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86 thoughts on “Spanked”

  1. Will the long awaited Spanked audio instructions come out when you hit 8 million hits? You’re very close!

  2. I’m still waiting on the article about “mommy issues”, a follow up to “daddy issues”. Do I also need to email for that one as well?

  3. Wow, even to chose a picture of a naked bottom you have good taste, Mr Tudor.
    I haven’t decided whether or not I am interested enough to get Spanked. I feel intimidated but I do not know exactly why.

  4. My ex (most likely a LMR) would use our telephone conversations to masturbate to. The funny thing is, he did it secretly, and while trying to manipulate me. For instance, he would pretend not to hear me or deliberately not speaking into the microphone, so I could not hear him. Then he would fake upset and annoyed from this, denying and deflecting- saying he was talking into the microphone, and finally he would hang up, to make me stressed or annoyed and keep calling him back. I called him out on this, and he became very angry, screamed and ended the conversation by turning his phone off, and then gave me a week of absent scilence treatment.

    Is this a typical mid range thing, or something all narcs could / would do?

  5. Well played Scrooge… oops I mean HG!
    Nicely done.
    Will this be a group email blasted off to everyone at the same time? Or do we get a custom greeting in our email from you?
    I don’t want mine to end up in the spam folder. Lol

    1. Oooooooooooooooo 👋

      Pant sigh pant some more…👅👀

      Chasing tail….


  6. It never interested me, until I saw a movie called “Secretary”. I didn’t know what it was about at first, I just liked to watch James Spader. When he asked the secretary to read back the letter, (she made some typing errors) I guessed what was coming, but couldn’t look away.

    I read the first “Shades of Grey” but it did nothing for me.

    1. Hi perse…shades of grey ughhh I started to read the first book and got 1/4 way thru and never finished. Im off to watch your link. Im thinking a possible movie during the holidays 😉

      1. Ummm yeah now were talking lol that was a hot spank scene although i never cared for that actor.
        I think ill rent it 🤑

      2. narc affair,

        The movie is about control, and there is a non violent scene that I found disturbing.
        It was very interesting to watch how the relationship worked, but I can’t remember how it ended….
        but spanking it has!
        I hope you enjoy it.


      3. Hi perse…i skipped ahead and watched clips on utube lol im terrible with waiting. It was eerie bc this guy exhibits a lot of what weve learned here. He most definitely is a narcissist. I will watch it and report back 🤗

      1. Thanks Jules,
        I do remember this being a scandalous film at the time. I’ll check it out if I can find it.
        Might as well, looks like it’s going to be a bit longer before we get Spanked.

        Here’s some spanking, and threats to spank from older mainstream movies.

        My fav tho: Cary Grant “How’d you like a spanking?” Audrey Hepburn “How’d you like a punch on the nose!?”
        Funny how it’s the women getting spanked, and several of these have declarations of love.
        Ahhh, yep, heard this before, now it fits.
        Some will tell a child ” I’m spanking you because I love you.”
        Spanking=Love to some people.

    1. I’m afraid to say I do like it along with getting my hair pulled. I’m sure it puts me in yet another “dirty” category. I do hate that.

    2. CK,

      Not at all. I quite like it myself under the right circumstances. I have to admit my narcissist wasn’t only a love thief though; I think he stole my sexuality too. I hardly think about sex anymore; and I realise now that’s got to change..

    3. Of course not, CK. But if you like it, then you may not provide negative fuel so another manipulation may have to be used against you.

    1. Perse

      Oh but you have if you cry out in pain and/or pleasure. If you can squeeze out a few tears well…lets just say youre golden and “God bless us everyone!”

    1. Sniglet

      Well you know what they say……its better to give than receive…. and it IS Christmas.

      You should check on that application to the dark side.

      1. Narc Angel,

        Sniglet is not on spanking terms with anybody this Christmas in protest for the delayed decision of the application to the dark side. The judges’ arched eyebrows have been frozen in time for lack of evidence and are unable to reach their decision. The judges should drop their pants for Sniglet to instead whip their icy bottoms into oblivion and maintain decision timeliness. I’ve the whip, may I borrow your face mask NA?

  7. New article? Interesting. The sex life dynamic and behavior tells volumes about Narcs’ internal world and how he/she is “wired” exactly. Also, it is a pretty good indicator of the “severety” of the charachter disorder. It is like a “Tell me what you prefer in sex and I’ll tell you who you are”. Lol.

    Will that article be published as a text version or it is an audio version only?

      1. Bad. I can’t “hear” the English speech normally yet. But OK. We all have our own limits. Lol. Thank you for your reply, Tudor.

  8. …so even the spanking is a «narc-thing»?? I have taken serious amounts of it, wearing exactly that. (How do you know?)

    1. That’s a really good question…how would one even know? Wouldn’t a narc adapt to whether his supply enjoyed it? If he knew it was going to get a strong positive (or negative) emotional reaction from his supply, I would think that would produce plenty of glee?

      1. Blank, Narc Affair, and Brian.

        Im used to delivering the blows-not receiving. I am curious as to what he has in store but I think I’ll sit this one out (see what I did there?). Maybe l’ll help Bibi overcome her alleged shyness by having her watch while I give Brian (if he consents) a few little smacks interrupted by some soothing oil to quell the heat and redness to make it bigger……er……I mean better.

      2. Well I was tempted to send an email to the address as a joke.
        Then it would have been funny if he just sent an email just saying ‘piss off’.

        I think I’ve been mentally beaten up enough though.

        1. Thats just it Brian. You deserve to let that mind go and wander to other thoughts and sensations of the flesh instead of the painful ones that usually consume you. I wont hurt you.


    1. You could not have said it better Narc Angel. Forget last minute e-card purchases or holiday gift returns once he hits send on this gem.

  9. Well I have to admit that I’m intrigued – but not enough to submit to following directions or derive enjoyment from spankings. Guess I’ll just have to wait for the comments. Lol!

      1. Why is such a short comment waiting for moderation for so long, Mr. Tudor? (And there are more) You’ve read and moderated the far longer comments of others that came after.
        Is it because you don’t want them to be noticed?
        It’s funny all these comments about you, one stating you are an arrogant prick, others will tell how they almost orgasm reading your wise lessons. I know you are clever, but so am I. I certainly appreciate what you do here and it has made me understand the weird behaviour of the narcs I’ve dealt with. But you are a narc after all, so I know you are manipulative and I know for sure you ‘play’ with the comments. Small punishments and silent treatments included.
        Now, please sweetheart, be so kind and allow my comments to be placed on your holy ground.

    1. Windstorm

      I dont submit or follow instructions well either, but I’ve been bent over with my pants down around my ankles for hours and so far nothing. I got so bored I started slapping my own ass. I guess we’ll have to wait on a report from Narc Affair.

      1. Do you guys remember that Madonna song from the Dick Tracy film? ‘Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you. I don’t want you to thank me, I just want you to spank me!’

        I also very much enjoy the film Secretary with James Spader. HOT.

        I would only agree to a spanking one on one session, please.

    2. I think “spanked” is just a metaphor for narcissistic control, Windstorm. I could be wrong. 🙂 I’m confident it will be yet another intriguing listen. HG, says he doesn’t bite, right?

      1. Strongerwendy

        Haha. Maybe hes just going to round up those who register and then crack their heads together for complying after all hes taught them.

        Thats not something a narc would do is it?

      2. Bites are fun too tho but not too hard especially on the neck 😄 but no hannibal bites please 😄😂

        1. NarcAffair
          Going to have to take your word on bites. I can’t imagine how any type of pain could be pleasant!

      3. Hi windstorm…bites on my neck are my undoing lol i love them! Not painful bites tho. Nibbles are good too. Very sensual!
        Im definitely not into pain. Im a wuss when it comes to that!

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