The Narcissistic Truths – No. 220


13 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 220

  1. Noname says:

    I remember, I had a lunch with my friend (Psychiatrist) at cafe not long ago and I asked him “Could a Sociopathy be a subvariant of Multiple Personality Disorder? I see the “child” and “someone else” pretty distinctly there. The Sociopath could look and behave like a “lost child”, but then it transforms into “hateful adult”. Are they two separate “personas” or are they two inseparable facets of the one persona? What do you think?”.
    He said “Hmm… Interesting question. In MPD, we have separate personalities and they “don’t know” about each other presence, but Sociopaths are aware of their “beast””.
    “I know. That’s why I used the word a “subvariant”…”.
    “I see your logic and I have to think about it. Sounds interesting”.

    I’m waiting for your book “Creature”, Tudor. I hope, you’ll give some answers about its “nature” and your “relationship” with it.

    P.S. That picture reminds me Banksy’s street art. Always liked it.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Yes it does look like Banksy doesn’t it?

      1. Noname says:

        Yeah, it does, Tudor. Moreover, it conveys the SAME meaning. Perfect.

  2. Bubbles🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,

    My interpretation of this meme is ….

    You had no communication, no love and no one there for you

    This one broke my heart.

    Would this be correct?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is your interpretation, therefore it is applicable.

  3. Narc Angel says:


    Well no one is threatening you to stay here if you feel that you are only fuelling HG and not benefitting yourself in any way. I do hope you stay though if you are a newcomer to avail yourself of the information regardless what HG gets from it or his motivation. Isnt that why youre here? To gain information? Im sure he could get better fuel face to face than wading through a bunch of anonymous blog comments but honestly I dont care why he does it-just that he does and its my gain.

    I wont bite off my nose to spite my face but to each their own.

  4. Desiree says:

    I understand that this seemingly given help to “us” “the real victims” by HG is a really distorted twisted kind of help. Why? Because HG Tudor doesn’t really care to help us, although it would seem that way. He gets us to engage; hence he gets us to react; hence he gets and endless supply of fuel. Yet, he is motivated to achieve this “endless” supply of fuel by helping us because it is the way to engage us; once again,the way he gets fuel…..really twisted amniotic relationships here I would say…..Yet HG you do it all in the name of keeping yourself in feeling you are in power and that you exist; validated; etc.; your lifeline so to speak because the alternative would be for you to face or be in THAT uncomfortable place. THAT place where you were abused, abandoned, the place that made you this way to begin with…..In a way, it is like admitting a wrong was done on to you; you acknowledge it in your self being; yet you commit the same wrong doings unto others…..You are arrested in time; never discovering how that fuel can actually be obtained “without hurting others” …. if you are careful to really analyze THAT place and stay in it long enough even though it’s uncomfortable, I think that perhaps……….I’ll leave it at THAT…….because you have to stay in that place long enough to find out……

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Nothing to do with obtaining fuel.

      1. Desiree says:

        Yes, my mistake. I think you said you’re being forced to by authorities or family members who threatened you….

  5. analise13 says:

    HG, does this dilemma effect you that way?

    Do you feel criticized or any fury when you receive less likes or comments on each blog article?
    Or fewer likes on Twitter or Fb posts?

    How does it manifest for you?

    Do you use cold fury?
    Do you lash out in a likewise critical fashion?

    1. HG Tudor says:


  6. My narc had fb alerts on his cell phone. Constantly checking to see if he got likes or comments or whatevers .

  7. narc affair says:

    This isnt just for narcissists but anyone with low self esteem relying on others for validation. Always looking for the next hit. It makes me wonder what people did before social media to get that same validation.

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