely wanted him to beat Daniel Cleaver’s brains out 😬).
            Operation Mincemeat.
            1917 (so good).

            .. but you can forget “Love Actually” .. absolutely cannot stand that film.

          3. Joa says:

            Hmmm… TBS, you brought up such a name that I have to speak…

            During my youth, Colin Firth was my “beloved” actor. This “love” for him lasted from the moment of watching Milos Forman’s “Valmont” (1989) with Meg Tilly – for many, many years. This is an unconventional adaptation of “Dangerous Liaisons” – in my opinion better than the famous film of the same name as the book, starring John Malkowich (also great!), Michelle Pfeiffer and Glenn Close (1988). Both films were released just a few months apart.

            Anyway, when I saw this movie – “Valmont” – I was lost 🙂 Obsession. I went back and back and rewatched some scenes many times. I’m surprised the VHS tape didn’t wear out 🙂

            Especially the dance scene, one dance after the other, where the music perfectly emphasized and reflected the nature of the relationship between the characters. It was a brilliant pairing!

            It’s very good that you reminded me of my old obsession – because despite repeated attempts, I couldn’t find the composer of the first song played on the harpsichord. With today’s technology, it should be easier.

            In the past, access to movies was not as easy as it is today. They were usually rented. For many years, whenever any Colin Firth movie was aired, my friends called: “Quick, turn on (here the name of the channel), the film with “Yours” is coming!” 🙂

            Oh, I haven’t seen that movie in many, many years. I wonder if it would make such an impression on me today…


            There have only been two romantic movies that have made me so extremely obsessed. The first was “Valmont”. And the second was “The Lover”, directed by Jean-Jacques Annaud (1992) with Tony Leung Ka-Fai. Quite controversial in those days, due to the age of the heroine. Oh, the kiss scene through the car window… and the subtle atmosphere between the characters, and at the same time such a strong tension. I was dying watching this 🙂

            Perhaps today it would seem idiotic to me. I guess I’m afraid to check so as not to destroy that obsession, from my memory 🙂


            N1 hated those movies and both actors.
            We enjoyed watching movies together. He never watched these two films with me, though I repeatedly insisted. He couldn’t stand it when I got so excited about them. I never forgave him for that, pfff 🙂

        2. JB says:


          Am with you on both Colin Firth and Love Actually fronts! Hate LA, absolutely love CF!

      5. Duchessbea says:

        You must feel a sense of pride being ranked quite high HG. Lovely compliment. I don’t think the real Hugh Grant would be as obliging and as helpful as you HG. We are very grateful for your work ethic.

      6. Trish says:

        I initially pictured ‘Magneto’ when you spoke. (Actor, Ian Mckellen) I know you had previously stated your age though which is much younger than him. I love the X-men movies so that’s probably why my mind went to him. And he is pretty great. He seems to be very studious as well.

  4. Asp Emp says:

    Thank you for this, HG xxx

  5. Viol. says:

    Caught the last few seconds of the livestream 😫–sle4p8ng late during a week off. Do the RF and Mrn on Grey have plans in place for when (not if) HW tries her usual attention-getting shenanigans during the Coronation?

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