Idealised and Ignored

Idealised and Ignored by [Tudor, H G]

Why does the narcissist idealise you? Why does he then ignore you as he embarks on devaluation? HG Tudor offers his insight as a narcissistic sociopath into these two fundamental elements of the narcissistic dynamic and thereafter provides his enlightening observations on how these elements are played out in so many instances and occurrences between the narcissist and his or her victim.





28 thoughts on “Idealised and Ignored

  1. I am reading it today

  2. Actually, that was a broad question – I shall rephrase…do you practice a particular religion…and as always, thanks for your consideration to the question πŸ˜‰

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No I do not practise a religion.

  3. My favorite part so far is the Prayer…HG, are you a Gnostic?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I would not describe myself as such Sarah but some of that way of thinking would appear applicable to me.

      1. Are you religious?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          When it suits me.

  4. Maddie says:

    I think I’ve made spelling mistake in” They are the most important… ” apologies xxx

  5. Maddie says:

    Read it just finished ❀❀❀amazing clarifies a lot and made me reflect on myself a lot. You are definitely THE BEST WRITER in the world!!! Plus You are the most intelligent and courageous Man I’ve ever known! Thank You for Your words, written and spoken. They are the most important one to me now. I wish the books were printed though as I’m old schooled lol

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Maddie, I do appreciate that. I am steadily working towards other titles being available in paperback and a choice few as audio books.

      1. Maddie says:

        I hope one of them will be “Sex and the narcissist “! It will replace every possible sex toy and porn movie for women!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          It will be. There is more that will go beyond Sex and the Narcissist.

      2. Maddie says:

        Can’t wait! Xxx

  6. nikitalondon says:

    I have bought it also !

  7. love says:

    Hush… how tantalizing… Such a exhilarating and disturbing read.

  8. Twinkle toes says:

    This isn’t the last I’ll hear from Tubby. He did this back in 2005 (although I was only a secondary source at the time so no nasty discard, he just ghosted me…for over a year). Then he reappeared when needed something specific from me again. It may take years but I have a sick feeling 😟

    Bathroom scale or can of slim fast to wrap up as his restaurant gift?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Slim fast. Summer Strawberry.

    2. nikitalondon says:


  9. Maddie says:

    Dear G. Are they paperbacks?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No just Kindle.

      1. Maddie says:

        Good morning . Did You sleep at all dear G? You are either exhausting Yourself or You have Minions here?
        Ps. And please don’t make promises again?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Yes I slept thank you. I am extremely busy at present, much to do, much to get done. I have minions but not here.

      2. Maddie says:

        Thank You for replying. I wonder how You can function with no much sleep dear G. Got the book. Loving it… I can see that it is the only way to get to know You. Wish there were audio books read by You…

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The audio books are in the pipeline, I just have to book some studio time. I am pleased you are enjoying the book, thank you.

  10. When I clicked on the US Link, it states: “This title is not currently available for purchase.” Any idea when it will be?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It’s available now Sarah.

      1. Thanks! Excited to read it!

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