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116 thoughts on “Spanked

  1. njfilly says:


    I have never seen this. What is this and how do I get spanked by Mr. HG Tudor?

    I will follow whatever instructions are necessary.

    1. Soon to be sparkling! says:

      Haha njfilly,

      Careful what you wish for 😉

      1. njfilly says:

        Ha ha!

      2. K says:

        C’mon Soon to be sparkling! Don’t you want to be spanked, too!

        1. Soon to be sparkling! says:


          Haha, no actually. I am past that stage. I spent many a decade there.

          I’m all tenderness now. ❤️

          Having said that, I have expressed my interest and acknowledged my absolute interest in this product.

          I may not want to engage in the act anymore but you bet that I still enjoy hearing all about it.

          Once a deviant, always a deviant. But in my head, not in action 😉

          1. K says:

            Soon to be sparkling!
            Ha ha ha…nothing like a little deviance to spice up the day! It’s a bit like voyeurism.

    2. K says:

      Ha ha ha…you Dirty Birdie. Send him an email and just wait to be titillated.

      1. njfilly says:

        I sent it! I am patiently waiting. (I just hope it’s not instructions on how to spank yourself.)

        1. K says:

          Ha ha ha…I hope not because that wouldn’t be any fun at all!

          1. njfilly says:


            No that wouldn’t be fun, but unfortunately I think it’s going to be only an explanation of how spanking plays into the narcissistic dynamic and how it is dangerous and we shouldn’t partake (or something similar). An appeal to our logical thinking, and ruining yet another thing that I enjoy so much. (but will still engage in).

            Hopefully he will do a second recording, catering to our emotional thinking, similar to the Hush recording. The sound of Mr. HG Tudor giving instructions and discipline, with the sound of a hand (or crop) slap on ass in the background. (hint). I volunteer my own ass for this recording. Just to help the cause.

          2. K says:

            Ha ha ha…there’s nothing wrong with a little kink in your life and I am sure you would be more than happy to take one for The Team!

          3. njfilly says:

            For the team, of course! Team Empath!

  2. MLA - Clarece says:

    Will the long awaited Spanked audio instructions come out when you hit 8 million hits? You’re very close!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      They will come out once I have concluded the backlog arising from my recent hiatus.

      1. Spanked audio instructions? lol

        Oh god…

        I guess a lot of people are craving some discipline

        1. Kim e says:

          Welcome back Dr

          1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:


            How are you??!!

          2. Kim e says:

            Hi Doc. I am good. Working thru the fog with a little help from my friends 😀
            Nice to see you back. I would ask if you have been behaving BUT why😂😂😂😂😂
            How you been?

          3. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:

            Hey, you always have support from me!! Hugs from afar!!

            Have I been behaving?? Hmmm..ummmm….yes and no….????

            Ohhhhh come on, I’m sucha good girl 🤥..
            I think I just vomited in my mouth. We both know I’m just a good girl with some…let’s say…bad tendencies 😈🤭🤫

            I mean, I was for awhile and then … you know…sometimes the boredom gets the best of me.

          4. Kim e says:

            Dr H.
            Ah yes…boredom. Gets me in trouble but hell. Gotta have some fun
            Went to company Christmas party last night and someone commented to me “It’s nice to see you smile “. Since this person knows nothing of the N, I have to believe a glimmer of the old me is starting to emerge.
            Now there will be some misbehaving 🍷😀🥃🍷

      2. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        I think the Tudes is the one who needs a spanking….

        Come on, Tudes you needed a little ODD psychologist to spice up your evening lmao…

        I’m backkkkk…..

        1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        2. HG Tudor says:

          Nobody spanks HG.

          You know that.

          1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:

            I know…I know…

            But I’m sure someone will try lmao

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Not if they’ve half a brain, Doc.

          3. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:

            I would be entertained to watch someone try.

            ::eating popcorn::

        3. K says:

          Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD
          Ha ha ha…good to see you back!

          1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:


            How are you doingggg?

            Update me!!

          2. K says:

            Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD.
            I doing very well, thank you! Currently, I am focussing on how to recognize narcissistic manipulations and how to ferret out the on-line narcissist.

            How have you been? What’s going on with you?

  3. Gabbanzobean says:

    I’m still waiting on the article about “mommy issues”, a follow up to “daddy issues”. Do I also need to email for that one as well?

    1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel, PsyD. says:

      Girl, you better be done with that fake peasant you were kind enough to grace with your presence! Lmao

      1. Fuel Shortage says:

        He is still around. I’ve been in the “friend zone” since the summer. We still talk intermittently.

        And I am still waiting on the article about “mommy issues”

  4. Lou says:

    Wow, even to chose a picture of a naked bottom you have good taste, Mr Tudor.
    I haven’t decided whether or not I am interested enough to get Spanked. I feel intimidated but I do not know exactly why.

    1. K says:

      Go for it, Lou! I did.

  5. Leolita says:

    My ex (most likely a LMR) would use our telephone conversations to masturbate to. The funny thing is, he did it secretly, and while trying to manipulate me. For instance, he would pretend not to hear me or deliberately not speaking into the microphone, so I could not hear him. Then he would fake upset and annoyed from this, denying and deflecting- saying he was talking into the microphone, and finally he would hang up, to make me stressed or annoyed and keep calling him back. I called him out on this, and he became very angry, screamed and ended the conversation by turning his phone off, and then gave me a week of absent scilence treatment.

    Is this a typical mid range thing, or something all narcs could / would do?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Most likely the behaviour of a Lower Mid Range Narcissist.

  6. ‘So, come up to the lab
    And see what’s on the slab
    I see you shiver with antici-


    But maybe the rain
    Is really to blame
    So I’ll remove the cause
    But not the symptom’

    1. You may blame Richard O’brien for the lyrics.
      Me for the impatience


  7. I’m not on my knees yet.

  8. Geminimom says:

    I just sent my email for instructions. This is like a free book. Thank you.

  9. Nina says:

    Promises, promises, promises, HG!!

    Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas!!

  10. I take the awaiting instructions part is one way to explore the dynamic of control…..

  11. Bubbles🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Even at my age …. my husband is still into a bit of “slap n tickle”

    1. HG Tudor says:

      If it works for you, why not?

  12. MLA - Clarece says:

    Well played Scrooge… oops I mean HG!
    Nicely done.
    Will this be a group email blasted off to everyone at the same time? Or do we get a custom greeting in our email from you?
    I don’t want mine to end up in the spam folder. Lol

    1. NarcAngel says:


      Well? …Did you all blast off together?

  13. DebbieWolf says:

    My problem is Im too patient for my own good!

    But…………. lets go already! ⏰😂

    1. DebbieWolf says:

      Oooooooooooooooo 👋

      Pant sigh pant some more…👅👀

      Chasing tail….


      1. narc affair says:

        Down girl down lol 😄

  14. It never interested me, until I saw a movie called “Secretary”. I didn’t know what it was about at first, I just liked to watch James Spader. When he asked the secretary to read back the letter, (she made some typing errors) I guessed what was coming, but couldn’t look away.

    I read the first “Shades of Grey” but it did nothing for me.

    1. narc affair says:

      Hi perse…shades of grey ughhh I started to read the first book and got 1/4 way thru and never finished. Im off to watch your link. Im thinking a possible movie during the holidays 😉

      1. narc affair says:

        Ummm yeah now were talking lol that was a hot spank scene although i never cared for that actor.
        I think ill rent it 🤑

      2. narc affair,

        The movie is about control, and there is a non violent scene that I found disturbing.
        It was very interesting to watch how the relationship worked, but I can’t remember how it ended….
        but spanking it has!
        I hope you enjoy it.


      3. narc affair says:

        Hi perse…i skipped ahead and watched clips on utube lol im terrible with waiting. It was eerie bc this guy exhibits a lot of what weve learned here. He most definitely is a narcissist. I will watch it and report back 🤗

        1. Good movie. You’ll never look at red pens the same way 🙂

    2. Jules Bulloch says:

      Try Story of O. <3

      1. Thanks Jules,
        I do remember this being a scandalous film at the time. I’ll check it out if I can find it.
        Might as well, looks like it’s going to be a bit longer before we get Spanked.

        Here’s some spanking, and threats to spank from older mainstream movies.

        My fav tho: Cary Grant “How’d you like a spanking?” Audrey Hepburn “How’d you like a punch on the nose!?”
        Funny how it’s the women getting spanked, and several of these have declarations of love.
        Ahhh, yep, heard this before, now it fits.
        Some will tell a child ” I’m spanking you because I love you.”
        Spanking=Love to some people.

        1. K says:

          And spanking = control and fuel for the narcissist.

  15. Katphena says:

    Awaiting my spanking!

  16. Anm says:

    Young, horny, and waiting….

  17. CK says:

    Is it wrong that I like being spanked?!

    1. Narc Angel says:

      Not at all.

    2. 12345 says:

      I’m afraid to say I do like it along with getting my hair pulled. I’m sure it puts me in yet another “dirty” category. I do hate that.

    3. Catherine says:


      Not at all. I quite like it myself under the right circumstances. I have to admit my narcissist wasn’t only a love thief though; I think he stole my sexuality too. I hardly think about sex anymore; and I realise now that’s got to change..

    4. K says:

      Of course not, CK. But if you like it, then you may not provide negative fuel so another manipulation may have to be used against you.

  18. Awwwwww,

    Thank you so much! It’s just what I wanted!

    ……but I didn’t get you anything…:(

    1. Narc Angel says:


      Oh but you have if you cry out in pain and/or pleasure. If you can squeeze out a few tears well…lets just say youre golden and “God bless us everyone!”

      1. Oh,

        Will it hurt my hand much?

        I just wanted to place a couple pink handprints on a pristine behind.

    2. DebbieWolf says:


    3. Jess says:


  19. Sniglet says:

    I must be the only one who finds spanking demeaning.

    1. Narc Angel says:


      Well you know what they say……its better to give than receive…. and it IS Christmas.

      You should check on that application to the dark side.

      1. Sniglet says:

        Narc Angel,

        Sniglet is not on spanking terms with anybody this Christmas in protest for the delayed decision of the application to the dark side. The judges’ arched eyebrows have been frozen in time for lack of evidence and are unable to reach their decision. The judges should drop their pants for Sniglet to instead whip their icy bottoms into oblivion and maintain decision timeliness. I’ve the whip, may I borrow your face mask NA?

        1. kevie Schulz says:

          ( i think that some of us deserve to be spanked sometime in our lives. some of us might deserve a spanking in our lives.

  20. Brian says:

    Had to admit I laughed, seeing this blog post after the enthusiasm for the subject in the comments.

  21. abrokenwing says:

    ‘Now the pain is my pleasure
    Cause nothing could measure.’

  22. Bibi says:

    I am shy. Please tell me how it goes and then maybe I will think about it.

  23. Noname says:

    New article? Interesting. The sex life dynamic and behavior tells volumes about Narcs’ internal world and how he/she is “wired” exactly. Also, it is a pretty good indicator of the “severety” of the charachter disorder. It is like a “Tell me what you prefer in sex and I’ll tell you who you are”. Lol.

    Will that article be published as a text version or it is an audio version only?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Audio only.

      1. Noname says:

        Bad. I can’t “hear” the English speech normally yet. But OK. We all have our own limits. Lol. Thank you for your reply, Tudor.

  24. Antifragile says:

    That sounds scary))) Register your interest and await instructions…

    1. blackunicorn123 says:

      I was thinking more “this message will now self-destruct”, 😂

  25. Leolita says:

    …so even the spanking is a «narc-thing»?? I have taken serious amounts of it, wearing exactly that. (How do you know?)

    1. Cordelia says:

      That’s a really good question…how would one even know? Wouldn’t a narc adapt to whether his supply enjoyed it? If he knew it was going to get a strong positive (or negative) emotional reaction from his supply, I would think that would produce plenty of glee?

  26. Narc Angel says:

    Well there goes the internet over Christmas………………

    1. Blank says:

      Did you register? 🙂

      1. K says:

        I was first in line Blank!

      2. Blank says:

        I could have guessed that, K. 🙂

    2. narc affair says:

      Narc angel are you going to sign up for a spanking too? 😄

      1. Narc Angel says:

        Blank, Narc Affair, and Brian.

        Im used to delivering the blows-not receiving. I am curious as to what he has in store but I think I’ll sit this one out (see what I did there?). Maybe l’ll help Bibi overcome her alleged shyness by having her watch while I give Brian (if he consents) a few little smacks interrupted by some soothing oil to quell the heat and redness to make it bigger……er……I mean better.

      2. narc affair says:

        Lol love those slip ups narc angel 😄

      3. Blank says:

        NA, Why Brian.. why not HG? 🙂 I’ll make the pictures.

        1. Narc Angel says:


          Brian will be better behaved

          ** whispers into Brians ear: Wont you Brian? **

      4. Brian says:

        Well I was tempted to send an email to the address as a joke.
        Then it would have been funny if he just sent an email just saying ‘piss off’.

        I think I’ve been mentally beaten up enough though.

        1. Narc Angel says:

          Thats just it Brian. You deserve to let that mind go and wander to other thoughts and sensations of the flesh instead of the painful ones that usually consume you. I wont hurt you.


      5. Blank says:

        Wow Brian.. if I was a guy, I would not refuse such an offer! 🙂

      6. Brian says:

        lol if I were single and atheist I would probably try anything once

    3. MLA - Clarece says:

      You could not have said it better Narc Angel. Forget last minute e-card purchases or holiday gift returns once he hits send on this gem.

  27. narc affair says:

    Oh my it cant be can it??? Lol 😄 theres only one way to find out 🤔im kinda scared 😂😄

  28. Windstorm2 says:

    Well I have to admit that I’m intrigued – but not enough to submit to following directions or derive enjoyment from spankings. Guess I’ll just have to wait for the comments. Lol!

    1. Blank says:

      I’m with you Windstorm 🙂

      1. Blank says:

        Why is such a short comment waiting for moderation for so long, Mr. Tudor? (And there are more) You’ve read and moderated the far longer comments of others that came after.
        Is it because you don’t want them to be noticed?
        It’s funny all these comments about you, one stating you are an arrogant prick, others will tell how they almost orgasm reading your wise lessons. I know you are clever, but so am I. I certainly appreciate what you do here and it has made me understand the weird behaviour of the narcs I’ve dealt with. But you are a narc after all, so I know you are manipulative and I know for sure you ‘play’ with the comments. Small punishments and silent treatments included.
        Now, please sweetheart, be so kind and allow my comments to be placed on your holy ground.

    2. foolme1time says:

      Oh Windstorm give it a whirl!! 😘🙃

    3. Narc Angel says:


      I dont submit or follow instructions well either, but I’ve been bent over with my pants down around my ankles for hours and so far nothing. I got so bored I started slapping my own ass. I guess we’ll have to wait on a report from Narc Affair.

      1. Bibi says:

        Do you guys remember that Madonna song from the Dick Tracy film? ‘Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you. I don’t want you to thank me, I just want you to spank me!’

        I also very much enjoy the film Secretary with James Spader. HOT.

        I would only agree to a spanking one on one session, please.

      2. Bibi says:

        This is for you, NA.

        I developed a crush on James Spader after this role!

      3. K says:

        Thanks for the laugh Narc Angel!

    4. I think “spanked” is just a metaphor for narcissistic control, Windstorm. I could be wrong. 🙂 I’m confident it will be yet another intriguing listen. HG, says he doesn’t bite, right?

      1. Narc Angel says:


        Haha. Maybe hes just going to round up those who register and then crack their heads together for complying after all hes taught them.

        Thats not something a narc would do is it?

      2. narc affair says:

        Bites are fun too tho but not too hard especially on the neck 😄 but no hannibal bites please 😄😂

        1. Windstorm2 says:

          Going to have to take your word on bites. I can’t imagine how any type of pain could be pleasant!

      3. K says:

        HG enjoys eating souls.

        1. Yes. He does.

      4. narc affair says:

        Hi windstorm…bites on my neck are my undoing lol i love them! Not painful bites tho. Nibbles are good too. Very sensual!
        Im definitely not into pain. Im a wuss when it comes to that!

  29. K says:

    Oh my! I just blushed….the long awaited “Spanked” has arrived.

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