The Igniters of Fury – No. 3


A series that allows you to understand what are the different things that you do which are likely to ignite the fury of a narcissist. Keep in mind that different schools of narcissists have different levels of control over their fury. Use this information to understand why you have been treated to heated or cold fury and to use this information to further your own position post escape.

16 thoughts on “The Igniters of Fury – No. 3

  1. noah80 says:

    Mmmm i don’t know if he have gury also for this kind of things because sometime I told him some joke about his shirt (that he use always the same for official party) but he answered me without angry (for exemple question me to buy a new shirt for him… or that he loves that clothes )…anyway he didn’t crucify me for this

  2. NarcAngel says:

    OK OK! That other guys socks look great on you!!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      About time!

  3. Angelic says:

    Wouldn’ t be ironic if it turnes out that i am a narcs too..
    I wonder…
    i do certainly have a lots of same behaviours …

  4. Hurt says:

    There is an endless list of things that makes them angry. Will you keep up by posting them all, HG?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      If they are endless I cannot post them all can I, brilliant as I am!?

      1. Hurt says:

        We’ll see. Maybe prove your brilliance once again

      2. foolme1time says:

        Oh but HG, you can do anything!!!😊

  5. Tracy says:

    Well where is the article???? I can’t seem to get to it. There is only the introductory paragraph and comments! Wth???

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It’s a meme.

      1. Cindy says:

        OK – got it. Tks

    2. Cindy says:

      Ditto! What are we doing wrong? Ive tried everything I can think of but still unable to retrieve (both on my cell phone, as well as my laptop). Any suggestions out there?

  6. B says:

    Haha .. yes, I did … I said ” What an interesting shirt” … he replied “Why Thankyou ..
    I replied .. “it wasn’t a compliment” .. lol

  7. Jaeger says:

    Or any item of clothing. My male narcissist roommate was worse than a girl with clothing. Loved to shop. Would also use my make up to cover up any skin blemishes. He was not gay. If you dared to not say something about how he looked he’d pout. Perfectly put together at all times. Somatics ugh!!

  8. 1jaded1 says:

    N1 bought the same shirt in 18 different colors. Who knew eggplant wasn’t purple. He did get angry…lol. I must pay better attention if this should ever happen again…it won’t. N2 wore tees. I would compliment him if they didn’t have a stain or hole. Fail on both counts. Crucify me.

  9. Brian says:

    This is a good series.

    That being said, OOPS, I’ve probably done this a few hundred times.

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