We narcissists create unusual milestones for the purposes of maintaining our narcissistic grip on our victims. The calendar is festooned with milestones. There are those which are applicable to everybody, for example, a person’s birthday.  There are others which are applicable to a large proportion of people on the planet, Christmas, Easter Sunday, Valentine’s […]

          And so to today, Valentine’s Day. It was time for Gillian to be punished for her three prior transgressions where she had wounded me. Gillian who thinks she is far more capable in her position as head of her department than she actually is. Gillian who adopts the role of […]

There are many advantages to being the Ultra Narcissist. One of those advantages is the ability to control one’s ignited fury.  Total control of that ignited fury has proven, so far, elusive, but we do maintain significant control over it. Accordingly, whereas the Lesser Narcissist will erupt with heated fury when wounded – he tells […]

    Of the many consequences of becoming entangled with our kind, there is one which is always present. This is the racing mind. The racing mind begins in the hinterland between the seduction and the devaluation as we start to create doubt in your mind, create ambiguity and generate concern on your part. There […]

  It is well known that our kind operate by the wearing of masks. We have learned how to portray those emotions which we do not feel. We have ascertained that in certain situations we are expected to respond in a particular way. We know that by donning a particular mask we are more likely […]