9 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 236”

  1. Hg Tudor
    I need some advice. We divorced in 2004. i let him back in 2007. I was awarded the house and the kids in the divorce. I am trying to evict him and he is saying we are common law married. In Colorado the rules are strict on common law. We have no bank accounts,etc. We don’t do anything together. He has his friends and I have mine. I work he doesn’t unless it’s at a bar and then he only drinks his entire paycheck. I get no money. Had verbal agreement. The house is in my name still. He quit deeded to me in the divorce. Now he wants my money, house since I want him out. We have trial in court next week. He is using my sister as a witness (again saying we are husband/wife)cause she is angry with me, another narcissist. She has only talked to him maybe 4 times like at family gatherings many years ago. Until now he is using her to get back at me. Any insight on what to do?

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    1. Hello Evie, this type of situation is best suited to a private consultation given the detail that is needed for me to provide proper insight and observations and if you check the menu bar on the blog you can find more information about how to do this.

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  2. I would like to hear about ‘probing’
    My definition of probing is:
    1.Asking lots of questions to find out what disturbs someone
    and
    2.Bringing up a bunch of random topics to see if any of them disturb or annoy the person.

    I think it would be entertaining and useful to hear some examples from real life.

    Like “I started talking about the Horror movie and I could see the torment in her eyes.”

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