Trying Behaviour

  You do not give up easily do you? We are pleased that this is the case. You try to resurrect what we once had. You will look to resuscitate our relationship. You want to breathe new life into you and me. You want to salvage what you can from the wreckage and build something […]

Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery

  This is a capricious, arbitrary and hostile world. It must be brought to heel, tamed and subjected to the exertion of control. My control. This is why I must cause every appliance that I come across to become attached to me. From my next door neighbour who I say hello to and exchange banal […]

Why Does The Narcissist Blow Hot and Cold – Part 2

The hot and cold behaviour of an individual towards someone else is perplexing. Why is that person warm and friendly one moment and then cold and distant on another occasion when there has been no (at least to the recipient) change in circumstance? Why does this person engage with the recipient and then give a […]

Where Has He Gone? What Does it Mean When the Narcissist Vanishes?

  The relationship had hit a rocky patch, albeit describing it as such would actually understate the manner in which our relationship has progressed as of late. It would be more accurate to describe it as a series of peaks and troughs. The devaluation began and the unpleasant behaviour has worsened. There have been peaks […]