The Key to Entry

With the brief injunction from my mother to ensure I spoke up or suffer the consequences I returned to the consulting room of Dr M. We took our seats and he smiled before adjusting his suit trousers, pulling them up at the thigh. I cast a quick glance to his nether regions but no hole had yet emerged.

“Now Mr Tudor, we did not make much progress last week. It is of no concern. I wondered if you perhaps felt more amenable to speaking with me on this occasion?”

I started to nod and then spoke.

“Very well.”

“Excellent. What would you like to talk about?” he asked.

“Why am I here as in why am I sat in your consulting room,” I clarified before he started providing me with some smart alec response as to the meaning of my existence. I knew why my family had insisted that I see Dr M and more recently underline the necessity of speaking to him, but I wanted to know what he thought. That way I would be better prepared to deflect him.

“Why do you think you are here with me?” he answered casually. Marvellous. He was one of those people who answered a question with another question.

“I asked first,” I pointed out. He nodded.

“Your family are concerned about you.” I snorted which seemed to take him by surprise.

“Those bastards only care about themselves.”

“Why do you say that?” asked Dr M seizing on my remark.

“It does not matter, go on, you were saying.”

“Your family are concerned about you. I met with them and they provided me with background information. I am aware that you are a high achiever and have always been so. Your family are concerned however that you stop at nothing to get what you want, that you have disdain for most people and you leave a trail of carnage in your wake. I think that is a succinct way of putting it. They want me to discuss this with you and to receive my opinion.” he explained.

“It’s bullshit all of it,” I remarked. My voice was low but the venom was tangible. Dr M remained silent.

“I have no idea what they are talking about. I stop at nothing to get what I want? They have never complained about my achievements before. They don’t like it that I am outshining them. That is the problem here. They always do this. Try and make their problems my problems, I am sick and tired of it. I have forged my own path and done bloody well too and all they want to do is bring me down. It is jealousy. That’s why I have little to do with them. Did they tell you that? I bet they tried to make out that I am aloof and never attend family gatherings didn’t they? They never invite me to them. I keep in touch most with my younger brother and he tells me about these gatherings and I always find out after the event. Did my younger brother speak to you?”

Dr M nodded.

“Who else?” I asked.

“Both your parents, your sister, your younger brother and your cousin, Charlotte.”

“Huh, the usual cabal. All of them are liars. Do you have any idea what it is like having to put up with all of them? My god it is a wonder that I am a success. My mother is always trying to pin the blame for her shortcomings on me. She would love to plant a microchip in my head and control me. That would be ideal for her. She has controlled my father for years. He isn’t a bad fellow really but he fell under her spell and believes anything she says and if he dares not to well let’s just say he has suffered the consequences too many times before so he has learned his lesson. It’s weak of him and I hate him for being like that. He should stand up to her rather than be her metaphorical punching bag. Always tries to keep the peace at first and then takes her side. He is brainwashed and my sister is just as bad. Jesus she always defers to my mother, but then she could never make a decision for herself. So Charlie has weighed in as well has she? Do you know why doctor M? It is because she wants me for herself and I won’t let that happen. Bet they did not tell you that did they? She is totally in love with me and because I have rejected her this is how she goes about paying me back by making up lies about me. I would not put it past that harpy to try and section me you know. You don’t want to believe anything that lot say to you.”

Dr M was jotting down the odd note as I spoke. Yes, make some notes Dr M and you can tell them what I think of them. How dare they? How bastard dare they make out like I am the one with the problem. I should be used to it by now but it still infuriates me. I stood up, agitated at this unwarranted attack on me.

“This is what they always do doctor. I am the one who was suffered at their hands. Years of it but they twist it around and try to pin the blame on me. I have made the best of a bad hand and they cannot stand to see me doing well so they conjure up this. Liars the lot of them.”

I was pacing up and down in front of the fireplace and fighting to resist the urge to grab one of the logs and hurl it at the large mirror which hung above the fireplace.

“I wish they were all dead doctor, you have no idea. The times I have wished that they would get wiped out in some car accident or a building falls on them when they are inside. They have made my life hell and just as I am pulling free of them they pull this stunt. I hate them. I am surprised at my brother joining in with this as well, I thought he had some sense.”

“Your brother expressed considerable concern about you and wants to help you,” offered Dr M.

“I don’t need any help. I suggest you fill your sessions with them. You will have plenty of material for your shrink times or whatever publication you write for. My mother is a control freak with a drink problem,my father is spineless, my sister is a professional victim oh yes, ask her about her failed marriage but make sure you have the bleeding heart and violins to hand. My cousin, well as I said, she is a lecherous nymphomaniac and as for my brother, he has gone down in my estimation joining this cabal of perfidy.”

I spat the words out as I waved my arms around, windmilling through the air. I felt a little better for this explosion of annoyance and I returned to my seat and sat down. Dr M was still writing.

“So Dr M there really is nothing to see here. I know you will want to make some money from us and I respect that, you are like me, you see an opportunity and exploit it. Nothing wrong with that. Let me give you a tip. You need to suggest working with those liars and parking your involvement with me. You have nothing to achieve here but as for them, well you will make a fortune sorting out the quagmire that is their lives.”

I sat back and smiled as Dr M continued to write. I had spoken up just as she had urged. I had done as I was told. Again. This time though I was fighting back.

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14 thoughts on “The Key to Entry”

  1. An interesting read for sure! It is fascinating to know more about your background… it seems an odd coincidence that my narcissistic ex had parents with similar traits as yours.. The mother totally controlled the father and he had learned not to protest. (But in that case, it was the father who developed a drinking problem).

    I am sorry you had these troubles with your family members. Although I would hope that it was out of genuine concern that they wanted to help you… (At least your brother’s concern seemed real, from how you previously described him). Cheers.

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  2. Interesting HG , deflecting or trying to deflect the good doctor away from the issues with you and blaming your family.

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  3. Thinking a our it my exes mother was very much in charge and his dad just did as he was told. I used to go and help him when she was barking out her orders. Just think that could have been my fate 😱😱

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  4. HG after reading many of your books( yes dear man I post a review after each one) I have so many thoughts and questions! I don’t want to ask to many at one time so I’ll start with only one. In your opinion could a young boy who was molested when he was a adolescent and again when he was a teenager ( different people) develope his narcissism as a way of escape or protecting himself? My ex was very much into porn with men. I didn’t find this out until later and he actually told me about it. He said at the time he was embarrassed and ashamed and seemed very anxious for me to tell him if I thought he was gay! It took me a few minutes to think about what I wanted to say and I could tell he was getting anxious in fact I got the tick tock he Said or wrote that whenever I didn’t answer him fast enough. Could he really be hiding his homosexual desires deep inside of him and not being able to be what he truly wants to be bring out his narcissism? Thank you HG for all the wonderful posts and books that you write. You are such a talented writer. Xo

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  5. No offence HG but typical Narc response . Your family have seen the real HG & you don’t like it so try & make out that they are the ones with the issues . The reality is that you know what they say is true & that’s why you were so angry because you don’t want the truth to be heard . Ex narc was exactly the same, as soon as I outed him for what he is the smear campaign went up another gear .. not that it hadn’t already started , that happened long before the relationship ended . You wish them dead because they know your secrets right ? Very interesting article BTW . Ty .

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  6. Not sure you can out smart the good doctors, although I’m sure you believe you do. Your performance must amuse them, and given they know you’re a narcissist, they probably expect you to deflect, blame others and take absolutely no responsibility. It must hurt to hear the feedback from your family; to know they know who you are and to share this negative perception of you with others…

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    1. It must hurt to hear the feedback from your family; to know they know who you are and to share this negative perception of you with others…Nice thought Castiel But Narcs only think of them selves x

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  7. wow well said (applause for You) after that session You probably needed loads of fuel x and I’m sure You found plenty.

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