The Narcissistic Truths – No. 166

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  1. The subconscious mind thinks and relates through imagery. You use it frequently in your writing to convey your messages which makes them completely relatable and easy to understand. That leads to success for you in bringing more people to your work.
    I can only imagine how potent you are creating an illusion with words in person and one-on-one!

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      1. Haha!
        H.G., I have a question. Can one ever “overthink” a move or statement when dealing with one of your kind? And if you’re being accused of “overthinking” is that probably a case of deflection?

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      2. It is a frequent response of our victims to overthink. This is because until you understand the narcissistic logic, being a truth-seeking empath you will look for answers over and over again as you try to make sense of something which appears to make no sense, from our perspective.
        If you are accused of overthinking it is indeed deflection and falls into the same group as “you are too sensitive”, “you need to move on”, “you dwell on things too much” and so forth.

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      3. In the context it was thrown at me yesterday, it was because JN tried a social media Hoover on my new Instagram account and was met with hostility rather than the deliberate uber positive fuel I gave him the last few times he hoovered. So clearly the logic is I over think and drain him with confrontation. He found me in an hour upon activating my account. I was impressed with that speed.
        To Snow White, if you read this, my sixth Spidey sense must have kicked in having those dreams with him last week and he reached out Sunday night. 3-1/2 weeks this time no contact. Back to day one today.

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  2. I had to deal with a female narcissist today. She is a superior at work. I did something, she didn`t like. What followed? A ten minutes monologue, full of hidden insults, a lot of contradictions, threats to go to a higher superior, telling, that all the others have the same opinion like her but she does not want to say names… I tried to stay very calm and at last I said I do not understand, why are you so emotional? I looked at her relatively emotionless, although I cooked inside.. She quit. I know there will follow a smear campaign, but I recognised a lot of workmates who gave me secret or open signs of support. There will be a fight. She is so self-secure, that she does not mention, that there are only a few lieutenants left. The lieutenants change side.Treasury? Yes, but for my advantage.

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  3. H.G., mine claimed to feel guilt. He told me he felt guilty being in contact with me when his daughter asked him not to. Is guilt something you feel? If not, what would motivate him to say that?

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  4. Hmm yes the higher ups are seeing they were just words, yet I do feel like I gave him the rope to hang himself with and I have mixed emotions on that.
    For what it is worth Thank You HG,

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  5. Why must you over analyze everything? Why can’t you just go with the flow? Throw caution to the wind😊The wind was him.

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      1. No wind worth causing….😊 no revolution.

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        When the blood was red and the lies were black and white
        they put their hands together they thought the right
        we know they made mistakes but we still imiate
        keep the spirit alive when there’s nothing left at stake
        now our heroes seem further away
        your fists in the air but nothing has changed
        would they shakes their heads would they feel ashamed
        fists in the air for a fucking name
        all we know is what came before
        there’s no revolution anymore
        we look to the past and ask for nothing more
        there’s no revolution anymore
        on the edge of tomorrow what are we fighting for
        we fight each other whenever we get bored.
        jaded kids hatred wins ans we all lose
        schemes kill our dreams its self abuse
        lets light a match to these dynamite dreams
        lets let it all go and set it all free
        i vote for the outcasts the losers and creeps
        who can bring it back again make me believe
        there’s no revolution anymore!

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  6. Hi Clarece,
    Day one again!!!! Ugh
    I hope he stays out of your dreams.
    I wish I had a special tea we could drink at night so we could have only pleasant dreams. Narc free.

    With HG’s voice, articulation, charisma, and humor I can only imagine also what it would be like to converse with him one on one.

    Words were everything with my ex.
    They were comforting, confusing, enticing, dominant, powerful, confident, fast, and believable.
    It felt like a tornado in my head.

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    1. Snow,
      Drink valerian root tea. That oughtta do it.
      As far as words, when they talk it is like spell casting. It should be outlawed if you are caught acting narc-y. Wait, that’s a silent treatment, damn! They win at everything!! *Clarece foot stamp*

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      1. Hello ABB,
        Thanks for the tip. My everyday tea is green tea and I love the tea they serve you at a Chinese restaurant. I have never tried valerian root but it’s on my list this week.

        I wish I had my own book of spells✨

        I was reading the thread and comments between you and Mona and they made me so emotional. You really are one inspiring woman. And it was a great reminder about facebook and how easy it is to go back. I’ve admitted that I’m still not strong enough and could be tempted under certain circumstances.
        Have a glorious day!!!❀️🍎❀️

        I will have to stay on this blog for life.
        HG, you might be stuck with me,

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      2. SW do you like cherry juice? I have yet to try this as to I make my own teas and not buy prepackaged, I don’t believe they are as pure as they say.
        Spell Book lol witchcraft as I was accused of. When in fact all I am guilty of is not using processed and wanting a prescription for every ache and pain from the doctor when nature really does provide all the things you need.

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      3. Hi Twilight!!!
        I didn’t know there was such a thing as cherry juice. Maraschino cherries are my favorite. Especially on a stick in a drink. Lol

        What kind of teas do you make?

        HG should include a spell book with his book “Exorcism”.

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      4. Hi SW
        I make dandelion tea, bread and have used in salads, chamomile, lavender, pine needle, banana to name a few. Banana tea knocks me out cold.

        haha HG doesn’t need a spell book he was born with a voice women swoon at, and with what was it sweet temptation in one hand and damn margarita amnesia has hit tonight help HG what was in the other hand

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      5. Wow Twilight that’s quite an assortment. You should open up a cafe. I would come and have a cup of tea with you and a slice of warm bread. Yummy!

        No, he doesn’t need a spell book but I do to keep all the narcs away. Lol

        I do love the imaginations that swirl around on this blog. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

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      6. SW that is to funny the store I manage serves food, πŸ˜‰ maybe I will slip a new tea in one day

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      7. Hi Twilight,
        You should have your own patio section with your specialities.
        I would visit anytime.

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      8. SW I actually thought about it, I don’t want to deal with the what I call the politics of owning my own store. I deal with enough managing one.

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      9. SW have you ever thought about learning to make some and not buy it from a store? You Amy find an interest in nature you never knew you had and a benefit survival skills if you continue learning different plants that are edible.
        Between what I was taught as a child and a time I went real hungry and had no money I learned. I will never go hungry again

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      10. SW it’s tart cherry juice lol I almost forgot as to I got all distracted by thinking of HGs voice and well let’s just say I have one hell of an imagination

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      11. Aaawww Snowy,
        U R Soooo Sweet. Beware that valerian root tea smells terrible! When you brew it cover the cup with a saucer. 3 minutes later, down the whole thing. It will be nighty night. They used to use that to knock people out for surgery. It was alot more potent in formulation back then. Don’t use it on your IP to sneak out at night HG! You really can’t give them any ideas!

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  7. SW HG is helping with keeping them away with the knowledge now it’s in your hands to make the choice of keeping your eyes open and listening and trusting yourself.

    Yes the imaginations that swirl around here can be very amusing at times, I do understand a lot of it is in humor and this is so helpful in healing, yet some I do have concern for.

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    1. Twilight,
      There was only one I was ever concerned about and she is away right now (think toe nail clippings) Everyone else is moving at different paces. I agree that It is nice to see the creativity and the progression. Laughter is the best medicine. I would be fueled if I were HG as he created this space. Thankfully he allows such freedom. Thank you HG.

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      1. ABB yes this is what I was speaking of, yet HG gives all of us a place to vent, cry, praise him, shed tears of sadness and joy, and so much laughter, even the ones that are dealing with things many will never understand.
        To you HG thank you, with out you so many would still be stumbling looking for the answers, you created a safe haven to ask questions and be able to get direct answers from you and support from others that you could never provide. You are an amazing man and my admiration and respect for you grows more every day.

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  8. Hello Twilight!!!
    Well I love the beach, ocean, and tropical gardens. But that’s about it for nature. Lol
    I won’t even walk barefoot in the grass. Lol
    I do enjoy cooking and have branched out in the produce section since I have become a vegetarian. I do love new recipies.

    I understand not wanting to own. That brings on a new set of headaches. I have a cookie business out of my home and I am always thinking about how far I want to take it.

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    1. Hello SW that awesome you get out, I have this crazy sense of direction in the woods drop me off any where and I will find my way out, yet get lost in a mall and can’t find my way out.

      When I lived in Arizona I used to make cheesecakes and different desserts and sell them. I love to cook and try different combinations of food, and recipes. At the time I never thought I would go into the food industry considering I was in the dental field.

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