The Narcissistic Truths – No. 212


13 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 212

  1. Taryn Lichenstein says:

    Ain’t that the damn truth! You hit the nail right on the head with this one, HG 😩

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Indeed Taryn.

  2. bananasareberries1 says:

    Yes. I was not clear. I agree with you, he may wish to come back in 5 years haha. What I meant- I do not care as I will always be in NC. Thank you HG.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Indeed BAB1 and you are entirely right to babe in that place.

  3. bananasareberries1 says:

    My narcissist when confronted on his malice, said to me ” I am not a monster.” I did not imply he was; I called him a liar, manipulator with no integrity, empathy and conscience. He did not deny; he did not apologize for anything, he went silent instead (mid-ranger). I sometimes wonder how many victims went through same thing with him. The moment when they decide to pull the rug from under you, so entertaining.
    I was in full idealization phase and went through discard (devaluation as he tried to prevent the NC with pathetic “preventive hoover’ when he was trying to gain some petty from me, amazing) in a matter of a day. I am so happy I am out of that unhealthy relationship and I know the truth about him now. The facts that closed the door for him forever. It is hard to learn you are living a lie but is so much better when you just decline the membership in narc club.
    HG, I know there is no final discard for a narc, but it was a final discard to me. This is the end, my only friend.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      From your perspective, not from his.

  4. 1jaded1 says:

    That happened before meeting either of them. Thank goodness for defenses. Could have been worse.

    1. The bird gave her opinion on a blog and the snake couldn’t take it so he had to attack. Or not.

  5. Izabella says:

    My narcissist used this photo in black and white for a cover photo on his Facebook page. Very telling of his nature.

  6. amsodone says:

    Yep, snake

  7. We do now, we read HG Tudor books! 🤓

    1. HG Tudor says:


  8. Lou says:

    Yup, this world is a big restaurant.

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