I don’t want to believe you are a narcissist. Your behaviour had me looking up manipulation and empathy and brought me to descriptions of narcissism that sound so much like the things you say and the way you compose yourself. Still I don’t want to believe it. I like to think you have […]

      Dear Mr H You seduced, you stole, you exalted, you annihilated, You elevated, you decimated, you connected, you sucked me dry, You opened me up, you closed me down, You delivered me to ecstasy, you devalued and discarded me, You were sensual, you were sardonic, You made my heart smile, you tore […]

I recently invited readers to pen the letter that they would like to send to the narcissist that they entangled with. Here is the letter which ‘JJ’ would like to send. Does it mirror your sentiments and experience at all? How do you think the narcissist would react to receiving this? “Hey sorry I didn’t […]

  I forgive you. As one should not blame the blind for failing to see, or the deaf for not hearing the melodies we sing to you, I cannot blame you for what you are. I understand it comes from a place of shame, of pain, and from a childhood deprived of love. As the […]

  I invited readers to pen the letter that they would like to send to the narcissist that they entangled with. Here is the letter which ‘Cordelia’ would like to send. Does it mirror your sentiments and experience at all? How do you think the narcissist would react to receiving this? If you would like […]