The creation of anxiety and uncertainty are twin concerns which we engender in much of what we do. Both have the effect of stopping you from doing things, preventing you from analysing matters in an effective way and ultimately from helping yourself to escape our hold. One way of doing this is through […]
You know how much I like to drive my car. It is an impressive vehicle. It is fast, attractive and demonstrates to the world beyond just how superior I am to other road users as I surge past them with just the slightest pressure on the accelerator. Cocooned inside this metal shell I race from […]
Narcissists have a different world view to you. Failing to understand this results in the behaviour which seems entirely appropriate from our perspective, being confusing, bewildering and utterly unbelievable from your perspective. This results in the use of flawed logic, bad decisions and continued ensnarement with the narcissist. To understand how the behaviour is unbelievable and importantly what you can […]
Vent your spleen. Have your say. Give us both barrels. Let us know what you really think. Such sentiments towards my kind are entirely understandable and they invariably occur post discard and sometimes post escape. There are differing rationales associated with this almost overwhelming need to speak to us about your experience of being entangled […]
“He is always in my mind.” “Try as I might I just cannot get him out of my head.” “I can’t stop thinking about him.” I am sure such comments or similar have been made by you at some point about the narcissist in your life. We have this formidable capability to get into your […]