Ghosted and Gilded


The opportunity to understand the way that the narcissist thinks and behaves is a rare occurrence. Here you will find an array of explanations across different topics and scenarios which will give you unrivalled insight into this dark and destructive individual. Gaining understanding of how this person regards you and the world around him or her is the key to unshackling yourself from the confusion, bewilderment and distress that accompanies any entanglement with a narcissist. This book provides a multitude of observations which will illuminate your understanding and assist you in gaining comprehension of what you are dealing with.




10 thoughts on “Ghosted and Gilded

  1. Victoria says:

    By the way I have read 20 and on my 21st. My fear is that I will read them all before your next publication. If that’s the case I will just go back and read them all again.
    From a teacher to her favorite teacher-you’re the best!

  2. Victoria says:

    Now reading this book-I love it! I would say my favorites (can’t narrow it to one) are the confession series, then decipher because it was right after my final discard (I know you don’t like us saying final HG, but thanks to you I feel it was my final) and it answered so many questions that I had wondered about for years. Fuel was fascinating and so was black hole. I have yet to read Furry which will be next. Thus, reading your books and this blog is my therapy and keeps me feeling better when the dark mood envelopes me and the memories come-I then come to this blog or read another book.
    Thank you seems insufficient for what you have done for me HG. I wish there was more I could say or do to let you know just how very grateful I am. If not for you I would hate to think of how I would be feeling now or worse, still having contact with my ex b/c I would have thought his hoovers meant he felt remorse or still cared (not anymore)
    Always my full gratitude and will be booking another pvt consultation soon.
    Have a great weekend!

  3. geminimom says:

    I have read over fifteen books and I’m still buying them. All of the books have helped me to the point if my narc husband knows what I know now, he will have to up his narc skills. I’m in a better mindset because of this blog and the books. I am at peace. All the books are my favorite, and the one that moved me is Chained. thank you

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Geminimom, I am pleased the books have assisted you in this way.

  4. Smileyface says:

    Thank you HG. I would love to hear/read your perspectives on the narcissist in business dealings.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is in hand.

  5. HG,
    Have you ever asked commenters which is their favorite book and why did it help them? Just wondering.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I have asked some people in consultations, but why not start us off here? Which is your favourite and how did it help (I feel like Arnie asking “Who is your daddy and what does he do?”

      1. Wow HG funny you should ask that.
        And we’re off…..
        Sitting Target was what worked for me. That was the first book of yours that I read. It helped as it was the first time I realized that the abuse I was put through was calculated and it Wasn’t My Fault!! I would read a little, stop, cry and then tell Mr. Black what you wrote. I actually was yelling out stuff while reading it. Like OMG! NO! It Can’t Be! This is Horrible! It’s TRUE!!! Oh wait, I did that and that and that….uh huh…..OMG I’m a narcissist *Mr. Black shakes head* “No you’re not.”
        I re-read it. I came to your blog and started reading. I read your other books. I seen the pattern. My Parents, My Brothers, narcissists. I immediately started to comment (do you rue the day?) I’ve liked you ever since and the rest is history. I am no longer entangled with any narcissists. This is the calmest my life has ever been. You have forced me to deal with that unbeknownst to you. I’ve gotten alot farther in therapy. I am able to objectively face what happened to me because of your works. How powerful is that? I got 1000 X’s and a favor for you to cash in on someday. Immense Thanks HG. You fine fine teacher.

        P.S. Sex and The Narcissist is my actual favorite. *yawns and stretches with inner porn star noise*

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thank you and you are welcome.

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