Are you or somebody you know chained to the narcissist? Are you a co-dependent? What does this mean? How did you become this way? How does the narcissist know what you are? How does the narcissist exploit this condition and how might you escape him? These questions and more are posed and answered in this fascinating book. Delivered direct from the dark-hearted master, the narcissist provides his unique observations on those who are co-dependent and find themselves chained to the narcissist.

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  1. Anna Belle Black/White says:

    Hello HG.
    We are chained to each other. Is that such a bad thing? Codependency has gotten a bad rap. Everyone talks of the negative side of it, the extreme area of losing yourself or becoming completely enmeshed with your partner, but what of a healthy codependency where it enables you to know that you are safe and secure with your partner and thus provides ample opportunitity to explore areas of yourself that normally you would not risk?

    I’m wondering what you think about attachment disorders. I’m currently reading a book called Attached. This book says there are only 3 base attachment types. Avoidant, secure and anxious. You of course are avoidant, your partners are anxious or avoidant or a combo of those two (super empath). Do you think that narcissism can be curbed by exploring the reasons why you don’t attach to your partner? If we are chained by fuel/attachment disorder can we ever really be free of the narcissistic dynamic? Do you think if we do not correct the way we attach to someone then the information you provide is useless?

    I think empaths keep trying to attach to the narcissist and because the narcissist is avoidant to that attachment, the empath becomes restless and wants to get that security which will not come. The narcissist doesn’t put into the relationship because the attachment or intimacy is too much for them to handle emotionally. So empaths and narcissists are chasing something they cannot complete. The narcissist never learned to attach and the empath being desperate to attach. If you do not fix the root attachment issue you will replicate the narcissist/empath dynamic.Your advice about no contact works to fix what is really a bigger problem. The problem of attachment, making us both chained to each other as your book talks about.

    What are your thoughts please.

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