See Those Red Flags Flying

Know the signs so it does not happen again.

Know the signs so others are not ensnared.

Know the signs before it is too late.

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17 thoughts on “See Those Red Flags Flying

  1. Presque Vu says:

    You are a god HG!
    Credit where credit is due!
    You have literally opened my eyes to get out/not start something because my judgement is whack!

    I went on a date tonight with someone recommended through friends. He’s handsome and interesting and came recommended.

    I stayed for 1hr 20 mins and in that time he wanted to kiss me too soon, he went to the toilet 3 times and took calls, he booked a room and said why don’t I have a few drinks, I can sleep on the sofa in the room as he doesn’t sleep with women on the first date.

    I tested him. I wouldn’t give him my number and he said I’m the only women he’s struggled to get a number from and was quite abrupt about it. He asked for my phone to put his number in and when I said let’s get to know each other first he was offish. He kept touching me, my hand my hair, and I thought no. Enough.

    I apologised, made my excuses, thanked him for the date and asked him to walk me to my car. He did, whilst trying to change my mind and still touching me! Then moaning he’s booked a room and what is he to do by himself now. He obviously had expectations!!

    Too many red flags, zero connection on my part. He doesn’t have good relations with ex wife or ex girlfriend. I’m out. BYE BYE.

    Thank you, during my date I kept thinking ‘one red flag, two red flag, three … fuck this sky high 😆’
    You are the god in my ear! Praise be!!

    1. NarcAngel says:

      Good job! Proud of you.

    2. K says:

      Presque Vu
      Holy shit! The Red Flags are everywhere and booking the room was indicative of his sense of entitlement. Well, he can get jiggy with himself now.

      1. Presque Vu says:

        Thank you NA and K. I respect you both so thank you!!
        Since I left him at the resort I’ve been messaged on messenger numerous times, over 10!.. and he’s messenger called me. His messages are a mixture of making me feel guilty and his frustration at not going out for a meal as planned. (Plus he booked a room! Not planned or anything to do with me at all!)

        I drove 44 mins from home, he said he thought it was local despite me telling him roughly where I live.

        I have 2 boys and a guardian angel. This forum of inspiring women is my saving grace. Tonight, I experienced what I do not want ever again.

    3. Bubbles 🍾 says:

      Dear Presque Vu,
      Talk about implied consent ! 🚩
      He booked a room, then suggested you have a few drinks n sleep on the sofa ??? 🚩
      Touchy feely (entitled much) 🚩
      Thrice to the bathroom…..sus? 🚩
      Took calls … on a first date ????? 🚩
      Being abrupt … showing his true colours 🚩
      Talked about an ex wife n ex girlfriend on a first date ! 🚩

      Toodleloo buster 👋🏻

      Congratulations, well done and thank you for sharing your interesting and most fascinating first date with us ……so much for recommendations
      Luv Bubbles xx 😘

      1. Presque Vu says:

        Bubbles .. just goes to show no matter how you meet them, recognise the red flags!!
        He sent me a picture of him in bed at 4am saying it’s my fault he can’t sleep!! Then another at 10:30 to say morning x like nothing has happened!

        Worst date ever, my friends and I will certainly have a laugh about this over some vino! 😆

        1. Bubbles 🍾 says:

          Dear Presque Vu,
          This is hilarious to say the least !
          A piccie of him in bed at 4am ……your fault ?
          Morning x ?
          It’s a pity he has your phone number …block him
          Sounds like he wants you more because you’re a challenge !
          I’d luv to be there for drinkies 🍷
          Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  2. 🦋 says:

    And then, there are still the ones that I am hoping might still be written.

    1. Is that you claudia?!!

      1. 💜💜💜 says:


  3. 🦋 says:

    From what I’ve seen, even Amazon does not have them listed in order. If they were, I would like to buy in them in the order they have been written. But, I cannot find the list.

  4. 🦋 says:

    There are several that you have mentioned for awhile, now, that will be coming out. I do not know if these particular ones have come out, yet, and I’ve just missed the posts for them, or if you still have not written them.

  5. 🦋 says:

    This book I might get. It would be good to know the signs for myself, but also to help others see the signs. I wish there was a complete list, somewhere, of all the books you have available and in the order in which you have written them. This would make it more desirable for me to order these books. I am not always around and miss many posts, including the posts publicizing your newest books, so I have missed many of the newer books that I would like to check into.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is straightforward. Go to Amazon. Search my name. All my books show up. The publication date of each book is listed next to each book.

      1. 💜💜💜 says:

        Thank you

  6. brown says:

    do your kind ever commit suicide? how could your kind be driven to take your own life?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Rarely. Severe fuel loss, excessive wounding and the collapse of the construct.

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