Understanding the Narcissist´s Perspective
If you understand the Narcissistic Perspective you will take a large leap forward in achieving freedom from narcissistic abuse.
One of the repeated failings that people make in their quest to understand what has happened to them is to not understand the narcissistic perspective.
This is not to empathise with it.
This is not to be sympathetic to it.
It is pure Logical Understanding.
This Logic Bulletin addresses
Clear explanations about the common mistakes that victims make when trying to understand the behaviour of the narcissist
The existence of the Majority Perspective and the Narcissistic Perspective, what that means and how they manifest.
Identification of the Strands of the Narcissistic Perspective, namely The Basic Narcissistic Perspective, The Cognitive Empathy Perspective and The Devil´s Perspective.
What each of those perspectives involves and means to the victim
Which school of narcissistic operates with which strand of the Narcissistic Perspective
What the perspectives do
Enabling you to make sense of why the narcissist behaves as he or she does and why previously you were unable to make sense of it.



I think I may be the narcissist but I am the needy vulnerable kind.
I don’t like it. I did not know this until my spouse died.
I am also dealing with this loss and the negatives of my being completely dependent upon my spouse.
I don’t know squat about living independently.
I am literally dying because I can’t adjust.
At this point I actually do need the help I would expect others to give ordinarily. Not to continue to suck off them but because I was left with no knowledge or skills.
I have learn some things but it is not enough.
Of course no one helps me because I am an entitled jerk.
I bet you do have skills. So go and help somebody with something in your area of expertise first, no matter how mundane or ordinary it may seem, and in exchange they will help you with something you need. You will stop feeling so useless, and as a bonus you get the help you require.
Do an empath detector and consult HG. Many are wrong thinking they are narcissists and most who question are not. Hugs!