Why am I behaving like the narcissist? This is a common question that I read and that I am asked. It causes worry and anxiety, it also leads to holes occurring in the No Contact Regime because an empathic victim lays blame on themselves and then engages in remedial action which damages that […]

  In the beginning you are resourceful, confident and independent. Those attributes are there with no need for brazen displays but rather they exist in an understated and quiet manner. Then we arrive. The imposition of our manipulations is designed to bring life to these seven sins in order to leave you susceptible to our […]

If you have not taken the quiz about the empath, you may do so HERE If you have done so and found the elbow getting in the way of being an empath or you want to learn more about the empath with insightful explanations and guidance through the correct answers (and why) and the wrong […]

In order to manipulate you and control you, we rely on certain behaviours which cause you to act out of fear. Fear of injury, isolation, financial ruin, loss of your home or loss of your children. We also rely on your deeply embedded sense of obligation. Owing to your honesty and decency, you feel need […]

  Do you know your empath from your elbow? Let’s find out! Additional resources The Empathy Cake The Empath Detector The Trait Detector Understanding Emotional Empathy Weaponised Empath Detector