4 Million
Not long ago this blog achieved 4 million hits which has followed hard on the heels of striking 3 million just a couple of months ago. My thanks once again for your continued involvement and interaction and do of course keep spreading the word.
In celebration of this further milestone, we shall have a competition. With prizes. Yes the generosity of your dear Narcissist-in-Chief is boundless.
First prize is a free audio consultation, second prize is a free e-mail consultation and third prize is a personalised message and signed paperback of one of my books. The winners will be sent the relevant protocol ahead of the consultations in the usual way.
Below are 20 questions. The answers can be ascertained from my work. The closing date for answers is 8am GMT on Saturday 6th May 2017. All you need to do is provide the answers in relevant order in a comment on the blog in the usual way. All comments containing answers will be held in moderation until 6th May 2017 and the winners will be announced on that date.
You may only submit one entry HOWEVER if you submit an entry and wish to revise it you may do so as many times as you wish. Your latest entry will be the one accepted for submission and judged.
As you would expect, my decision is final.
And no you cannot ask the answers in questions to me on the blog beforehand!
In the event of a tie, I will arrange a tie-break question and announce the arrangements for the same on the 6th May.
I look forward to reading your entries and thank you again for reading my work and participating in the blog.
Here are the 20 questions.
- How tall am I? (In feet and inches).
- If an individual who is involved with a narcissist, finds their empathy dimmed and themselves behaving in a similar way to the narcissist so they fight back, this is a particular event. What is it called?
- What business is my Uncle Peter involved in?
- Which school of narcissist uses silent treatments the most?
- There are two types of obsession which causes hoover triggers. What are those obsessions?
- What are the two key factors in determining the potency of fuel (be it positive or negative)?
- What is the name of my sister?
- I achieved a particular percentage in an English class although it was much to the annoyance of Matrinarc, what was that percentage?
- What are the four cadres of narcissist?
- How many mobile telephones do I use?
- What is a F.R.E.E. ?
- What causes the ignition of fury in a narcissist?
- What has been the longest duration between the end of the Formal Relationship and when I hoovered that person at a later time?
- What is my family motto?
- What is a Golden Wedge?
- What must you cross in order to achieve your freedom from my kind?
- I have been married once, but how many times have I been engaged?
- Name two sins of the empath.
- Am I left-handed or right-handed?
- Who delivers the brutal truth to enable you to seize the power?
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WOW how cool!!!! Congratulations to many many more hits on the BEST ULTRA BEST blog on the subject!!!!
Thank you Nikita.
Just so I understand — the answers should be submitted in public on this blog? What happens if I correctly answer all of the questions, and someone copies my answers (or vice versa). You probably already know us empaths — we will seek out the answers, and we’re always correct… Congrats on 4 million hits.
Thank you. I will not post the submissions beforehand so nobody else will see your answers to be able to copy them. The beauty of moderation you see!
Nice one HG – as usual – you rock.
I am currently re-reading (for the nth time!) Jilly Cooper’s Rutshire Chronicles Series. You could have a competition where we had to identify all the narcs (including type) plus which characters leap from the comparative normality of narcissism to the foul swamps of utter psychosis. 🙂
I also just remembered….http://www.diamineinks.co.uk/ you expressed surprise at my emerald green fountain pen ink – you too can write in a veritable smorgasboard of hues!
Thank you ta.
Ta! How dreadfully common! 😮😮
Not when combined with thank you first.
This furthers my suspicion that HG is an undercover Northerner.
Listening to radio interviews I’m sure I detect a hint of Yorkshire or possibly Nottinghamshire.
Ha ha, nay lass, ay up me duck.
HG is without question a Northerner. I just can’t pinpoint where.
No he’s not.
Yet if thou were a northerner would you actually disclose such information, Considering it could vastly minimize the possibility of where one may or may not live?
Yes because there are 14.9 million people in the north of England. But no, because I do not live in the north. I visit it, but do not live there.
Is there a betting pool on Mr. Tudor’s origins? Put me down for $50 USD for Eastern England.
Some people can change their accents. South West England?
Very true – but it’s extremely difficult to completely get rid of your root accent. There are certain words HG says that identify his roots and the way he says other words suggest that it is not the way he would naturally say them.
You may not live there now HG but your accent is Northern – not fully Northern I grant you – but when you learned to speak – it was Northern.
When I say Northern – I mean north of Watford Gap!
Is being Northner in England the equivalent of being ‘country’ in America? Like a hillbilly?
Blue touch paper lit…..
Hahahhaha, a northerner it is!
Are northerners there as misunderstood and underrated as southerners here in the US? If so they probably laugh at all the rest of the country like we do.
Hi Windstorm,
I have no clue. I was born and raised in Northeastern US and living in the South now for about 20 years. I just chuckled at HGs horror of being a “hick” or “hillbilly” 😂
I’m from the United States and I’m a northerner. I have friends in the south so yes, we are misunderstood.
It’s all good though. 😉
Hi Karen, thanks for explaining. I’m clueless to the regional rivalries in England being from the US myself! Lots of North/South banter here. Shoot, there is even a rivalry between the twin states, Vermont and New Hampshire
Don’t evade the question HG…..
I’m not.
She sells seashells by the seashore.
Oh boy. Seriously laughing out loud.
Narcangel….
I think you’re falling under HG’s spell😜
Lansealan.
Oh dear. I had high hope for you.
Haha. As a Yorkshire lass I’m looking forward to replies on this 😅
Sorry I meant no disrespect. I just sensed from Mr. Tudor’s responses that it wasn’t the ‘cool’ place to be from. I know nothing of your culture and the stereotypes.
Oh no offence taken! Honestly 😊 it made me smile. I was just playing along. The general consensus is that Yorkshire ‘folk’ are a little bit thick and slow. I was just waiting to see if anyone would actually come out and say it knowing I was from Yorkshire 😊 Obviously most are too polite and as for HG, maybe he would be breaking 1 of his own rules if he answered honestly and therefore doesn’t want to risk the wrath of the Good Doctors 😅
Not at all Karen, the delivery of the truth is what happens here. My comment re blue touch paper was made because I know there are a number of proud Northerners here and the remark may well have antagonised them. It was not a reference to my reaction.
Beg your pardon Sir 😊
I too am proud of my roots but I like to think I have a good sense of humour.
There’s nowt like teckin piss outta yersen
Karen 1303, my experience here n the US is that people tend to think negative stereotypes about areas and people they do not personally know. I live in a very rural area of a rural state and my big city friends think ridiculous nonsense about people from here. They hold onto their prejudices even when evidence shows to the contrary. They think my exhusband and I are anomalies for being intelligent, college educated professionals. The term “hillbillies” was used by someone. Well I’m from where hillbillies originate! The reality is you can never predict what you will find at the top of a hill or the bottom of a hollow in the back end of beyond – from a coven of witches to someone with a degree in calculus raising hogs for fun.
What a great final sentence. I’m on my way…
Ha, ha! Come on over, HG. Greater narcissists are highly respected here and the hills are full of strong-willed super empaths.
Sounds positively charming.
Hi Windstorm,
I’m now curious as to where. I’m originally (town of 2000) from rural Vermont and what you said is entirely true! 😊
I’m sure it’s true throughout rural America. I’m from Kentucky, but Tennessee, and Arkansas are very similar.
Indeed I have found that true, when I go to the Georgia mountains, the culture and mountains (all being Appalachian) remind me of my Vermont home…minus maple syrup and snow. I sure miss those! Been in the city for a while now but I do miss that rural home.
Winstrom, I hope you didn’t get offended by me saying hillbilly. It is the only term I think most are familiar with. I got much love for the people of the Appalachian mountains. In my experience, they were kind and extremely down to earth. ❤
Ha ha! No LOVE. Not really. I can’t think if an equivalent actually. I was going to say Chav but that’s more like your white trash. And chavs are all over the place!
It’s more like Kings Landing vs Winterfell.
When it snows, the south stay at home and panic buy them need goods. The north might put in a light jacket!
Ah. Thanks Flicka. So the Northerners are hardy rugged folks and the Southerners are pretty city boys.
I thought more like a posh ex Eaton school type, not a Northerner. I watched the YouTube videos and HG sounds kind of posh there? Or is it a facade 😉
Yes his accent is refined. But it’s northern based. It’s not a facade as such. More a blending. Sort of 😄
I’ve just submitted my answers to the quiz, but cannot find the posting waiting to be moderated 🙁
All the answers were 100% correct too.
HG, I need some fuel from you
Ha ha good try! Now, do it properly!
The eye by long use comes to see even in the darkest cavern: and there is no subject so obscure but we may discern some glimpse of truth by long poring on it. Source Unknown
Congratulations HG for going from 2 to 3 to 4 and 5 just around the corner. Started with one and that one has changed lives in a way that a skilled chess player moves around his pieces with confidence and ease. Well played and extremely well done HG! Your valuable resources have been the most effective for moving that chess piece through a most difficult obstruction. You taught me when all else fails, to fly right over the obstruction and now I have my forever wings and new beginnings.
Thank You 🙂
You are welcome.
Special shout out to 12345 and Purpleribbon who accounted for at least 100,000 posts in the last week alone lol.
Congratulations Sheldon!
Bernadette
So I’ve been thinking….. surely there is no way you can maintain running this as a one man band for much longer? You are going to need some minnions, oops I mean staff, to help soon.
I’d like to be the first to put my name down for a job. 😁 Preferably not a job that involes using the correct grammar as up until recently I used the word ‘constantly’ instead of ‘repeatedly’ 😉 I am cured of this curse now but I fear my grammar is still not up to the level you would certainly require.
So, please may I have a job? Go on, giz one. Giz a job.
It is heading towards that yes. The thing is Yosser you wouldn’t be allowed to headbut!
Ah then that guarantees the ex wouldn’t be given a job. Even better.
Hmm I’m thinking I could maybe be on the aftercare team. Assisting the clients/viewers/readers in their struggles after ‘meeting’ you OR assisting you by fighting them off as they throw themselves at you. Either or.
I have a dreeeeeam….
HG wouldn’t that mean some trust would need to be exhibited? As sad as it would be to see this go from a one man army, but to continue you would have to give up more of your private and professional life once you hit a certain limit. To which would be unfair to you, even thou you are adored and loved by so many here. You need your time to.
If it provides what I require then I will make the necessary alterations.
There is no one more trustworthy to keep your identity safe than an empath.
There’s room for us all at HG HQ!
Coming from the person who was probably in the top 10 of your first hits that fateful day on 8/31/15, I wish you a mega Super Tanker size Congratulations! I have no doubt I will see the day you have 20 million hits, along with life-coaching videos, guest spots on TV talk shows, merchandising line for your books and whatever else you have brewing in that brilliant head.
Oh, and don’t forget I put in my application for Personal Assistant back when you got 1 million hits. Just sayin’.
You should feel beaming with pride. Well deserved my friend! Very proud of you!
Thank you Clarece, I appreciate that.
I could haha!
Many congratulations. Although I don’t comment that often, your website and marvellous musings have helped me enormously over the last couple of months and gave me focus whenever I felt like my resolve was weakening. You deserve all the plaudits and success that comes your way.
Thank you NN.
Congratulations!
HG, you are a gift to over 4 million people and sit as one man. Ubermensch you are. smiling and thank you.
Thank you.
I don’t care about all your personal details. I think you are shallow.
Thanks mother.
38K followers & 4 million hits !! …
CONGRATULATIONS HG!!..
Reading your blog & gaining an understanding has turned my life around
Thanks again as always.
Not So Sad. 🙂
Thank you NSS.
No question about your lips? Next quiz?
Ha ha, you can ask that if you win first or second prize Laurie, how’s that?
Actually, I’m flagellating myself over knowing nothing about your height and marital status despite the fact that I have over 20 of your e books, read the column daily and sometimes in lieu of evening prayers and “dead behind the eyes” and “sleep of the just” are forever etched onmy cerebrum. I am really going to have to study for this one, HG, if I expect to win.
I expect nothing less of you Horseyak.
How can a man who cares only about extracting fuel be sooooo loved by all of us, your fans?…. Your charm of course, but also because you provide us with answers we can actually apply to our particular situations. I’ve been looking for answers for over 10 years and your explanations are the only ones that have made it simple to grasp, however painful. Congrats to you HG, you’ve more than earned it, because as you derive fuel from your fans, you’re not merely extracting it from us; you instead are providing a valuable service…. you are GIVING, and we love you for it.
Thank you Blayze, as I always explain, I do receive some fuel here but it is low grade compared to that extracted in my private life. I do however find the interaction very interesting and thought provoking, which appeals to my curiosity and intellect and of course it is part of my aim to become the number one source for the truth about our kind whilst weaponising empaths. Thank you for reading.
Congrats HG!!🎊🎉🎊
Well deserved!
You are hard working, dedicated, patient with responses, well manered despite some negative comments, insightful, engaged, articulate, a brilliant writer, intelligent, and the list goes on. Thank you for providing us with this knowledge. There is nothing like it out there. I wish you the best in the years to come.
I love the contest idea. I am surprised you will give out the answer to question #1 though. I can’t wait to hear the answer. And in terms of prizes, i can think of a few more 😉
Thank you Jenna, most kind of you.
Excellent! Thrilled for you.
You brilliant and stunningly handsome man u…..
Congrats. You are awesome! 🙂
Thank you.
Congrats, When seeing that number of 4 millions, what “fuel”/ “feelings/ thoughts” did that arouse?
Good question. It was not fuel in itself but I felt proud of the achievement but all the more determined to push into new territories and achieve more.
4 million, that is truly amazing! Congratulations HG! Keep up the amazing work! You have helped so many, and we all appreciate you. All 4 million of us! 😉😘
Thank you.
Congrats HG!!!
You have put a lot of work into this blog and it is reaching more and more people by the day.
I have seen so much growth here and in all the other medias that you are using.
You deserve all the recognition in the world.
Keep coming up with new and brilliant ideas.
I love the contest!
Thank you, I look forward to seeing your answers.
Congats again HG.
Thank you.
You are welcome. I will not be entering your contest, but the answer to number 20 is CENSORED
You were right 1jaded.
Congratulations, HG. 4 million readers from all over the world is very impressive. And still ~ many more to come. 🙂
Thank you.
congratulations HG
Thank you.
Here’s to five million, and many more.. 🥂
Thank you.
Big kuddos HG!
Really no surprise to me…your style is easy and inviting….as well as infectious. A true “reflection” (pun intended) 😜
Ugggh, looks like I have my homework cut out for me. Looks like fun.👍
Thank you and do get stuck in.
Ha…not acclimated to English humor as of yet…but I got it, lol.
On this side of the pond, “getting stuck in” is typically related to traffic, mud, quick sand, a mess, Toxic relationships lol!
Ooo how exciting a test! Congratulations on the 4 million HG, a testament to your hard work.
Thank you.
HG…. I am grateful to have “met” you, and only wish you the best, as you deserve nothing BUT the best… However, I will leave the contest prizes up to your other followers to win, I have already “won”….
By all means.
Congratulations to you HG. Thank you so much for all your time and the knowledge you have provided all of us with:)
You are most welcome Star.
Woo hoo! Congrats! ⚡⭐🎉🎊
What about a video Skype session as a prize?
No.
We really have to work on your charm skills, Mr. Tudor. I will give you a free introduction class 😘
No work required.
If you say so 😉
I do.
My pro bono offer will be available till May 6th, in case you change your mind. ❤
Lol HG got the last word in again
“I do”. That’s my first giggle of the day 😃
This is exciting! I always crack under the stress of a test, but I have a packet of polos and my spare gonk handy. I *need* this e-mail consultation
Congratulations HG. RespeK
There’s no stress with this one.
Too many question..
plus i haven’ t read all your writings..
i am quite new here..
therefore i am pretty sure can’ t answer some of them.
So, good luck to the partecipants.
I’m in the same boat. I haven’t read everything so don’t feel bad/alone
Hi Angelic and Ali,
Although I have been longer than both of you, there are questions I cannot answer either, like those about himself and his private life. I have not read all the books yet.
Oh this sounds fun!!! Yay! Congratulations on your well deserved milestone of 4 million!!! Cheers!! 🍾🥂
Thank you.
Golden wedge?? Ouch! Sounds uncomfortable 🙂
Oh! And congratulations 🙂
I love a competition. But do we have to have read all the books to know the answers?
Jolly good
Found golden wedge! Thank you 🙂
Bingo!
Thank you. NO you do not but of course you should for the purposes of gaining knowledge.
Why wasn’t this contest announced before I purchased my email consultations? 😉
Are the answers judged on correctness or chosen at random? Or a combo of both? 🙂
Accuracy.
*redo
Thank you HG! Though I read each and every one of your posts, and thought I understood them to perfection, your questions made me realize I need to refo my homework. 😊
You are welcome.
Congratulations!! The millions just keep getting closer and closer! 🎈🎉
I know most of the answers for your contest and will research the ones I don’t remember. I never compete, but best luck to those who do!
Congrats again, HG! You do a great service for all of us with this blog! Prediction on how long till 5 million?
Thank you. 6th July.
At this rate you could very well hit 8 million before the end of the year. Sorry I have been working with numbers all evening and I got a little sidetrack, when I read July 6.
Congratulations HG!!!
Lol been awhile sense I have competed, count me in.
Jolly good and thank you.
4 millions? Oopsy! See what happens when I get a day off clicking away on our site? 😆
Bravo!!
Thank you.
Congratulations, HG! 😀 😀 That’s a fantastic achievement, even more so as you are an army of one! Very creative of you to think of a competition 😀
Thank you.
Firstly congratulations on your achievement of 4 million plus, secondly thank you for being around just at the right time and sharing this vital information, next thank you for taking the time to reply to me on this blog, next I will continue to point people in your direction, but mainly thanks for not lying 😂. Although I do not agree with what you do I appreciate your time and that’s big time.
Here’s to the next million for you and your books are Wow! Now a competition which is great. When the competition and winners informed I hope you plan to put the Q&A on here for us all to know the real answers.
Sending you an appliance to celebrate 📺
😉
Yes the answers will be shown and thank you.
Congratulations on your 4 million views, HG! 🙂 The competition will be fun! 🙂
Your writings have opened up a new way of looking into the mind of a narcissist. Your blog and books the best resources to learn about people with a NPD. I appreciate the time you take to educate us and to empower us very much. Thank you!
Thank you.
HG….I can see that private island and jet in your future! Great Achievement.
Very Proud of you. Mwah! 💙🍾🥂
The contest is very fitting. Sharpening my pencil and claws cuz it’s on!
Thank you.
G….I have to study to answer all the questions…I have submissions at work also.
I’ll see what I can come up with.
I’ll do it just for fun, thank God I don’t have issues with narcs at the moment!
And to all my fellow Tudorians…may the odds be ever in your favor😂
hahahah . the groupies
Wow. Congrats HG. Quite an achievement! The fuel you gain from the figure is well deserved.
I won’t be entering the comp as I’d be too scared of winning haha. The thought of a 1 on 1 consult with you petrifies me at the moment. ha. After my meltdown the other evening I’m avoiding triggers wherever possible. Yep- you’re back to being Hannibal Lector for the time being 😬
Good luck everyone and again, well deserved HG.
P.s. I especially love question 20.
Thank you. Well if you win you do not have to accept the prize, so you can still participate.
Well done 👑
Lots of work and so much guidance given…
Thank you xx and congratulations…👏🍾
It seems like only yesterday it was 3 million!
😎✌👍
Thank you.
Third prize is the most valuable. Congratulations!🎉🥂🍾
Thank you.
HG! Congratulations again! Great idea with the competition! I am on!! Love to compete!!
Jolly good.
Hello HG! I have submitted my answers for the contest😀 I am not sure if you got them? It does not appear ” in moderation”. Should I send them again? Please check if you have received them here on this post! Thanks!
No I have them thank you
Thank you HG ! Do you mean: NOW I have them? ( you wrote No,I have them😳) .If I need to make some changes…how should I proceed? Exciting!!
If you wish to make changes just send the updated answers for all questions. I will only rely on the most recent submission as being your final submission.
Hello HG! I sent yesterday a new revised version of my answers…it is hard to see if you got them..they do not appear ” under moderation” Did you get them? Thank you
I do not have them. Please re-submit.
I have re-submitted them again now. Did you get them? Otherwise I can send them by e-mail if you want…
No, they have not appeared.
Oh no!! I can send them by mail now..if it is ok with you?
BY all means.
Thank you HG…I sent my answers again to your e-mail yesterday evening! Have you got them?
I have them thank you.
You welcome HG.
A star is born!! ⭐️ Congratulations HG on reaching 4 million!! Here is to you and all the hard work you have put in to make your blog a success and for helping so many obtain their freedom!!🍻. Good luck to all of you in the competition HG has set up for you!! 😘
Thank you FM1T. I have your query and will be responding presently by the way.
Thank you kind sir!!
This might be the best thing you’ve ever come up with HG😘 Who doesn’t love a contest? Excellent idea!!!
Exactly 12345.