The Narcissistic Truths – No. 45


21 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 45

  1. Ms brown C★ says:

    Glued to him at all times and PW protected… even took it INTO THE SHOWER! I would I ask “why” big mistake!!!! I find out now from HG to even ask

  2. Twilight says:

    Does this come from your lack of trust, the need to controll? To trust brings that what has been buried to the surface, your initial betrayal.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Essentially yes.

      1. Twilight says:

        Thank you HG, I believe I understand your position and don’t blame you for taking it.
        Do you believe you may ever “trust” someone?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I don’t know how to.

  3. windstorm2 says:

    HG, all the like buttons and responses are gone again. Is that a permanent change?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No it is not Windstorm2.

    2. Ms brown C★ says:


  4. Parisgirl says:

    Once I went into his phone to delete some photos of me which were bad and when the final grand discard happened he said “How DARE you go into my phone without his PERMISSION!”.

  5. E. B. says:

    If narcissists usually choose their partners with generics and special traits like those in Sitting Target (honesty, moral compass and so on) and you also mentioned that you want to save energy, why do narcissists spend time monitoring their partners’ activity like calls, emails, messages)? Why not just ask them instead whenever you want to know something?

    (This is not about partners with Cluster B disorders, challenging individuals or gold-diggers.)

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. Kimberly says:

        H.G. So in all Honesty. You phone is and will always be your Primary? I have found this to be true with my Narchole.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          No, the phone is a conduit for fuel but it cannot be the primary source, it is not potent enough. The phone is mission control.

  6. K says:

    Summer reading list: once I finish psychopath free, I will begin Fury and Sex and the Narcissist (blush). American Psycho has been referenced here several times so I got that, as well. Total Confessions of a Narcissist, Why, Splintered Malice, Chained, In Sheep’s Clothing, The Sociopath Next Door, A Generation of Sociopaths and The Science of Evil will follow. Any recommendations are welcome.

  7. K says:

    One time, I nonchalantly said to him as he was holding Siri, “If your phone had a big enough hole in it, you probably would have fucked it by now.” He didn’t seem to like my comment very much.

    1. Brian says:

      ooh that’s an idea for an addon iFleshlight

  8. ANK says:

    Oh yes definitely. His phone is always with him. He’s always checking it, texting someone. And lying about who he’s texting.

    1. noah80 says:

      Yeah! They are all the same! He was always on line but when i asked him “do you speak with someone?” He answer me that he speaking only with me…liar…

      1. ANK says:

        Yep, LIAR is their middle name.

        Back in August last year, right after we slept he was sat on the edge of the bed with his back turned to me, texting on his mobile. I now know he was texting the new source whom I found out about the in October.

        Such a bastard.

  9. AH OH says:

    You are so silly with all your devices.I had three phones when I worked as President for our company. Dumped one of them. Pain in the ass.

  10. Narc affair says:

    Most definitely! So much power in such a small package. A fuel machine!

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