The Spheres of Influence – What Triggers a Hoover By The Narcissist?

There are numerous factors which govern whether we will attempt to hoover you post-escape or post-discard. Some of these factors determine the style of the hoover, whether it will be malign or benign and also how often the attempts will be made. There are several considerations which have a material impact on whether a hoover […]

But What If He Is There Too?

  You have been invited to a social event. Perhaps it is a birthday party, a wedding anniversary dinner, a BBQ or drinks at a friends. You are no longer in a Formal Relationship with the narcissist, but you know that he is likely going to be there. It might be that a mutual friend […]

The Hoovers : Expanded Answers

You took the quiz, The Hoovers and you may need more understanding to master the study of the narcissistic hoover. Fortunately for you, you have the best teacher to hand. Not only does this document provide you with the answers, it explains why the answer is as it is and why the other options were […]

The Ten Types of Victim the Narcissist Hoovers

I make repeated mention of how we always come back for more. This of course is the brilliance of the hoover. Some people struggle to comprehend that we will always keep returning for more fuel, if the opportunity arises. Why would we not? We love fuel. We love your fuel (after all that was why […]

Quiz : The Hoover

How well do you understand The Hoover? Are you full of Logic and a Cement Shoe Empath or are you still learning and need to grab that Lampost of Logic to avoid being sucked by in by the narcissists hoovering? Take this quiz and find out how good your knowledge is, about the hoover.