The Igniters of Fury – No. 3


A series that allows you to understand what are the different things that you do which are likely to ignite the fury of a narcissist. Keep in mind that different schools of narcissists have different levels of control over their fury. Use this information to understand why you have been treated to heated or cold fury and to use this information to further your own position post escape.

3 thoughts on “The Igniters of Fury – No. 3

  1. narc affair says:

    This is one area my narc would not complain about as ive always complimented him on his clothing and how he looks.
    My mil had gotten some new glasses and id not commented right away. Glasses arent something i notice and it was not intentional. She asked me several times how do you like my new glasses??? By the third or fourth time i told her id already said i liked them. I had complimented her but it wasnt enough until i raved about how gorgeous they were. She is a somatic so i can see why.

  2. K says:

    When my MMRN was morphing into a gay-middle-aged-teenager, he put on a shirt that was a bit flamboyant and, I could not help myself, I took one look at him and said, “Quick! Take the shirt off! take it off right now! You look like fucking Liberace!” Then I burst out laughing. My MMRN did not get mad (I was surprised). However, my MMRN always tried on new clothes, constantly, and asked for my opinion and I had to choose my words wisely. He would always ask, “Do I look fat?” My answer, “No, you look wonderful.”

  3. Noname says:

    Ooo, new series! Very interesting!

    Hmm… My Narcs are always glad when I compliment their new clothes, but they never express fury when I don’t do it. Perhaps, it is because they know I never pay any attention to what they wear. It really doesn’t matter to me. I pay attention to their current internal condition instead. Lol.

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