The Narcissistic Truths – No. 163

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19 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 163

  1. Sillyolperson says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    You are our mentor, advisor and counsellor.
    You are helping us to read, understand, absorb, learn and defend.
    The knowledge I am gathering from your brilliant artful craft as a writer, I’m arming myself!
    My humble thanks to you Sir!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome.

  2. ajo says:

    I still would love to read about the dynamic of narcs marrying each other.
    From what I have seen it’s like an ugly dance between them. One devaluing while the other begs and pleads and back and forth. Because of the intermittent attention and then fury or silent treatment, they stay hooked to each other. Usually one cheats though.

    I’ve seen it a few times and the marriages def don’t last as they’re just constantly wounding one another.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You can read about some of the interaction in the articles ‘When Narcissists Collide – Parts One and Two’.

  3. DebbieWolf says:

    That is a very good image.
    Not a ‘well’ of knowledge ..a humongous solid monumental Dam!
    Clever meme.

  4. Mona says:

    HG, are you sure that this work here is good for you for your progress in therapy? Progress of course from the view of an empath. I think, if I were you or better one of your kind, I would think: “Look at all the victims here. I am not so stupid to engage myself to let down some defence. I do not want to feel the deep pain. Look, they all adore me for what I am at the moment.”
    I think this work here would strengthen my opinion to remain what I am. (if I would be you)

    This is no backhanded provocation or attack. This is the trial to feel what you feel from your point of view and a honest question. If you do not want to answer, it is o.k. for me.

  5. K says:

    At the tender age of two, I knew exactly what I was doing when I made my way towards the public library. Understanding is replacing my anger, thanks to everything I have read here and in your books. Thank you!

    Hoovered 3x today. Fifth sphere: text. If I thought your kind would pony up, I would start charging for my fuel.

  6. Crystal Empath says:

    Hey there HG…
    Hope life is being kind to you.
    Any update available on the progress of Matri Narc and The Creature at all?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Still being worked on.

    2. nikitalondon says:

      YEAh sooo nice

  7. narc affair says:

    And so much of that ive gained here! 👍

    1. HG Tudor says:

      HG approves.

  8. analise13 says:

    Great image, HG.
    Your work and books aid in that understanding and defence.

  9. ???!! says:

    Un-knowing the Narcissist. Blog I’d start if I had it in me. Un-knowing the Narcissist because Knowing the Narcissist helped me know the Narcissist I knew. Now that I know, I’m working at un-knowing. 😉

    1. Such deep resonation with this response…❤️🙏🏻

      1. MLA - Clarece says:

        Crystal Empath!!! So nice to see you back!!❤

        1. Hey there! I so hope you are doing well and life is happily, everything you’ve now created it to be. ❤️🙏🏻

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            More peaceful but not quite at the happily ever after finish line yet…

          2. ❤️ 😊 more peaceful is good….
            Not sure if you’re open to it, but consider checking out Drjoedispenza.com
            He has some great books, and you can check out his life changing meditation. (Lots of video/interviews on youtube for more info) He is…well, I won’t go into it, but if you’re interested in further personal growth that is next level…give it a try
            (HG definitely, and most skillfully provided plenty of what we to came here to learn to work beyond, and for that I’ll be eternally grateful🙏🏻 )
            There really is so much more to experience out there…Blessed Be! May you come to know real love as you have never before and may you truly come to understand that it is not needed to be obtained outside of yourself. My healing journey has taken me far and funnily enough ended up going within. My career is now as a healer. My purpose continues, as does my deepened love of humanity and my new found love of myself. Much love to you dear lady!❤️ 🙏🏻

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