The Narcissistic Truths – No. 149

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9 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 149”

  1. H G, what does this mean? I admit to being stupid, but I beg you please dumb it down for me if you wouldn’t mind. I adore your writing, admire and obsess over you from afar.๐Ÿ’œ
    -frecklemeadow

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      1. Good morning HG,
        How soon do you feel that you do this?
        When you first decide we are your target?
        At the Seduction part?
        When you have us?

        At you are completely right! Of course.
        She wanted me to experience everything in her world. Her tastes, her restaurants, her type of movies, her sexuality, her fashion sense. When you look at her wife she has now become the exact replica of my ex. She morphed into her.
        She always thought what I was interested in was stupid. Her thoughts and interests were always better.

        It’s confusing because you think we are the ones that you want to change but you want what we have.
        I would have looked at myself in a few years and not recognized myself.

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  2. Please tell h g tudor he’s completely missed out on the categories of co-dependant and or super empath. I am one. I am also independent. Explain that! Enjoy my fuel ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ‘

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  3. In learning about my last few, many of their girlfriends overtime appeared to take on their traits, and not to the point that would be reasonable, i mean a complete identity turn around, like “wtf have you done with ___ ” turn around. Scary stuff. Also if Ns borrow traits as not many are innate to them, then who are their gfs turning into? A real cluster f…

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  4. In learning about my last few, many of their girlfriends overtime appeared to take on their traits, and not to the point that would be reasonable, i mean a complete identity turn around, like “wtf have you done with ___ ” turn around. Scary stuff. Also if Ns borrow traits as not many are innate to them, then who are their gfs turning into? A real cluser f…

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  5. Would/could this project of engulfing the fuel source result in the primary source taking on the behaviors, thought processes, and emtional structure of the narcissist; in essence, acting as a sort of Mancurian Candidate delivering the devaluation, discards, and other assorted brutalities on behalf of the narcissist? What would it take then for the source to wake up out of this nightmare? Thanks HG-

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  6. What if it’s the other way around – the narc mirrors his victim’s likes and dislikes? Starts drinking tea for the first time if you do, apparently likes the same music, outdoor activities etc.

    Is this the action of a narc?

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