Knowing the Narcissist : Game For A Laugh : The Narcissist and Humour

    Where does a sense of humour fit into the make-up of the narcissist? I am pleased to report I have an excellent sense of humour – when it suits me. As a consequence of being well-read, interested in the world (for the purposes of ensuring my place is firmly recognised within it) and […]

The Narcissist and Marriage

  Marriage. Widely-regarded as one of the central events in a person’s life. Whether it is a traditional church affair with white wedding dress, a civil ceremony inside a football stadium, something unusual such as at the bottom of a swimming pool, a same sex union, a week long Indian wedding or getting spliced in […]

Parasite

    You fed off me and I am sick of it. You attached yourself to me drawn by my magnetism, but I never asked you to. You just decided that you wanted to be with me, you need me, truth be told and because I am magnanimous I allowed you to attach to me […]

Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery

  This is a capricious, arbitrary and hostile world. It must be brought to heel, tamed and subjected to the exertion of control. My control. This is why I must cause every appliance that I come across to become attached to me. From my next door neighbour who I say hello to and exchange banal […]

My Secret Garden

  Would you like to know what my garden is like? Before I tell you, why don’t you stop and close your eyes and picture in your mind’s eye what you think my garden looks like? That’s right, conjure up the image that forms when you think of me and what my garden might be […]