Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 32

  Dear A, I don’t know how to hold on to you any longer. Those were my last words to you. After yet another all nighter of flaring tempers and cruel accusations, you had at last resorted to violently abusing me, appeasing the monster within, finally letting loose upon me the raging fury that I’ve […]

Knowing the Narcisisst : Letter to the Narcissist : No. 139

    To my ex,   Not until I actually left and didn’t go back to you, did I realize what kind of man you were.  I couldn’t understand, I felt like I was going insane.  We married after a year, and then you changed.  You treated me with nothing but disrespect.  You were a […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Letter to the Narcissist : No. 138

  To my ex…    It has happened, tho sooner than I ever expected. Only nine weeks after you met her. Already married and already packed up and left you.   Your new wife has contacted me, just like I knew she would.  She has questions, she’s looking for answers.  She doesn’t understand, poor thing.  She […]

Letter to the Narcissist : Letter No. 137

  Hello A. Do you remember the promise I made to you yesterday: “I won’t talk about you with anyone from now on” ? Yes, I agreed that you had the right to be forgotten, but this morning I recalled every word you said yesterday. I was told you had a girlfriend, but I couldn’t […]

Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 136

  To my narcissist husband and father of our two beautiful boys,    You don’t pick up after yourself,  you leave empty beer cans everywhere, you go out and play men’s adult sports multiple times a week and then go out drinking for hours after. Don’t do your laundry and then you rage at everyone […]