A Question of Time


7 thoughts on “A Question of Time”

  1. Which one? I went from one relationship to the next until I realized what was going on. The first one and the one that did most damage was 14 years… over 20 before I finally dug out his last hook and managed a divorce.

  2. Less than one year for recent MN.
    A few with somatic but he didn’t have any affect on me.

    I’ve had good romantic relationships. It’s been more of An issue with female friendships. Who followed all the same patterns As an N. At first I cut them all out of my life, but they can be fun to hang out with, so I keep them only as outer circle friends now. And never go out of my way to help them any more.

    I know you were looking for quantitive data 🙂 🙂

  3. First marriage (“friends with benefits” type, no regrets and recriminations after it) – 7 years.

    Second marriage (current, very comfortable and productive for both) – 13 years.


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