Prayer For The Victim
“I will pray for you because I know that you seek redemption at my loving hand. It is understandable. You are a lost soul. I know, hush, you need not speak for restoration hangs from my lips. Listen and allow my words to grant you the salvation that you are so desperate for. I know what you are. I know because I am everywhere, I am everyone and I am everything.
I understand what has happened to you. I know how you have been let down. I know how disappointment followed you like an unshakeable shadow, no matter how you applied yourself. Oh I know beneath the sin you are a good person. Your acts and your words are like beams of white light that have punctured through the dark firmament that has wrapped itself around you, cloaking you in the venom that was placed over you so long ago. Others think that they know you, but they do not.
They think that this person who moves through life, never seeking to offend or hurt, never wanting to wound or injure, a person who wishes to bring calm, bring healing and bring solace to this world, they think that this person becomes weighed down by the misery, the chaos and the injustice which rises like some ever encroaching tide. They think that it is this which causes those pure tears to trickle down that unblemished skin.
They think that it is all of those things which coil like rusty chains about you, dragging you down, hauling you into the quagmire of human misery and dejection. They are mistaken. You can readily with those outrageous slings and arrows. You are made of stern stuff. The insults only spur you on to succeed. The recalcitrance is but a signal to you to keep trying. The rejections just symptomatic of those you wish to help not understanding their own pain.
Yes, it is trying, but you are able to rise above all of this. The woes of this world are not designed to weigh heavy on one such as you. I know this. The others do not. I understand that you were sent to bring light and love to the unloved, the broken, the hurt and the despairing.
No matter how poisonous the world you will breathe your purity out, ever giving and ever resourceful until you have pushed aside those toxic clouds, dissipated the polluted fogs and brought restorative blue skies and dazzling sunshine. You are someone who is able to right the wrongs of this world. I recognise all of this.
I also know that it is not these external troubles which mean that I must pray for you. It is the burden that lies deep within you. Few know of it do they? Just you and perhaps him oh and them as well but they do not want to talk about it do they? They did not back then.
They did not listen and you must be heard, isn’t that right? I listen to you. The difference is though I actually hear you. I hear that silent tortured scream which emanates from you regularly. That howling wilderness that exists inside someone who appears to be so wholesome. The rest of them are too eager to avail themselves of your goodness so that they fail to notice the wounds which are riddled throughout you.
The weeping sores, the festering wounds all caused by him so long ago. None of them recognise these things but I do. I am trained to do so. I am attuned to scent your agony which you mask so well but it is that pain which acts like a siren’s call to me because I am the only one that can save you. Those fools that mill about you, all they wish to do is take from you and you allow that to happen because you regard that as your role. It is admirable in the extreme.
The extent of your serenity when they might sorely test you is quite the thing to behold. Yet, there is no solace for you is there? Where is your tranquillity, your place of sanctuary? That has always been denied to you has it not? Well, no longer, for I have been sent in order to redeem you. I am the bottomless receptacle into which you must pour yourself. Alleviate yourself of the leaden weight of despair and with such excellent proclamation, cast it into me. I shall absorb it all.
Everything that has plagued you, pained you and seared through you with terrible agony can now be poured into me. I am your saviour. All I ask is that you allow your every emotion to be exhibited and exposed and in return I will be the one that finally cures you of those entrenched woes. Nobody understands what you have endured, but I do. I did not see what happened to you but I know what happened to you. It is etched across you, in the way you smile, the way you move, the way you love.
Only I can recognise this and in turn that is why it is only me that can be your salvation. Nobody else can achieve that for you. You do not even know it but that is why you are drawn to me in this manner, with such intensity. You think that you know what I am. You do not. You will come to think that you must repair me and make me good once again. But it is you that must be mended.
There is something very wrong with you, something that happened so long ago that often you forget what it is, but it will not forget you. I am the redeemer. I am your salvation.
Kneel before me and with my anointed hand, let me place it on your wretched head and in so doing I shall cleanse you. You have found me now and you shall never be parted from me, for now it is only I that can save you.”
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And yet, Beth, I identify you as accepting the same manipulations you point out in HG’s post. You merely applied a different perspective to help you accept immersion in religion as different than narcissist ensnarement. The result being the same – control. I understand that you likely won’t see that any more than the narcissist’s victims do while ensnared.
NarcAngel : you and HG. It is always a question. Why God allows good faithful people to suffer. Even when Jesus walked this Earth and performed miracles not to mention He gave his son to death ( who rose) to forgive us for our sins. Yet, pain and suffering remains HERE in this short time we walk the Earth. I am an absolute believer but it does not stop me from recognizing the value of HG ‘s work or the reality of pain and suffering on this Earth. Do I believe God could stop it? Yes. But so did the disciples in thinking they could protect Jesus. I have no answer yet I believe. This is a reality so basic that it is un-disputable. BUT I don’t see TRUE applications of what Christ taught: love, kindness, compassion, humbleness, sacrifice for others, forgiveness, giving to the poor, the sick, the meek, focusing on community and love versus money as in anyway equal to a narcarcisst’s pursuit for fuel. So I dispute your allegations to Beth, a devout Christian. I am not sure if you are attacking Christ through your comments but if so, you are ignorant of his fundamental teachings. HG is correct: narcs exist on this Earth. Their harm is real. A true belief may help, mine did, but God has not stepped in to stop inarc abuse any more than any pain and suffering we endure on Earth to date through time. So we are here to help each other through our own free will maybe some stemming from the teachings of Christ and for others maybe from their beliefs an easy hints I have great respect for all that love fellow men snd help make this planet but the important fact is we help each other. We help our brothers and sisters and I believe HG’s work does just that;)
If you hate Christ and want to discuss his existence or message Any-day and anytime. Ask HG if Christ was a narc. Sam said he was. I would love to debate the historical evidence to the contrary.
But perhaps Narc Angel your blog message did not say that….
I understand your perspective, but for me this is not about religion, control, or blind acceptance. This is about relationship with God, knowing His Word, and living from a surrendered heart that is willing to hear truth even when it corrects, convicts, and transforms.
Control seeks to dominate and keep a person bound. God’s truth does the opposite, it brings freedom, healing, discernment, and peace. There is a clear difference between manipulation that ensnares and truth that sets a person free.
A surrendered heart is not the same as being controlled. It is a willing heart that chooses to listen, grow, and align with what is righteous. That kind of surrender is born from love and truth, not coercion.
This post reveals how deception often comes wrapped in the language of rescue, understanding, and false redemption. This is exactly how many victims become ensnared without even realizing what they are being drawn into. The voice presented here imitates comfort, discernment, and even salvation, but it is a counterfeit of what belongs to God alone.
No human being is anyone’s savior. Redemption, healing, and restoration do not come from another person demanding surrender, dependence, or emotional submission. That belongs to God alone through Christ. The danger for the unaware victim is that this kind of voice speaks directly to old wounds, unmet needs, abandonment, and pain from the past. It identifies the wound and then places itself as the only source of relief. That is where the trap begins.
This is why spiritual discernment is so important. The enemy often moves through confusion, emotional vulnerability, and false comfort, especially when someone is carrying unresolved pain. What appears to be understanding can in reality be manipulation wrapped in spiritual language. The Holy Bible “For God is not a God of disorder but of peace” (1 Corinthians 14:33, NIV).
The true voice of God never enslaves, never demands that someone kneel before another human being, and never replaces Christ as redeemer.
For the victim who is unaware, this is exactly how trauma bonds and emotional dependency are formed. The person feels seen in their pain, but in reality their wound is being used as the doorway for control. The truth is that healing comes from bringing those wounds before God, not laying them at the feet of someone who seeks power over broken places.
There is only one Savior, and His name is Jesus Christ.
You better preach, Beth! Say it louder for the people in the back.
God is love, and TRUE love ‘does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails’ (1 Corinthians 13:6-8a, NIV).
Hallelujah and a thousand times Amen!
Guess nobody divorces then.
Amen. I agree Faith. This does not stop Narcs however. But prayer is always the best. God also gave us two hands. One to help ourselves. The other to help others;)
Perfect! And unlike Sam Vatnimwho lost many given Christianity is the largest religion in the world…. I have never heard HG attack Jesus, my Lord and Savior.