4 Million


Not long ago this blog achieved 4 million hits which has followed hard on the heels of striking 3 million just a couple of months ago. My thanks once again for your continued involvement and interaction and do of course keep spreading the word.

In celebration of this further milestone, we shall have a competition. With prizes. Yes the generosity of your dear Narcissist-in-Chief is boundless.

First prize is a free audio consultation, second prize is a free e-mail consultation and third prize is a personalised message and signed paperback of one of my books. The winners will be sent the relevant protocol ahead of the consultations in the usual way.

Below are 20 questions. The answers can be ascertained from my work. The closing date for answers is 8am GMT on Saturday 6th May 2017. All you need to do is provide the answers in relevant order in a comment on the blog in the usual way. All comments containing answers will be held in moderation until 6th May 2017 and the winners will be announced on that date.

You may only submit one entry HOWEVER if you submit an entry and wish to revise it you may do so as many times as you wish. Your latest entry will be the one accepted for submission and judged.

As you would expect, my decision is final.

And no you cannot ask the answers in questions to me on the blog beforehand!

In the event of a tie, I will arrange a tie-break question and announce the arrangements for the same on the 6th May.

I look forward to reading your entries and thank you again for reading my work and participating in the blog.

Here are the 20 questions.

  1. How tall am I? (In feet and inches).
  2. If an individual who is involved with a narcissist, finds their empathy dimmed and themselves behaving in a similar way to the narcissist so they fight back, this is a particular event. What is it called?
  3. What business is my Uncle Peter involved in?
  4. Which school of narcissist uses silent treatments the most?
  5. There are two types of obsession which causes hoover triggers. What are those obsessions?
  6. What are the two key factors in determining the potency of fuel (be it positive or negative)?
  7. What is the name of my sister?
  8. I achieved a particular percentage in an English class although it was much to the annoyance of Matrinarc, what was that percentage?
  9. What are the four cadres of narcissist?
  10. How many mobile telephones do I use?
  11. What is a F.R.E.E. ?
  12. What causes the ignition of fury in a narcissist?
  13. What has been the longest duration between the end of the Formal Relationship and when I hoovered that person at a later time?
  14. What is my family motto?
  15. What is a Golden Wedge?
  16. What must you cross in order to achieve your freedom from my kind?
  17. I have been married once, but how many times have I been engaged?
  18. Name two sins of the empath.
  19. Am I left-handed or right-handed?
  20. Who delivers the brutal truth to enable you to seize the power?

324 thoughts on “4 Million

  1. Victoria says:

    Hi HG,
    Did you post the winners and the correct answers to this contest? There were a few questions I was unsure about and would like to know what they were.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Yes I did.

      1. SVR says:

        Where please? Always more to learn thanks HG.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The correct answers were posted in this article SVR


          1. SVR says:

            Many thanks for that ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

  2. Debbie says:

    Hello HG

    Quiz answers are still in moderation…
    Is today the day that the winners are revealed?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      That’s the intention.

      1. MLA - Clarece says:

        I sure hope WordPress doesn’t crash when you go to load everyone’s answers… Lol
        How will you choose the winners if there are a lot of people who get all the answers correct?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          How well they fulfil the prime aims.

          No, if that happens, tie-break question.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            Ha. Ha. Ha. Prime aims. Mr. Funny Pants is back in the house.

  3. strongerwendy says:

    Hello, so I still have 9 questions to go and your GMT deadline only gives me until 1 a.m. PST tonight my time to complete them. ๐Ÿ™ will do my best but just now finishing up for the day at work and will have to entertain (er fuel?) my mother this evening – which will most likely involve wine and watching keeping up appearances and/or abfab ( sigh…). Will enjoy the wine though. Anyway, I’m afraid I won’t finish in time. For the life of me I can’t find any reference to your left or right handedness….Good luck to all the participants. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. strongerwendy says:

      I did submit my answers. Not sure if they got through.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        I rescued them from the Spam Dungeon SW.

        1. strongerwendy says:


  4. lansealan says:

    Ha, for what it’s worth, there seems to be several similarities between Fallout and real life narc interactions. Random encounters with hideous creatures and badass criminals/outcasts, etc. Requires you to be both strategic as well as the ability to think on your feet and “shoot from the hip”. Have to use the right weapons in your repertoire accordingly…to exploit the weakness’ of your enemies. Also need to protect yourself from and avoid radiation poisoning or it slowly accumulates, resulting in sickness and death. Lol!
    Coincidental we play these games??? Hmm, interesting thought.

  5. lansealan says:


  6. Amy S. says:

    HG, I have just posted my answers to the ‘4million’ quizz in the comments section here. Have you received them? Just checking ;-P I do not think I will manage to wake up before 8am tomorrow to resend haha

    1. Amy S. says:

      Anyway, I have emailed them to you, just in case. Good luck, everyone!

    2. HG Tudor says:

      I have them thank you.

  7. Flickatina says:

    Ok – I really, really, really was going to have a go at the quiz but to be honest, I have been so busy, so utterly stressed at work that all I have wanted to do when I get home is kill things on the xbox. It’s very therapeutic.

    Besides – my menopausal rage and current midlife crisis would force me to answer each question with “death to all people”

    I need a holiday. Even my own rage exhausts me! Pass the JD.

    1. Indy says:

      Thank you, Flickatina for that laugh!!!! “Death to all people” has been my vibe today…hahahahhaha…I told a colleague of mine that perhaps I am not meant for people(which means I am in trouble as I do people work LOL), I am starting to loose patience with arses. Even just rude jerks get on my nerves lately. A friend was rude with me for making an honest error and I just want to bite her head off….Maybe I need to learn this gaming thing…I am not a gamer by any stretch.

      1. lansealan says:

        I beg to differ…you were involved with a narc, right? Definately “veteran gamer” status!

        1. Indy says:


      2. NarcAngel says:

        How much money could be made from Narc/Empath hunting game? Choose your side and navigate the game in that mode to see how far you can get. Then we’d see if the information is getting through.
        Level 1:
        People in restaurant/bar. You have to observe and interact to identify the Narcs, Empaths, and normals by either walking up and with total resting bitch face say: you are insignificant, throwing a bright red cape over them, or in the case of the normal-notifying Ripleys.
        On to level 2………..and so on.

        Id never finish. I’d be stuck in Empath mode smothering Lessers in their sleep.

        1. Ms brown says:

          Hey NA… Develop and publish that. I think I know of someone that may be approached as an investor, wink wink…..

          1. 1jaded1 says:

            NA…i know a patent attorney…i would tell you who he is but we can’t share. I will send out a smoke signal. Seriously…please think about patenting it before someone else does…*coughhgcough* PS…I don’t smoke but I’d find an alternate way to make some.

          2. lansealan says:

            Ha, for sure! Have the name: “FUEL”
            Unless of course HG has a registered trademark? Lol

          3. lansealan says:

            Or “QUEST FOR FUEL”

          4. NarcAngel says:

            Ms Brown
            Haha. Wink wink is the one with all the minions at his disposal. Im happiest behind the scenes.

      3. Flickatina says:

        I didn’t think I was a gamer either. You just need the right game. I recommend Witcher 3. I killed a few monsters and I feel a bit better now. The urge to slaughtered and drink blood has passed. ๐Ÿ˜‚

        1. Indy says:


        2. lansealan says:

          Fallout 4 here….it rocks
          Skyrim is next

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Don’t they know it’s the end of the world?

      4. Jaeger says:

        Come on, its Cinco de Mayo! Margaritas and tacos for everyone! ๐Ÿน๐ŸŒฎ

        1. Indy says:

          I do love tequila with some lime and salt! Margs and cheers!!!๐Ÿธ

      5. Flickatina says:

        NarcAngel – and this is why I love you!!

        I have Skyrim but I need to finish one game before I start another. I have very poor co-ordination so I can’t be getting confused with the controls of two different games.

        One thing I like about Witcher is that you can play Geralt in different ways. You can make him a mean, selfish womaniser or a righteous hero. These choices will affect the endgame. When I play again I had thought of trying the mean route. The problem is I won’t be able to keep it up!

  8. Ms brown says:

    ….Irritated, annoyed etc….

  9. Ms brown says:

    I can’t help but think you might be regretting the contest, HG! I know I would be (if I were you) lol ๐Ÿ™„

    1. HG Tudor says:

      What is a regret?

      1. Amy S. says:

        I don’t think he will. I mean, simply because if this contest I purchased 4 of HG’s books. Haven’t found the answer to my remaining questions yet, though ๐Ÿ˜†

      2. Ms brown says:

        as in distress(ed) (pain in the arse 4 million submission issues and questions) that you now have to deal with….

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Not a pain but thank you

  10. ballerina9 says:

    Hi HG,
    Just sent you my answers. Were they received or should I email or resubmit them?
    Thank you

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You can e-mail them if you like as I have not seen them.

      1. ballerina9 says:

        I just emailed them. Thanks

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Received thank you.

          1. ballerina9 says:

            Hi HG…I emailed my revised answers around 5pm your time. Received? Thank you

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Yes thank you. I have solved the mystery of the vanishing answers. They were ending up in the spam filter, must have been the numerous numbered posts. I have just spend half an hour freeing various comments from Spam Dungeon.

          3. ballerina9 says:

            Hahahaha Spam Dungeon! I love it!
            I thought you had your email settings on Automatic Discard without the Golden Preview first!

          4. ballerina9 says:

            (Only use my answers EMAILED at 5pm. Not the ones posted here)

          5. HG Tudor says:

            Have done so.

          6. Jenna says:

            Aww HG you never stop your hard work for usโ˜บ๏ธ
            Take a break! You deserve it! Damn that spam folder!

          7. HG Tudor says:

            Thank you Jenna. Yes, I will need to trawl it more often, I was intrigued to find numerous legitimate comments in there aside from the quiz answers.

  11. Congratulations HG ๐Ÿฅ‚
    There is no doubt another thirty million plus to go!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you.

  12. 1jaded1 says:

    HG…if you are on your way, I’m booking my way outtie.

  13. Jaeger says:

    Hi HG. Could you please tell me if you received my two drafts? I do not see them in moderation. Thank you.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Two drafts of what? Your answers? No, I do not have them.

  14. What’s my favourite cadre of narc so far, HG?

    Answer this and be in with a chance of winning some homemade potent fuel. Not just any homemade potent fuel, but Aberdeen Angus potent fuel


  15. MLA - Clarece says:

    H.G, are we allowed to ask for hints if we need clarification on one of your contest questions? I have 19 answers and am hung up on one. (batting eye lashes with a smile and wink).

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You can seek clarification of a question but you do not get hints.

      1. MLA - Clarece says:

        I’m hung up on the 2 types of obsession for a Hoover? On the part of the Victim? Or the Narc?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The narcissist’s obsession.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            Ohhhh… ok. Thank you for the guidance.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            You are welcome.

  16. Matilda says:

    Hi HG,
    I just posted my answers, but they do not show as “in moderation”. Did you receive my submission? ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Yes thank you, rescued from the Spam Dungeon.

      1. Matilda says:

        You’re welcome. Good that you found the problem!

  17. E. B. says:

    I posted my answers here. They were in moderation but I cannot see them anymore. Do I have to post them again?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No, I have them thank you EB.

  18. Narc affair says:

    Not sure if my post with the answers went thru but im looking forward to seeing the correct answers. It was fun!๐Ÿ™‚

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hi NA, when did you submit it?

      1. Narc affair says:

        Friday night but i didnt see it posted as moderation so it maybe didnt go thru. There were a few questions i didnt get so thats ok. Itll be interesting to see the answers when theyre posted ๐Ÿ‘

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thank you for clarifying. No I have not got them. Please re-submit.

      2. NarcAngel says:

        When did I submit?
        I didnt. Submitting is beneath me. Literally lol.

  19. SUSAN says:


    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Susan.

  20. 1jaded1 says:

    Jaeger i like you too dear.

  21. Gabrielle says:

    I just posted my responses to the questions but it does not show on my screen as “awaiting moderation”. I just wanted to be sure it was received. I have it copied and saved just in case it did not go through. Thank you!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Please re-submit.

      1. Gabrielle says:

        I just did and it disappeared again. Please confirm if you got it? If it did not work I will email it if that is okay.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Not received.

          1. Gabrielle says:

            I just emailed you my answers. I hope that is okay since I tried submitting it several times on here with no luck. Thank you much!

          2. HG Tudor says:

            I have them thank you.

  22. abrokenwing says:

    Mr. Tudor, I have to correct my answer. Shall i submit all of my answers again or just the one I would like to correct?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Please submit them altogether so it makes it easier to assess them.

      1. abrokenwing says:

        I did. Thank you.

  23. Victoria says:

    It does not show up here like my other post-just wondering did you get my reply to your 20 questions?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I have your answers through e-mail thank you.

  24. Victoria says:

    I submitted twice, did it come through?

  25. Amy S. says:

    I won’t be able to answer all the questions as I haven’t been reading this blog long enough. I have answered 10 questions. That’s probably not good enough ๐Ÿ˜†

    1. NarcAngel says:

      Amy S
      Well get to reading! Dont be a quitter (unless the topic is Narcs).

      1. Amy S. says:

        I’m down to 4 questions remaining hah!

      2. 1jaded1 says:

        I overcame my apprehension and bought Fuel. It was and is an enlightening read. Idk if this online thing will keep working. Thank you NA. You boosted my confidence. I still won’t buy online from any other merchant.

        1. NarcAngel says:

          Thats great! So much easier than going out old school to track stuff down. Baby steps. You can get everything at Amazon anyway. They could make a fortune selling Narc punching bags with various signs you velcro to them like: Youre the one. Shes just a friend. You get the idea…..
          Wait. HG should sell those in his mecca of merchandising when he gets it up and running. Remember you heard it here first when he tries to gaslight us that it was all his idea.

          1. 1jaded1 says:

            It wasn’t the big A. I guess where there is a will there is a way…as long as HG is ok with it. Your ideas are hilarious.

    2. Twilight says:

      Amy keep reading your half way there!

    3. E. B. says:

      Amy S., keep on searching here on the blog and in the books.

    4. 1jaded1 says:

      Amy S. You will do just fine . ๐Ÿ™‚

      1. E. B. says:

        Hi 1jaded1,

        I only buy from Amazon if the *vendor* is Amazon (*sold by* Amazon) or if I know who the vendor is.

        If it says —> ‘Ships from and sold by Amazon(.com)’ <— (the box including the price on the right side of the screen), it is safe. The *vendor* is Amazon and all HG Tudor paperbacks are available (*sold by*) on Amazon.
        As for Kindle e-books, they are sold exclusively by Amazon so it is safe to buy and download them too.

    5. Gabrielle says:

      Amy S,
      Same here! I read several books and articles on here and am answering the best I can. I do not think I will get all the questions right but I will try my best and hope for the best! ๐Ÿ™‚ Good luck!

      1. Amy S. says:

        Giod luck, Gabrielle!

  26. Lou says:

    Congratulations HG. I hope there will be many milliions more to celebrate in the future.
    And thanks again for all your work.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Lou.

  27. Indy says:

    Just let me know if you received it, ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Your answers to the quiz? No, I have not. They must have drowned in some natural essences you were using!

      1. Love says:

        Lol Indy, maybe blue touched that paper lit too. ๐Ÿ˜‚ What the heck does that even mean? Lol

        1. HG Tudor says:

          It means to do or say something which will cause an angry and fiery reaction.
          It comes from lighting the said paper on a firework which gives you a few seconds to retreat before it explodes.

          1. Love says:

            Happy Saturday Mr. Tudor. Thank you. In American slang, we say ‘they’re going to sh*t a cold purple twinkie.’ ๐Ÿ˜ Excuse my French

        2. Indy says:

          Haha, Love! Exactly, my test was torched!!!! Eyes the Tude!

          1. Love says:

            Ya, I see him ๐Ÿ˜’

          2. Indy says:

            No worries Love! I’m hoping someone that really needs those consults to rid themselves of an abusive ex or current partner wins those. I was aiming for a book if anything at all. Then I can analyze HGs handwriting ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‰

          3. HG Tudor says:

            I use my feet to sign things

          4. Indy says:


          5. NarcAngel says:

            You sign with your feet?
            I’ll add that to the list of other amazing bodily things Narcs do, like thinking with their dick and walking around with their head up their ass.

          6. windstorm2 says:

            Narcangel, that totally cracked me up!! Thanks!! ๐Ÿ˜‚

      2. Indy says:

        Oh poo!! I submitted them twice. I guess three times a charm…

        1. 1jaded1 says:

          Lol Indy. I submitted them in tennis terms…”love”. I’m not a joiner.

          1. Indy says:

            Haha Jaded1๐Ÿคฃ! Perhaps I need to encase my answers in cannonballs

          2. 1jaded1 says:

            Haha. Indy. I accidentally answered one of the questions. I didn’t intend to participate so i will be in the group who answered one correctly. I am laughing in spite of myself.

          3. Indy says:

            Hehe, laughing with ya, Jaded as I will be in the magically poofed group. Lol

      3. Indy says:

        Yessss that potion didn’t do what it was supposed to!! Instead of correct answers it made them in invisible type. Back to the cauldron!!!

      4. sarabella says:

        NarcAngel… Love it!

  28. sarabella says:

    Now, lets make this a REAL game. All readers may submit one question to you, and you have to answer. LOL

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I receive plenty of questions already SB, you know that.

      1. sarabella says:

        Yes, but I mean, Like whats your name? LOL. Just playing. Defusing a bad night. Yes, you do answer….

    2. Indy says:

      Yes, like HG blog Truth or Dare! I bet HG would take more dares haha!!!

  29. Amy S. says:

    Congratulations, HG! I’m so glad I have found you! I found you just in time. I would have gone crazy if it wasn’t for you ๐Ÿ˜‰

  30. Listful Dahlia says:

    Congrats. I am one of your newest readers so I won’t enter, but thanks for your work.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Listful and welcome on board.

  31. superxena says:

    KNOCK,KNOCK ..how are my FELLOW COMPETITORS doing? How long have you got on the ” track” of the contest? It feels like running blind on the track๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. Twilight says:

      Hello Superxena

      How are you doing today? Looks to be a rainy day here.

      1. superxena says:

        Hello Twilight!
        I am good thank you! How are you? Sunny day here in Stockhom…although a little bit cold…Are you participating in the contest? It feels like you know all of the answers๐Ÿ˜‰

        1. Twilight says:

          Hello Superxena

          I am great thank you! Humid here. It is cool at the moment yet expect to warm up later this afternoon.
          Yes I am. There are many that know all the answers.
          Are you participating? I thought I saw you commented you were. If so, you will do great!

          1. superxena says:

            Hello Twilight!
            It is still cold here in Stockholm..strange for being April…Yes, I am participating๐Ÿ˜‰ Actually, I have just submitted my answers…although I know they are not going to be published yet…I can’t see them under ” moderation”… It puzzles me…Friday night…yeah!! ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜€

          2. Twilight says:

            Hello Superxena

            It is hot here in Virginia today.
            I submitted mine afterwork about 2 am I believe. I wouldn’t think to much on seeing it under moderation. I have had that happen depending on which device I was using at the time. One would show it another wouldn’t.
            I think it’s been 20 days sense my last day off, yes enjoying this Friday!

          3. superxena says:

            Hello Twilight!
            Virginia! I have not been there…I have lived though in Boston and New Haven while studying there for some time…How warm is it? Here in Stockholm is about 5-8 degrees…Exciting with the competition..Good that you have submitted your answers as well..you will do great !!!

          4. Twilight says:

            Hello Superxena

            It is 86 today. 5-8 degrees sounds nice to me at this moment. I have been here for a while, but have lived in many places.
            Autumn is my favorite time of the year here. Cooler weather and so many colors.
            My family was military so I have lived in a few places.
            The competition, it was a marvelous idea of HGs.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hi, would you e-mail me please at narcissist1909@gmail.com – I have tried to e-mail you with the e-mail provided but it rejected the e-mail. Thank you.

      1. Debbie says:


        This seems out of sync with the thread I’m seeing.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Broken wing.

      2. Jenna says:

        HG, how are you this patient? Great trait you have here with us! I figure in your personal life it may be different ๐Ÿ˜€
        If the email bounced back to me, i would have just disqualified it.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I create the appearance of patience Jenna.

      3. abrokenwing says:

        I applied ‘ no contact ‘ to all narcissists I know ๐Ÿ˜‚ ( just joking ๐Ÿ™ƒ). And excluded myself from the tiebreak.. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

    2. abrokenwing says:

      What’s this?

  32. Carla says:

    Congratulations. Perhaps for 5 million a writing contest? Just a thought.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you, not a bad idea.

    2. strongerwendy says:

      This is a great idea! You could give us a prompt and see what people come up with.

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