O Come All Ye Empaths

o-come

O Come all ye empaths

Honest and so decent

O come ye, O come ye to my illusion,

Come and be ensnared

By my golden period

O come let you fuel me

O come let you fuel me

O come let you fuel me

Narc the Lesser

O cry tears of sadness,

Cry in sheer frustration,

Cry and be hurt by

My manipulations

Give to your narc fuel

In the plenty

O come let you fuel me

O come let you fuel me

O come let you fuel me

Narc the Mid-Range

All hail Greater we worship thee,

Malevolent and so handsome,

O Greater for always will you hoover us,

Words are your weapons

Devaluation appearing

O come let us fuel him

O come let us fuel him

O come let us fuel him

And never stop

 

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69 thoughts on “O Come All Ye Empaths”

  1. I’m having my coffee as we speak 🙂

    I’m not much of a Christmas person myself. I like the thought behind it (not the whole Jesus-thing, but the friendship and family-thing), but I feel that that thought has gotten lost in all the greed and showing off lately. I can definitely see some narcissism in that.

  2. Dear Having coffee,

    Hi there …
    I love my coffee …
    are we, or perhaps Mr Tudor, able to join you in a coffee here in some way or are you just having a short macchiato

    We’re here if you need a long macchiato ☕️
    Best wishes n Seasons greetings
    💜☺️

  3. If one day you decide to record and release your music album, I’ll definitely buy it not only for myself, but for all my friends also! I bet, they would be shocked, but it is how the Narcy truth goes. The knowledge is a power. Bravo, Tudor.

  4. O Holy Grail, o Holy Grail
    How lovely are your carols
    O handsome greater, o handsome greater
    How silent thou art lately.

  5. So festive!!

    Hg, i miss u😢 becoz u have been away recently. Maybe some xmas shopping? Perhaps an xmas early vacation?

    Hg, i have temporarily decided that narcs are vile creatures. My mind might change tho, idk. I seriously need to book a private consult. Nobody would want to read what i have to say here😁

    1. Jenna
      Put narcs out of your mind till after New Years. Focus on the holidays – all the joy and cheer, the happiness of children, loving our fellow people. You know, all those wonderful things about Christmas that have absolutely nothing to do with narcs! Put narcs totally out of your mind and forget they even exist for the rest of the year (except for you, of course, HG).

      That’s one reason Christmas is my favorite time of year. We can just radiate joy, cheer and love for all and fit totally in and even the narcs won’t hassle us because we’re just fitting in!

      Celebrate the season, Jenna! May your heart feel peace, love and joy!!! 💖

      1. You’re telling her to step away from the truth of her feelings, and engage in a clearly narcissistic commercial holiday that has nothing to do with anyone’s birth and everything to do with a pagan holiday that mocks The Creator.

        That’s right. The cutting down of trees was done to hang them upside down and is an attack against Nature. Now you just put a bunch of plastic and garbage all over them and contribute even more to light pollution and the garbage dumps.

        How incredibly narcissistic and psychopathic is it to believe that you, as a human, can use someone else’s death to take away your responsibility and secure your clean soul and place in heaven?

        Sounds like a bunch of “empaths” are continuously projecting onto HeyZeus.

        So… you love your children? Why are you teaching them to be narcissistic using commercial holidays and unnecessary spoiling of character and forced participation in family activities which most always include tension and drama due to stress?

        @Windstorm… you also seem to take exception to the person writing this blog. You say to the other commenter, to put all the narcs out of her mind except this blog writer… you think this guy is heyzues or something?

        Perhaps this dufus has you all jealous over his one on one sessions. Look at how clever this guy’s act is. He’s probably the guy from Human Centipede II.

        But hey don’t worry be happy. Live in denial.
        You are all empaths being chased and ravaged for your delicious reactions.

        Or how about most people are narcissists at this point. Make sure you take a holiday selfie, empaths.

      2. Having Coffee – You can vent all day long about how Christmas has become too commercialized in your eyes and the true meaning celebrating the birth of Christ has become a by product of the holiday.
        Singling out Windstorm2, and giving her this unwarranted lashing is so far out of line. She offers nothing but support, kindness, and understanding to many of the readers here. I do not interpret one iota of what she said to Jenna as for to muffle her feelings, but rather to try to let some joy in with an open heart with her loved ones.
        @Windstorm2, you keep being you. You Rock!!

      3. Thank you, Clarece! Certainly that is what I meant. To me Christmas is a season tailor-made for empaths. It’s a season of love, compassion, caring, joy and happiness. The actual origen of the season and it’s practices, or whether it is religious or secular is not important to me. It is the energy of these positive feelings that I can feel radiating from others – particularly children – that make Christmas so special to me.

        Christmastime is a grand opportunity for all people with empathy to share and magnify these positive emotions with everyone they meet. Even the narcs benefit with all this positive fuel everywhere!

      4. Having coffee,

        Are you new here? Welcome!💐💐💐

        Christmas is so festive. It’s all about giving. It fills my heart with warmth! Just like coffee might make one feel warm. Did u have ur coffee today?☕️

      5. Having coffee, although I partly agree with some points you mention regarding Christmas, I cannot help but wonder if you have already had your cup of coffee today. Or maybe too much of it?

      6. … and I agree with Clarece about your comment about Windstorm.
        ..and I hope you step in reindeer’s poop.

        ( I’m in a bad mood today).

      7. ABW! I just saw your comment now about the reindeer 💩! That just tickled my funny bone. Merry Christmas!

      8. Abw (and blank),

        I didn’t realize blank is back. She has now attempted to leave two times. I remember her stating she will go nc with the blog the first time. The second time, she wanted to spend more time with real life friends. Blank, just admit it, this place is so inviting!

      9. Having coffee

        If you are going to voice your opinion on Christmas and pagan rituals, I do wonder would you like to debate this issue or do you enjoy attacking people who are just looking for the brighter side of things this holiday season.

        If you are up to debate and HG allows it, please I would enjoy reading your opinion on this subject.

      10. Wind storm of all the people on this blog you are the last one to have to explain yourself to someone who obviously is just here to cause trouble and bully! Perhaps another narcissist has slipped in to the blog?! The way you feel about Christmas is beautiful! I believe someone must drink their coffee black and bitter! Merry Christmas Windstorm! 😘

      11. Thanks @abw, that is kind of you x

        Jenna, I think it was 3 times already. It’s embarrassing and pathetic that I can not controll myself. I could have used a different name, but I thought ‘let’s make a total fool of myself’, so other people might not be afraid to do the same. Inviting? Yes maybe, it’s the only place I know where I can find people who talk the same talk. It feels like a safe haven, which sounds absurd.
        I came back because I realized it wasn’t over. I was living happily in narc-free land, when I went to a concert where my narc was performing. Should not have done that. When I came home all the confusion came back to me, the mind-fuck, the missing, the crying. Then I realized it will never be over. I try to remind myself of the hurt, but it seems to disappear (just like after giving birth to your first child you swear you’ll never have a second).

      12. Blank
        Never feel embarrassed for doing what you really believed to be the best thing at the time. Everyone of us here has done and said things that embarrass us and that we regret. That’s because we are humans.

        I personally don’t believe there is a “narc free land.” We can go no contact from the one that bothers us the most, but there are always others all around us all the time – at work, at church, at Walmart – wherever we go. It makes me think of a GOT’s quote, “The night is dark and full of terrors.” In my mind I change it to, “The world is dangerous and full of narcissists.” We just have to be ever vigilant.

        And as to getting beyond them, sometimes I think HG is wrong about the narcissistic relationship lasting until one of us is dead. I think it often lasts until we’re both dead. My mother’s been dead for 3 years this month, but that relationship and it’s effects will haunt me till I’m in the grave as well.

        Woooh! Too dark and depressing for the season!! Think I need to go hug a grandchild and rock a baby! Time to remind myself that all those positive loving relationships never end as well!

        You have a very Merry Christmas!🎄 I’m glad you’re back here on the blog!

      13. Windstorm2, you truly embody the spirit of Christmas with that big, beautiful heart of yours. It is very rare for you to be ever be too “dark” here.
        Merry Christmas!!

      14. Clarece
        Thank you so much. You are always a caring, upbeat presence as well. I’m so glad you’re back commenting now!

        Hope you have a wonderful Christmas, too!! We just had “Christmas morning” at my daughters in Kansas and I got to watch her three oldest (5,3,almost 2) opening all their presents while I held the 5 mos old and helped her open her gifts. You can imagine how happy and sweet it was! Im still in tears. Now we’re all setting off for Kentucky. I sure hope you, your daughter and family have as blessed a time!!

      15. Hey blank,

        Pls don’t feel ’embarassed’ or ‘pathetic’ at all. I almost left once, but ended up not doing so. The second time, i did leave, but came back in less than a day. I explained upon my return that i just cannot stay away frm here. I suspected most pple wud understand, especially if i explain the thought process behind it.

        Now i sense that u are not the type who wud like to explain urself to others (i may be wrong). But why not try it? It will help us understand u better. I am v glad u did not change ur username as i have much to learn frm u, regarding delivery of comments, which i will ask u abt another time.

        I am sorry u had to see ur nex performing. It must have been excruciating, to say the least. Well, we are here for u. I’m glad u came back.

        “It feels like a safe haven, which sounds absurd” – not absurd at all. It IS a safe haven indeed!

        Welcome back!🌹

      16. Blank

        Don’t feel embarrassed, I come and go only because the emotions that run here affect me and I need to recharge. One day I will leave that day not come yet.

        IMO you will not find another place like this, the information is accurate and understanding from others.

      17. Hi blank…i dont think i read your post about leaving but i think a lot of us have said at some pt or other they were leaving and then come back and theres no shame in that. I find time fades things and emotions as well. Ive read posts before and felt strongly about them and then a few days later not so much. Sometimes a step away is needed. Its great to have you back!

      18. Having Coffee:

        Well you just schooled her now haven’t you? Are you bitter much, too? Wow, what a tirade and so… unproductive and well, lame.

      19. Thanks Windstorm, that is really sweet. I agree, there is no such thing as Narc-free land, but it’s what I call my home these days, where there’s just me and my son. Outside of the house the narcs are everywhere, even very close, like the man next door, my N-ex-husband, whom I try to avoid as often as I can. My N-ex-boyfriend I’ll see only when I attend their concerts, I decided I will not give that up. I just have to toughen up before I see him next time. And I am lucky to have very good non-narc female friends, that I can spend time with. Merry Christmas to you too, Windstorm. You’re the sweetest! Go do some hugging now 🙂 X

        Thanks Jenna, that is kind of you. I do not know what you’d like me to explain. I feel like I am an open book and I think I have told a lot of personal stuff already. It’s only that once in a while I am little worried for my privacy, or I should say for the privacy of the people I talk about.

        Twilight, thank you too. It’s not so much the information I need anymore, although I enjoy reading HG’s stories. It’s more the feeling of connection with people that understand what narcissism is about.
        And it’s the continuing fight with my emotional thinking that keeps me here as well. I understand your need to ‘recharge’ Twilight.
        Well, I guess we are free to come and go. I won’t be saying goodbye officially anymore, I just wanted to be polite 😉

        Thanks girls XXX

      20. Blank

        Thank you for your reply. I have two people in my rl that have had dealings with HGs kind and are Empaths. My best friend and my son. HG thou is the only one I feel comfortable in speaking of some of the horrors I have witnessed or dealt with. Lol telling other Empaths would just cause sympathy and that is one thing I avoid when looking for someone who understands and can give me blunt truth with no emotion attached.

        My favorite saying is until we speak again, I don’t remember if I heard it or read it somewhere only that it seemed to fit many situations

      21. Hi blank,

        ” I do not know what you’d like me to explain.”

        I remember u writing that my comments are really long, and that it’s not ur style. So what i meant was – why not write longer comments in order to explain urself, if u feel the need, even if it’s not ur style? Like in this example of returning here. It sure is better to do so than to feel embarassed abt returning, especially since there is nothing to be embarassed abt at all!

        I have in fact taken ur advice and am trying to shorten my comments becoz i feel uncomfortable if pple are annoyed by my lengthy and/or numerous comments. 😀 Let’s see how long that lasts!

      22. Blank ,

        Like everyone said already- it’s not embarrassing or pathetic at all.
        People going and coming back , everyone needs a break once in a while .. Having so much going on I’m trying to reduce the time I spent here myself. Trying..🙃
        I understand how you feel about seeing your ex. I’ve seen mine few weeks ago for the first time in over a year and it hit me badly.. but it also helped me to understand where I am in my healing process.
        I enjoy reading your posts and I often share the same views. I’m happy you’re here .😊

      23. Blank, I have only been posting for a couple of months but i’ve done a lot of reading and I appreciate you! I already tried to leave.. but i am accepting the process…

        Thank you for sharing, it is very helpful to know we are not alone in our struggles –

        And on that note – y’all are fantastic! ABW, Twilight, Windstorm, Sniglet, Jenna, NAffair, Clarece, Foolme1time, K & you too Blank – offering such support to each other – this page reads like a who’s-who on HGs page –

        Who would ever have thought such comradery from getting together around narcs?!

        I am blessed having joined this page and am thankful for our interaction – sincere thanks..

        Merry Christmas, everyone!

        You too, Scrooge.. I mean, HG.

      24. Nuit Étoilée
        Thank you. It is a lot like a support group here!
        You have a very Merry Christmas too!!

      25. Merry Christmas Nuit E! I’m glad if what I’ve shared over time has helped you and benefitted in some way!! You’re a great presence here too with all these other fine ladies (and few gents)!
        Hope 2018 brings good things into your life.

      1. Hi claudia,

        I have a psychiatrist and a therapist. But hg is more helpful to me than either of them. I’ve had consults with him in the past and they were 10x more helpful than any of my therapy sessions. And these are top notch therapists i am talking about – the highly recommended ones. I pay $165/45 min for this particular therapist. She is out of network, so she is not covered by my insurance company. I chose her specifically due to excellent recommendations. I saw her many many times. Guess what? One consult with hg was worth more than all consults with her. If u have not tried an hg tudor consult, i highly recommend it. It leaves one at peace.

        Thanks hg!!

      2. @claudia, there’s a post on this blog that explains the meaning behind the use of that phrase, “You need a doctor.” When used by narcissists against someone they are trying to shut down verbally.

        It’s a defensive, knee jerk reaction that requires little thought and zero empathy.

      3. Hello Claudia

        I understand from a commmet of yours on another thread you found this blog due to your studies.

        May I ask

        Have you ever experienced a narcsissistic relationship?

    2. jenna,

      “i have temporarily decided that narcs are vile creatures ”

      Decide permanantly!

      “Nobody would want to read what i have to say here😁”

      I’m not Nobody, but I’d want to read what you have to say! 😉

      Do the private consult! You deserve the best, right!!??
      What a great gift to give yourself for Christmas!!
      You’d have an hour of HG to yourself!

      Now, can somebody tell how to test skype, to see if it works on my computer? Is the convo recordable on skype?

      1. Perse,

        Ty.

        “You’d have an hour of HG to yourself!”

        Although i like the sound of this, i can feel his blood boiling thinking – NOBODY has me to themselves!!😄

  6. ADVICE APPRECIATED: WHAT SHOULD ONE DO WITH THE CHRISTMAS CARD RECEIVED FROM A MEMBER OF THE COTERIE, WHO YOU WERE ONCE REASONABLY FRIENDLY WITH? SHE DIDN’T GET IN TOUCH OR OFFER ANY SUPPORT ALL YEAR TO ME OR THE KIDS WHEN MY NARC EX BETRAYED, DISCARDED AND DEVASTATED US IN JANUARY. SHE NOW TELLS ME SHE IS “THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME AND ALWAYS WITH MUCH LOVE AND AFFECTION”. I WANT TO SEND IT BACK SAYING “11 MONTHS TOO LATE SISTER”.

    (Sorry about the caps, I am not shouting)

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