Sitting Target

Why did the narcissist choose you? How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon? Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe? This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner. What are the things that various types of narcissist look for? How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits? What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists? Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous? Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone? What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights? These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.

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13 thoughts on “Sitting Target

  1. L says:


    I am starting to see borderline behaviors and traits in the victim narcissist. And he makes little sense as even a narcissist. So, I think that the victim narcissist is a borderline comorbid with NPD.

    I know you aren’t a psychiatrist, but in your opinion and since you are an Elite narcissist who more likely dates a Borderline personality than any other narcissist, would you say that victim narcissists are highly likely to be “borderline narcissists”/BPD and NPD due to their need for mothering, fixing their problems, feeling overwhelmed easily, more prone to heated rages, etc.?

    (Before he and I were sexual, this victim narcissist would video chat with me even when he was in the shower or bath tub – like he just couldn’t be alone to wash himself there!)

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No. A narcissist who is of the Victim Cadre, is a narcissist.

      1. L says:

        Ok, thank you. This is such a weird narcissist. I’m a magnet super empath and the narcissist that I liked the most (during the golden period, of course) was the elite narcissist. I guess the elite narc and magnet empath are a strong match … before devaluation happens of course (from my perspective anyway).

  2. nikitalondon says:

    I jist sent this as gift to a friend who was recently victim of a lesser victim/intellectual N.
    This book is great to cause awareness because she has no clue that N behavior exists although she has been several times through men like this.
    She has not connected the dots with abuse nor with golden period-devaluation -discard.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Nikita, you did yet another good act for someone else.

      1. nikitalondon says:

        HG is there a very descriptive post on a victim narcissist? My friend does not seem to get it. A non charming, not well dressed interested in fashion, victim of the world, … she described him as egocentric self centered energy draining man ” but i dont think he is a narcissist” she said. Thanks in advance if you can come up with something

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You Sicken Me will cover part of it Nikita as will the relevant section in Sitting Target.

          1. nikitalondon says:

            I gave her sitting target as gift… maybe she doesnt want to see it. Thanks 👍🏻

  3. Peaceful says:

    Reading it today! Could there be a Lesser Greater Elite?
    Thank you HG!

    1. HG Tudor says:


    2. Jody Allen says:

      If I may offer another good choice?
      It’s very insightful.

  4. Jody Allen says:

    Great Book! Anyone asking “Why me?” should read this!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you JA.

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