Red Flag

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  1. bethany7337 says:

    I read Red Flags in under two hours., i find HG’s reasons for doing what he does most interesting and helpful.

    My N displayed every single one except for badmouthing his Ex. I think he was wise to the fact I wiujd know this was a red flag in addition to wanting me to feel threatened by her and triangulated.

    The most haunting of all is the foreshadowing – the tells. Mine said stuff like:

    “I can be an insensitive asshole”
    “Maybe I’m just bad”
    “I’m going to hell you know”
    “I know I don’t deserve you”

  2. Sheila says:

    I will say I’m a little captivated by a gentlemen that is a police officer. He seems quite nice and has all the right ‘ticks’ in the boxes for me if I was seriously looking, but that just raises big red flags for me in itself. The profession it’s self if so full of N’s to begin with is another one.

    1. nikitalondon says:

      I started reading Sheila and its pretty good. With the book you can create a checklist and asses.

  3. Sheila says:

    I put a big ‘ol neon flashing “SUPER EMPATH” sign up proclaiming my love of all things rescued. Had to make sure I had the right bait in the hook 😉

    1. malignnarc says:

      Ha ha

    2. nikitalondon says:

      This is so funny Sheila 😂😂😂 please do tell us more

      1. Sheila says:

        Leaving for work very soon and need to get ready, but I’ll share some of the info on a few profiles with my take on the actual meaning when I get a chance.

  4. Sheila says:

    It was one of your previous comments that your kind like to use dating sites to find their next victim. It sounded like a good place to do some observing and test my own theories in waters that are known feeding grounds.

    1. malignnarc says:

      Absolutely. Dating sites are on of our hunting grounds.

      1. Sheila says:

        It’s only been 2 days, but I am almost certain 3 of the hits on my profile are definitely Ns

        1. malignnarc says:

          Feel free to keep us posted

        2. nikitalondon says:

          Really?? How do you know this?? What red flags did you see??

          1. malignnarc says:

            They were all called HG that might have given a slight clue.

    2. nikitalondon says:

      Sheila I was very unlucky. 2 years ago I put my profile in a recognized dating site and 3 hours after the first message I received was from the most narcissistic guy of all. Telling me he would be interested in contacting me if I would be interested in BDSM. So I was not so corageous as you. I deleted my profile. Keep us updated on your findings 😃😃

      1. malignnarc says:

        Nikita you promised me you wouldn’t mention that again!

        1. nikitalondon says:

          Ohhhh sorry but I had to tell Sheila the story.. Its the last time now 😝

          1. malignnarc says:

            Ha ha

      2. Sheila says:

        Oh Nikita I can feel your shock from here. I would have reacted the same way myself several years ago if I hadn’t done some assertiveness training and learned not to let those things shell shock me anymore.

        1. nikitalondon says:

          Yes Sheila you could not be more right. I was in a shock. I had not expected to receive such a message in such a site. i suppose there are other sites for that.

  5. Sheila says:

    In the middle of a 36 hr work weekend, but I may buy this when I’ve got a chance. I think I may have a good idea already on the Red Flags to look for, I just need to trust my gut feeling on that. Currently conducting a little experiment of my own to hone those skills. I signed up for an elite dating site, not actually to date but to see how many N’s I can spot. I think I might be being ‘tailed’ though… I am almost positive one profile is my recent ex! Haha

    1. malignnarc says:

      Bringing the skill set to bear eh Sheila?

  6. alexis2015s says:

    Read it 🙂 love it 🙂 next ?

    1. malignnarc says:

      I am impressed. Thank you. a review. Next up is either Your Fault or Ask the Narcissist

      1. alexis2015s says:

        My fault ?

        1. malignnarc says:

          Yes “Your Fault: Blame and the Narcissist “

          1. alexis2015s says:

            I know, I was kidding 😉

          2. malignnarc says:

            Just making sure you knew it was your fault. Again.

          3. alexis2015s says:

            It’s always my fault ! Everyone tells me that 🙂

  7. Evan711 says:

    Me too!

    1. malignnarc says:

      Super duper!

      1. Evan711 says:


  8. nikitalondon says:

    Will always be there…. ☀️☀️

  9. nikitalondon says:

    Was the first one!!!! ☀️☀️⛽️

  10. nikitalondon says:

    Got it 💋.

    1. malignnarc says:

      Blimey,that was fast!

      1. nikitalondon says:

        See!!! And Im out for drinks with friends.. But always there to be the first one for your books.

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