Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 135

    You have been my best friend, my big sister, someone I admire and look up to. You are 4 years older than me. My beautiful blonde hair, blue eyed, funny, vibrant and charming big sister. I never considered until recently of the possibility that you could be a narcissist. But it’s hard to […]

Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 40

  Hello Dear, you were one of my best friends in high school although we never hooked up back then I always respected and cared about you but never imagined I could  love you not like this anyway. I looked past your flaws, imperfections and shortcomings and seen a man that could accomplish anything. I […]

Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 39

  You were the brightest and darkest time of my life.  It was the best of times.  It was the worst of times.  Yes I know this is from Dickens. This makes me laugh now.  I believed we were on an adventure; on an unknown path.  I laugh at how ordinary and predictable it all […]

Knowing the Narcissist : A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 38

Here’s to that thankfully fateful and particularly enlightening moment in the crazy Joe show, when I realized exactly what you are and that I, just like every person you know, and will ever meet, was there simply to prop up and maintain the infirmity of your colossal ego. It’s cool Baby. I simply flipped that […]

Knowing the Narcissist : Letter to the Narcissist : No. 134

  To my ex narcissist, Since I have escaped you, I have pieced together all the things that never made sense.  All the stories about yourself, your run-ins with the law, the sexual stories that were morally wrong.  I have spoken to people that knew you before me.  I have compared my life with you […]