Spanked
The Ultra Narcissist met his victim in a club.
She agreed to head home with him.
How did they both get what they wanted and needed?
Understand the power dynamic between the two.
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Mr. Tudor–
You’ve repeatedly mentioned an IPSS of yours who had an autistic son and enjoyed similar activities to those described in this story. You’ve mentioned that she enjoyed giving up control and not having any worries for an hour as much as the sexual activity. You’ve had other partners who share these activity preferences. Some may simply enjoy it sexually, and some will have other reasons.
1. What other reasons have people expressed to you, beyond the giving up of responsibility and sexual gratification?
2. Do you find her reason more interesting than the others, and is that why you have selected it as the example you most commonly use? I don’t recall any other that you’ve shared that I’ve heard.
3. Is giving up control the reason that the majority have shared with you?
Thank you so much for your time! Much appreciation.
1. Pleasing me. Wanting to see how much they can endure. Wanting to watch me “in action” so to speak as it is a sight to behold. It feels comfortable to be in that role.
2. It is because it is linked to the issue of control and responsibility, something which impacts on empathic individuals and therefore serves as a useful example.
3. No, there has been no clear majority.
Thank you for answering, sir.
Control and fuel will naturally come to you in this situation.
1. When someone is coming to you for the purpose of relinquishing control (in sexual ways or outside sexual pleasure), is the experience of controlling them different for you than those with different reasons?
It feels like the atmosphere would be completely different dependent upon their reason for being there.
2. Do you find that any reason is good or do you find yourself preferring some atmospheres/fuel flavors over others and what creates that preference (if there is one)?
3. Do you have this type of dynamic with most long term
romantic partners?
You’ve said narcissists are often drawn to the dominant role in these relationships. Some are drawn to the submissive.
4. Are some narcs likely to go back and forth between roles?
Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated.
“Pleasing me. Wanting to see how much they can endure. Wanting to watch me “in action” so to speak as it is a sight to behold. It feels comfortable to be in that role.”
Well. I feel like my mind has been read.
I can understand that.