I often read comments along the lines of “I am ensnared by a narcissist and he knows exactly what he is doing, he is calculating it all and is determined to destroy me.” I have no doubt that such belief is honestly held, but it is usually incorrectly held. Why is that? It is only Greater […]

    In the shadowed elegance of my penthouse, where the city’s neon veins pulse below, I watch Elena step through the door, her silhouette a delicate provocation against the twilight glow. The air carries my scent, a signature that clings to me as surely as my authority. She pauses, her breath catching, a bird […]

    You fed off me and I am sick of it. You attached yourself to me drawn by my magnetism, but I never asked you to. You just decided that you wanted to be with me, you need me, truth be told and because I am magnanimous I allowed you to attach to me […]

  The infamous hoover is widely-used and once people learn to recognise the various hoovers that we deploy they can often be seen coming thick and fast following your escape from us or if you have been discarded.  Every so often however some people point out that they have not have been hoovered. The narcissist […]

    When the narcissist, albeit you will not have recognized that that is what that person is, first enters your life, they will act with undue haste. Where you have met, for instance, the narcissist at a function, within 15 minutes, they’re already declaring that it feels like they’ve known you all their life. […]