Shifting Sands

You feel like you are trying to deal with an opponent that always seems to be one step ahead. It is like trying to tie down a vapour or stop the tide from advancing and engulfing your sand castle. No matter what you do, we always seem to have a way of squirming free, walking […]

Why Does The Narcissist Blow Hot and Cold – Part 2

The hot and cold behaviour of an individual towards someone else is perplexing. Why is that person warm and friendly one moment and then cold and distant on another occasion when there has been no (at least to the recipient) change in circumstance? Why does this person engage with the recipient and then give a […]

Why Does The Narcissist Blow Hot and Cold? Part One

. “I don’t get it, one minute he is all smiles and cuddles and the next he acts like he doesn’t know me.” “I don’t know what is going on. Earlier in the week he wanted to hang out with me and now when I call to make arrangements he doesn’t seemed bothered.” “He was […]