A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 14

      M, It is etched in my mind and I used to visit it often. April 2, I laid eyes on you for the first time as I watched as you walk from your front door to your car. I swooned and said aloud, “I’m in big trouble”. The truth in that statement haunts me […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 13

  tHiNg, I bet you weren’t expecting to hear from me. Surprise surprise! Since I have the good fortune of not being face to face with you, I would like to touch base with you, because I haven’t, since our DIVORCE. (yes yes I know…you don’t consider us divorced, but, well the Law says we […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 12

  Is your soul still stuck on the rat wheel you can’t get off, where there is a new beginning at 12 o’clock and by 6 o’clock the disappointment and devaluation begins, disengaged by 11 o’clock and it all starts again…………..and so on, and so on , constantly reinventing yourself using pieces of them all  […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 11

  Life around you has been the proverbial dog chasing his own tail. Each and evey moment..you ..manipulating me and others. I have stepped back,watched and went along with you calling me names..you yourself really are…. “faults”…you yourself needed to fix. Impossible tasks, jumping through hoops,….all has to be accomplish being a better person. All […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 10

    You have been outed by H.G. Tudor.  Yes, you fooled me for 42 years.  I thought most of your behavior was caused by the fact that you are a recovering alcoholic even though you have not had a drink in over 30 years.  At times, I thought you were also a sex addict, but now I […]