The Rules of Ex – No. 26


22 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex – No. 26

  1. Peaceful says:

    I hate my daughter’s Narc father sooooooooooo much!!!!!!! grrrrr…..

  2. Mistyrain says:

    HG, what does a mid-range narc gain from his young child? It is beyond obvious behind closed doors that she is nothing but an annoyance to him, a tedious chore that he is forced to tend to. But he puts on a grand performance for any observers that he cherishes and loves her more than his own life, which I know is definitely not true because I know his callous cruel selfishness and manipulative ways.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Fuel and facade management, triangulation also.

  3. KT says:

    Or a gold digger…

  4. DB says:

    Eventually he discarded us both. Me and our young child..It doesn’t bother him, the silent treatment still remains.

  5. DB says:

    Wish he had left us in our childhood with our mom.

  6. Diva says:

    I am that witch that you write about…….and I am proud of it…….I am more than trying……..I am aware that my kids whole lives depend on it……..never mind my own…….Diva

  7. Gareth Pfeffer says:

    Hi HG, I have the opposite every time she goes no contact this being the second time I don’t get to see my son. Is this just to cause more suffering and I would think to use him as a form of control over me I think she also does this to Hoover be back by using my son as bait.

  8. Bliss says:

    Have them anytime you want, I said. I will make sure you get to see them any day, any time, just tell me. As long as I can still look after them, make sure they are clothed, fed, schooling doesn’t suffer (worried about children as he has not once looked after them and abused them in the past). So he yelled at me saying he will take them away from me and took me to court, being a narc, charmed the pants off everyone and won. I was like, is everyone blind?! In terms of finance, the bank recently looked into it and spotted how he had been suspicious with his financial activities, it was highlighted and they investigated. It wasn’t laundering so it was dropped but I’m just amazed they spotted all the details where the court system completely failed, useless solicitors and barristers.. all those things he did for years to screw us up financially, he just got away with it.

  9. What a absolute cutie. The child is only used as a pawn.

    1. Sniglet says:

      I thought so too. Very adorable looking baby. I didn’t want children for a very long time for selfish reasons – study, travel, career, party. Recently I’ve decided I want a child and I am able to support him/her in the best way possible. Just need to find the right man.

      1. Singlet, I am on the same boat as you.

        Don’t worry, the right man will find you.

  10. Jenna says:

    But she is being accomodating.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Doesn’t matter.

      1. Maria says:

        Good afternoon,
        I’m new to the site and deeply appreciative of your communication efforts because I have a Narc in my life and just didn’t realize what he was although I knew he was other. The point of my post is not just that, but equally if not more the point, is I LOVE YOUR ARTWORK. I tune in half the time just for the visual piece of art and the internal peace (of course). Love it!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Hello and welcome Maria, thank you for your kind compliments.

  11. Max says:

    HG when is your next book coming out? I have read all your other books and I am looking forward to reading your next one.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Later this month.

      1. Salome says:

        The title of the new book, please…

        1. HG Tudor says:

          There will be several Salome.

  12. ANM says:

    So sick and correct

  13. Sophie says:

    I swear to God, I expect that if I pull off your mask, I’ll see my narc’s face looking back at me. This is him, exactly.

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