Three Little Empaths


Once upon a time, there were three little empaths who lived with a Wise Old Empath. The Wise Old Empath felt that more good needed to be done in the world, so she sent the three little empaths out in to the world and besides she wanted to be able to binge watch boxsets of Baking With Goodness without interruption. As she waved good bye to the three little empaths she called out,

“Go into the world my little empaths and spread your goodness all around, but please watch out for the narcissists. They are not easy to spot and make sure you all build a good home on the foundation of no contact. There is only one architect you should look for, he is called Hurt God.”

“We will!” chorused the three little empaths as they headed off into the world. The three little empaths soon set about commencing their good works and it was not long before pods of gay blind whales were being saved, a GoFundMe account was up and running for Oppressed Men with Beards and of Diminished Stature and  Crochet ‘Cos U Care Clubs sprang up across the land.

Yet, there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth as each of the three little empaths fell foul to the lure of The Narcissist. After Glorious Golden Periods and Devilish Devaluations, the three little empaths each made an escape bid.

The first little empath was scurrying along the yellow brick road seeking to escape her narcissist as she remembered the words of the Wise Old Empath.

“I need to build a house founded on no contact. W.O.E told me to find Hurt God but that sounds like such hard work and I was hoping to bake some Gullible Tarts this afternoon, oh what am I to do?”

Just then a woman rounded the yellow brick road.

“Hello first little empath, did I hear you need to build a House of No Contact?” she asked.

“Yes, yes I do, who are you?” asked the first little empath.

“I am Hysterical Tirade, I know about no contact,” replied the woman.

“You do?” asked the first little empath with enthusiasm, “I was told to use the architect Hurt God, but that sounds like hard work finding him.”

“Oh, it is and he is not a pleasant man, you do not want to use his work. My work is really just a personal rant about the narcissist that ensnared me, but don’t let that distract you from how brilliant my advice is. Here take this book.”

“Oh, thank you so much, now I can build my House of No Contact and do some baking.” And the first little empath used the book provided by Hysterical Tirade to build a House of No Contact on the spot where she was stood.

Not much later, as the first little empath was rolling the pastry for the Gullible Tarts she heard a familiar voice.

“Little emp, little emp, let me come in!”

It was an ogre of a Lesser Narcissist!

“Shove it douchebag!” shouted the first little empath defiantly.

“Then I will shout and I will scream and I will make a huge din so I can ensure I hoover you straight back in!” cried the Lesser Narcissist.

The first little empath smiled for she was in a House of No Contact but then she paused as she felt a cold hand of dread about her throat.

“Er, how did you find me?” she asked.

“Ha ha,” laughed the Lesser Narcissist, “look next door.”

The first little empath looked out of the window and saw across the garden was the man she knew as Lou Tenant waving back at her with a sardonic grin.

“Damn!” cursed the first little empath, “Hysterical Tirade’s Guide to the House of No Contact said nothing about building next to the House of Lou Tenant.”

“What a shame,” smiled the Lesser Narcissist as he strolled up behind the first little empath, slung her over his shoulder and set off back to Narc Town, leaving the First House of No Contact to crumble behind them.


The second little empath was hurrying along the road paved with gold seeking to escape her narcissist as she remembered the words of the Wise Old Empath.

“I need to build a house founded on no contact. W.O.E told me to find Hurt God but that sounds like such hard work and I was hoping to knit some Hats of Eternal Hope this afternoon, oh what am I to do?”

Just then a man rounded a corner of the road paved with gold.

“Hello second little empath, did I hear you need to build a House of No Contact?” he asked as he adjusted his vest and gave a smile.

“Yes, yes I do, who are you?” asked the second little empath.

“I am Smooth Amateur, I know about no contact,” replied the man.

“You do?” asked the second little empath with enthusiasm, “I was told to use the architect Hurt God, but that sounds like hard work finding him.”

“Oh, it is and he is a psychopath you know so he is a pathological liar, you do not want to use his work. My work is really just a collection of some fairly good ideas to essentially make me look like a hero whilst not really conveying the reality, but don’t let that distract you from how brilliant my advice is. Here take this book.”

“Oh, thank you so much, now I can build my House of No Contact and do some knitting.” And the second little empath used the book provided by Smooth Amateur to build a House of No Contact on the spot where she was stood.

Not much later, as the second little empath was knitting busily in her parlour she heard a familiar voice.

“Little emp, little emp, let me come in!”

It was a cowardly Mid-Range Narcissist!

“Beat it loser!” shouted the second little empath defiantly.

“Then I will plead and I will cajole and I will smear you with sin, so I can ensure I hoover you straight back in!” cried the Mid-Range Narcissist.

The second little empath smiled for she was in a House of No Contact but then she paused as she felt a cold hand of dread about her throat.

“Wait how did you know I would be here?” she asked

“You’ve been plastering yourself all over BaseFuck, Twatter, NarcMagnet and Plenty of Narcs, you gave plenty of detail about what you are doing and where and you did not block me,” smiled the Mid Range Narcissist with an oily grin.

“Damn!” cursed the second little empath, “Smooth Amateur’s Guide to the House of No Contact said nothing about staying off social media and blocking you.”

“What a shame,” smiled the Mid-Range Narcissist, “but it’s not all bad, after all, you should be looking after me now,” as he strolled up behind the second little empath, took her by the hand and set off back to Narc Town, leaving the Second House of No Contact to crumble behind them.


The third little empath was scurrying along the road to hell paved with good intentions seeking to escape her narcissist as she remembered the words of the Wise Old Empath.

“I need to build a house founded on no contact. W.O.E told me to find Hurt God and by the lack of hairs on my smooth chinny chinny chin chin I will find this mysterious Hurt God” she declared with resolve.

So the third little empath walked the road to hell paved with good intentions and was repeatedly offered books, videos and seminars on how to build the Ultimate House of No Contact by many people. She ignored various providers, such as Miss Unsupported Bonkers Theory, Unduly Esoteric Explanation Man, Hopelessly Rambling Victim, Mr Nice But Narc, Miss Tie Twenty Crystals Around Your Forehead and other well-meaning but ultimately ineffective purveyors of advice.

The third little empath grew weary and as the sun began to set, she feared that she would not be able to build a House of No Contact on Hurt God’s foundation before her narcissist caught up with her.

Just then the third empath turned a corner of the road and there was a tall, slim man who immediately exuded an air of malevolent menace. She could not see his features against the brightness of the sinking sun but the darkness which flowed from him made her feel wary and unsettled.

“Hello third little empath, did I hear you need to build a House of No Contact?” he asked in a voice which was authoritative and beguiling.

“Yes, yes I do, but I should not talk to strangers and certainly not ones as magnetic as you,” said the third little empath.

“Very sensible,” laughed the mysterious stranger and the third little empath was both aroused and repulsed, “but you need not worry, you are but a tertiary source and I have more proximate empaths to toy with. Here, take this, it will serve you excellent well,” and with that the stranger pressed a book into the shaking hands of the third little empath before he strode away whistling “A Hunting We Will Go” to himself.

The third little empath looked at the book and saw the title “Hurt God’s Ultimate House of No Contact” and she promptly fainted.

Some time later the third little empath came to and recalled her brief encounter with Hurt God. She saw the book still nearby and snatched it up and immediately set about digesting its content.

Even more time later, the third little empath was settling down to watch an episode of ‘Narcland’s Got Empaths’ when there was chime from her mobile phone. She saw a notification from her NarcCam and opened up the application. She watched transfixed as she saw a shadowy figure moving towards a house, caught on a concealed NarcCam.

“Goodness, it is the Greater Narcissist!” declared the third little empath. She sat in her comfortable armchair and watched remotely as the figure strolled with complete confidence up to a well-appointed house.

“He has come to hoover me!” announced the third little empath. The camera had sound and vision and she could hear the Greater Narcissist saying smoothly,

“Little emp, little emp, let me come in.”

“No way buster,” said the third little empath.

The Greater strode up the steps on to the porch in full view of the camera and turned and looked straight into the lens. He gave a radiant smile and said,

“Oh don’t be like that, I’ve come to repair the rift, I’ll hoover you with an expensive gift,” and then he extended a manicured forefinger and pressed the door bell.

Suddenly a trapdoor opened and the Greater dropped out of sight.

“Let’s see how a period of fuel free isolation suits you Mr Narcissist,” said the third little empath. She set down her ‘phone and picked up the television remote control. The third little empath patted the book that rested on the arm of her chair.

“Great work Hurts God, thanks to you I set up a robust House of No Contact and created a diversionary house with a false trail which the narcissist went to instead and now he is reflecting on what on earth has just happened from within a sealed drum of isolation.”

Just then a text arrived on the third little empath’s phone and she gave a short gasp.

“HG approves,” read the text.


85 thoughts on “Three Little Empaths

  1. KM says:

    Hahaha 👍

  2. Wounded says:

    Oh so wonderful. This yanked me out of my emotion fueled thoughts and back into Logic Land. Best to temper my heart with my head. Thank you.

  3. Bubbles🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    I laughed so much, I almost died with my leg in the air!
    Superb, absolutely superb. I’m going to keep a lookout for well manicured nails from now on!
    A classic magically reinvented to hysterical truth and perfection.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Jolly good.

  4. @HG,

    ‘Thus there is a win for me and a win for you.’

    Yay!!! Finally a Narcissist that believes in win/win!

    May you be filled with the pride you deserve for your efforts!


  5. NL02 says:

    Brilliant. 🙂

  6. Super Tanker of Fuel says:

    K… Great analogy. I will never be able to look at or eat a black-and-white cookie the same way again!!

    1. K says:

      Super Tanker of Fuel, nee Gabs,
      Thanks, I think it is great too. I can’t help it; I see narcissism everywhere, even in innocent cookies.

      1. Jasmine says:

        Whoops. I just read the rules.
        #9. “Cooking and bakery discussions are off limits”

        1. K says:

          Jasmine, a.k.a. Snickerdoodle
          Ha ha ha…oops, I forgot about that. We better cease and desist, before we get painted black.

          1. Jasmine says:

            B&W Cookie: no worries. We’re just tertiary sources. I don’t think those get painted black

          2. HG Tudor says:

            A tertiary source can be devalued but not here.

          3. Jasmine says:

            Thank you. I shall and follow the rules. And thanks to Docs O & E for their input. Hehe

          4. Super Tanker of Fuel says:

            I went to Costco today for some groceries and I bought a package of black-and-white cookies in honor of this back and forth. Am I white? Or am I black? I’ll never know. LOL. 🤔😉

          5. HG Tudor says:

            Black or white is irrelevant – you are ensnared by a narcissist. Therefore obey the golden rule – once you know, you go. Impose no contact and get your emotional thinking under control. Those two things are the ONLY things you should do because they will free you. Your repeated round and round comment about this narcissist is leading you nowhere. You know this but you will not TRY to do anything about it.

          6. Jasmine says:

            Hopefully we will all stay a nice shade of grey and fly under the radar. 🙃

          7. K says:

            Super Tanker of Fuel
            Well, I suspect that you are most likely painted black, hence forth, the corrective devaluation. Enjoy the cookies, though! I will think of you every time I see them from now on.

      2. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Dearest HG,
        You often tell us you do not care.. about animals, other people, us… then why does it seem so important to you that we heed your advice and go no contact w our narcs?
        What difference does it make to you if, from your perspective, we choose to continue making bad choices & remaining ensnared?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          If you choose to remain ensnared so be it, that is your problem. If you decide not to go no contact when it is patently achievable, more fool you.

          My pride in being effective means that if you fail to apply my excellent insight and information it irritates me since it feels like a slight against me for not applying my information, however that soon passes as I remind myself of your weakness with regard to emotional thinking. It is of course your fault you have not paid heed to what I have explained to you.

          Furthermore, should you apply my information properly and achieve your freedom, you will express your gratitude to me and also tell others, thus furthering my influence and legacy – therefore your success matters in that respect. Thus there is a win for me and a win for you.

      3. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Thank you for your thoughtful response, HG. I understood the pride in a job well done, as I remain amazed and impressed by the understanding I have obtained thanks to you.. but I was curious about your interest in the end of the story.

        I am happy to share my gratitude w everyone who will listen.. which brings us to a question Elyse is touching on.. once you “go public” and anyone who knows you becomes aware of your work here.. that will inevitably impact on your personal life..

        How do you think this will affect IPPSs.. and others?

        As an unrelated sidenote.. you have forever changed my relationship to the words effective.. and delicious… xx

      4. Single says:

        I agree with H G Tudor that if you decide to remain ensnared by a narcissist that is your problem. And I will go a step further, many would disagree with this point, that those who choose to stay in a toxic relationship and don’t apply the logic to escape and do no contact they probably deserve their fate to the point where they can control it, but choose to do nothing.

        You need reinforcement to your break your weakness? Read more of HG Tudor, absorb it well, have a consultation with him. Cross that threshold ~ feel more logic, feel less emotion!

      5. Single says:

        When I say feel more logic and feel less emotion. Imagine a frequency spectrum: 0 being logic, 100 being emotion and you control the spercum dial and adjust your logic to emotion ratio as needed based on your individual situation. Oh, logic requires taking into consideration the facts, evidence… and even your own feelings (the ones you have left if any, and the ones you feel when not under pressure, after the stressful event if you can remember them!)

  7. Elyse says:

    HG what is your take on God, as in the Almighty. Not yourself. I’d be curious to know. I am tempted to do an audio consult with you because I want your perspective on my husband. But, please answer the question. My.husband refers to himself as a God. With a small G.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      There is no such entity. If others believe that, that is a matter for them. Of course, if there is an advantage to be obtained in utilising God in some capacity or expressing belief, then that will be done.

      1. Elyse says:

        So, it’s your prerogative to believe what you wish. However, you are saying that if my husband professes to believe in God, it is just to take advantage and use to gain fuel if you will? Also, what of narcisstic people who have been, reformed. There are such human beings who go through counseling and become more human. I saw you declared yourself a psychopath in one of your book advertisements. Psychopath, sociopath and narcissts fall on the same.spectrum but at different shades or wavelengths. A person who Is psychotic is much more inept to change I believe. Your blogs and stories are fascinating but it does lead me to wonder, what are you? Psychotic? Sociopathic? And if that is so, why are you giving us “mere mortals” the blueprints to your thought process? I’ve often wondered too, your sources of fuel, how do they feel about all of this?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          1. Correct.
          2. They are not reformed.
          3. I do not have psychotic episodes.
          4. I have explained the reason why many times and it is detailed in the about section.
          5. They do not know about my work, if that is what you mean by “how do they feel about all of this”.

      2. Elyse says:

        In response to the comment below, the no contact. My.husband tried to email and text me again after his attempt to ensnare me again. Thankfully, prayer and breaking my soul ties to him has led me to start healing and not be tempted to respond. I do wonder if he will ever change but its not enough to make me reach out again. What I have learned from these blogs is that we are putting narcissts on a pedestal that they do not belong on and as growing stronger through faith and prayer, I am learning to let go and let God. HD and anyone here. What is your position on looking back in hindsight? I often look and see how he has torn me down but also that I get right back up and dust off these days. Has anyone had experiences like that? And HD, have you ever completely lost a fuel source and tried to recapture, only to find them.much stronger?

      3. Elyse says:

        Understood. That is disturbing that your sources do not know, surely they must suspect something. Regardless, I do believe some people can change but it seems this forum is of the belief that these individuals are doomed to be this way forever. I do not agree. But I digress.

        Sidebar, I school for psychology right now and doing quite a bit of research on personality disorders. I read an article the other day about narcisstic people being drawn to people who posses some of their same characteristics. While I can say, as a younger person I may have stupidly acted in some.manner (using people for sex and such) I never went deep into it like th is. Do you believe there is truth to that, you attract other narcissts to yourself?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The belief in change is part of the emotional thinking conning you.

          Narcissists are drawn to other narcissists, yes. They do not realise that the other person is a narcissist. See the articles ‘When Narcissists Collide – Parts One and Two’

    2. SuperXena says:

      Hello Elyse,

      Your questions made me reflect about some things that I would like to share with you:

      Are you perhaps using the terms Psychotic and Psychopatic as one?

      Psychology is not my field of expertise but as far as I know , psychotic and psychopathic are two separate, distinct disorders.

      “Psychosis is an umbrella term to describe the mental state of losing touch with reality manifested by delusions and hallucinations.

      People with schizophrenia ,bipolar disorder, depression, or other mental illnesses can often show psychotic symptoms ”

      Psychopathy, is a personality disorder which consists of ( among other things) a lack of empathy, impulsivity, lack of conscience , lack of remorse, malice, scrupulousness, callousness, and lying.”

      I believe that these disorders do not exclude each other but they are not the same. That is to say that there might be non-narcissists and non-psychopaths that can be psychotic.

      You were wondering if :

      “A person who Is psychotic is much more inept to change I believe”

      As far as I know: people with psychosis can generally be treated with proper medication and therapy, it’s difficult to say whether psychopaths can be treated. In fact, most doctors and psychiatrists believe that psychopathy is an untreatable condition.

      So, did you mean psychotic or psychopathic on your question?

      One more question if you feel like sharing:

      Why is it important for you to know about HG’s belief in God before an audio consultation?

  8. Super Tanker of Fuel says:

    I feel like changing my screen name to “gullible tart”…. rather than the current status of “G Bean”…. 🤔

    1. Jasmine says:

      “Super Tanker of Fuel”!! Haha! Love it ❤❤

      1. gabbanzobean says:

        I am drawing a blank about who it was that referred to me as a “super tanker of fuel” on here ….
        K, Narc Affair, Jenna and Dr. HQ all come to mind. Gullible Tart with a tall glass of fuel on the side?

        1. K says:

          Hello Gabs
          I remember referring to you as a FuC (Fuel carrier) and a fuel cookie.

          1. Jasmine says:

            “fuel cookie” lol.
            K, you always make me laugh

          2. K says:

            Thank you, Jasmine! Imagine a bakery full of empath-fuel-cookies. The narcissist wouldn’t be able to resist the temptation to consume them all. Delicious!

          3. Jasmine says:

            Haha.. I wanna be a snickerdoodle!

          4. K says:

            Thanks again for another laugh, Jasmine! Snickerdoodles are yummy; I chose the black and white cookie, a.k.a. half moon cookie because of the narcissistic dynamic. We are painted either white or black.

          5. Jasmine says:

            Clever K!! ❤ I didn’t think of the narcissistic angle. I chose mine because it’s a favorite line from a movie… “Snickerdoodle! What did you do to your hair?!??”

            If I had to pick a fav cookie, it’s gingerbread all the way. Lots of work, but oh, so worth it! Yum

          6. K says:

            Jasmine, I love gingerbread, too.

            Run! Run!
            Fast as you can!
            You can’t hoover me!
            I am the N/C
            Gingerbread (Wo)Man!

            Speaking Of Danny Devito on Letters No- 62, he is a lesser and Matilda is definitely the empath.

          7. Jasmine says:

            Yeah, a KICKASS EMPATH!
            I want her powers!

          8. gabbanzobean says:

            K, I was close with my guesses. Your screen name was one of the ones that came to mind. Yes, Fuel cookie!

        2. K says:

          My money is on narc affair calling you a “super tanker of fuel”. Speaking of Dr. Q., I miss her.

          1. gabbanzobean says:

            I miss Doc HQ too. She always dedicated the best song lyrics to me.

      2. Jenna says:

        Hi gabs,

        It was not me. I think it was k, but not sure.

      3. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Gullible Tart does sound like a good name for a character in one of HG’s stories..
        .. but since we didn’t allow Bubbles, previously known as ‘sillyolperson’ to keep a somewhat disparaging moniker, I think you deserve something more positive, too, Gabs..
        – SweetnTart, I could allow 😉 sweet, bc you’re a sweetheart, but Tart – bc you are becoming sour for the narc’s taste – i hope – in a kind of “dont mess w me’ way.. if that makes sense..

        *K, I do like fuel cookie, though – that’s cute.

        (speaking of Dr HQ.. she disappeared after her letter appeared.. anyone know if she’s well? I hope so)

        Here’s to all of us to Give NoFuCs !!! 🙂

        1. K says:

          NUIT ÉTOILÉE
          Ha ha ha…NoFucs given! The narcissist can order a baker’s dozen and and consume his fuel cookies with a glass of milk. I hope Dr.Q is doing well, too.

        2. K says:

          The Gullible tarts are located next to the Snickerdoodles and the Black and White cookies.

      4. Sniglet says:

        Wasn’t ‘Supertanker of Fuel’ first used by Love as a general comment in 2016. Possibly referring to herself. Perhaps someone described Gabbanzobean as such too.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I first referred to Clarece as a super tanker of fuel a long time ago.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            Haha, I just saw you responded after I hit send to respond to Sniglet.
            Yup you sure did coin that for me.
            I’m curious HG, do you still think of me as a Super Tanker?

        2. MLA - Clarece says:

          HG had referred to me as a Super Tanker of fuel in 2016 with all the stories of JN hoovering and me always caving. Lol

  9. Nuit Étoilée says:

    Hahahaahaa! So this is where “Gullible Tarts” & “Hats of Eternal Hope” comes from! Love it!

    ..but how can we tell the difference between “Mr Nice but Narc,” and you, HG? Oh yes, “malevolent menace” – the “Evil,” but not asshole..

    ..but this part: “She could not see his features against the brightness of the sinking sun” – weellll when you have friends talented in photoshop..

    Ohhh and “Lou Tenant” – I would have liked Leff Tenant, (his British cousin)

    *Remind me never to let you tell my children a bed-time story…

    I also enjoyed Princess Empath & the Hurt – esp all the insightful commentary – thanks to Indy & Clarece.. and others..

    ..and for a real storytelling experience (oral, I mean oratory):
    Princess Empath & the Hurt:

    Three Little Empaths:

    I’m happy you recorded your posts – listening adds emphasis and tone adding to expression and understanding.. fascinating..

    1. K says:

      Nuit Étoilée
      Yes, Gullible Tarts and Hat of Eternal Hope. These articles make me laugh every time.

      1. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Yes, K – laugh.. and blush (at times..)
        I plan to disappear – I keep saying this, so who knows if I find the self-discipline for that – but thought I’d mention it esp to you, as you have made me feel included here, and it gives me an opportunity to tell you how much that has meant to me – I appreciate you!
        (lots of projects that I really should attend to, now that I’m not obsessing over my narc) – just know that I will most likely still be reading & “liking” your posts 😉

        1. K says:

          Awwww…thank you so much, Nuit Étoilée! How sweet! I am so happy that you felt included and that I had something to do with that. Damn, I got all teary-eyed after reading your comment. Your input here has been invaluable and it is wonderful to be part of your journey. You will know when it is time to go and take care of all those projects. Irrespective of when you depart, please, visit when you can and thank you for reading and liking me!

          à la prochaine

      2. Jenna says:


        “I plan to disappear… “☹️

        I suffer ptsd symptoms frm childhood abandonment issues. I felt a slight panic attack when i read that – increased heart beat, faster breathing, anxiety, nervousness. That is how sensitive i am to abandonment. U can imagine how sensitive i was w the mmrn.
        Becoz i don’t know u irl, and becoz it is not due to me, this panic will subside in abt half hr. With the mmrn, it used to last one wk. I am not saying this to make u feel bad and pls dont feel bad. I just wanted to give an example to hg that pple w fear of abandonment get triggered so easily that it causes physical symptoms. I will miss u tho, nuit.

        1. gabbanzobean says:

          I can relate to your words as I feel the same way. I too have similar issues when it comes to Mr. Piano recital. I get restless, nervous, anxious, etc. when he silents me and then when he eventually reaches out, it is a huge wave of relief. The crumbs he tosses though. It is all crumbs. If I refer to this cookie analogy it’s like a nibble here or there. He is busy gorging himself on some other fuel cookie (or cookies) I suppose.

          1. Jenna says:

            Hi gabs,

            Do u feel “restless, nervous, anxious” just when the narc becomes silent, or do u feel it when others leave also? I feel it when others leave also, but the symptoms will last a shorter time, eg. half hr to an hr instead of one week.

          2. All Out of Fuel says:

            I feel very similar to you. Feel it when others go or are silent but with him it’s way more intensified.

      3. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Aw Jenna,
        Even though we have not made eye contact or felt the reassuring touch of a hand on an arm or even an oxytocin inducing, long, tight embrace of a warm hug (sorry if that made you gag, HG) our interactions here are very real and we have connection and we impact each other. I am sorry I triggered you…
        As a mom, I was taught it’s better to alert a little one I’m leaving, w a reassurance that I will be back, than to just disappear.. that’s what I was doing.. bc i’ve noticed that we miss people when they disappear w/out explanation.. not that we owe anyone.. but here I wanted to offer one..
        I hope you continue to heal, Jenna. You have such an incredible memory.. i know it must not be easy for you.. and i’m sure you’re working on letting go. I’ll be around. I love y’all too much!

        K, i meant it. You have a great way of adding to a comment that brings one into the group. Belonging to a group – feeling that connection – is incredibly empowering and healing – that acknowledgement & validation i think many of us seek. Sincere thanks and encouragement to keep on and know of your strength.
        I feel the way I think about things is odd.. so to feel I’ve contributed makes me happy. I look forward to hearing more independence for you w time (why do these things take so long?) And I doubt I’ll be silent (my narc dad always called me motormouth…) & I’ve told HG as long as he writes, I’ll read. Besides I want to be there for the big reveal!
        *bisous & baci* à bientôt

        1. MLA - Clarece says:

          Nuit, I’m so glad we had a chance to interact a bit before you leave. You have made a huge impact here. You will be missed and you are truly a lovely person. Best to you!!!

        2. Jenna says:

          Nuit etoilee,

          “… reassuring touch of a hand on an arm”

          I felt a tear at the corner of my eye while reading this. Oh my, you are a gem nuit! You are such a sweetheart. How i would love to have felt such a reassuring touch frm you. You emanate kindness and warmth. Your narc must have had a field day with you. I’m so very sorry for your entanglement and i wish you continued healing. Pls don’t be sorry for triggering me. It is nice of u to let us know u are leaving, as u described.
          You are very beautiful, inside and out, and those eyes, girl!💗

      4. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Clarece, that is very kind of you.
        Let’s just call it a much reduced input (I know I can’t stay away, but I do need to get a handle on my HG addiction 😉 )
        I enjoy your insight – and I will continue to do so!

      5. Nuit Étoilée says:

        Wow, Jenna – I am moved to receive your message – Thank you! Don’t worry about me & my narc lion. I am working on me & getting back to my kickass self. Best revenge ever? My own incredible adventure & nonchalant, ‘I don’t give a damn about you’ indifference for him – what I wish for everyone here.
        I know I’m too good for him – you are too.. in fact we all are!

        Thank you for your compliment.. *blush* it means so much more coming from you, knowing it is sincere.. vs the bullshit narcs feed us.. We should only pay attention to people who mean what they say…
        **bisous, I’ll be around, don’t worry 😊

        1. Jenna says:

          Nuit etoilee,

          Yw and glad to hear that u are healing. I can already sense that u are well on ur way towards ur awesome self!

  10. K says:

    This one is an absolute riot! Mirabile dictu, I am ready to graduate from being a D.O.E (dumb old empath) to a W.O.E.; I think I have reached indifference.

  11. cc says:


  12. 12345 says:

    This is fantastic. I love your fairytale entries!!

  13. blackunicorn123 says:

    Lmao!! “Basefuck, Twatter…PlentyOfNarcs!’. Brilliant! 😂

  14. JenniferJ says:

    What a great story!! It made me chuckle at the different names, dialogue and final plot twist. Well done HG!! You are very entertaining!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you.

  15. Nina says:

    Hahaha excellent!! Basefuck??!!!

  16. Stormy says:

    Nice! Love it.

  17. Mb says:

    HG (Hurt God) this is awesome! What a thrill to learn your pseudonym AND loved this ! I needed a lol today , and this is valuable and true! YouDaMan! (‘Shove it douchbag!’ Lol, W.O.E. , Hysterical Tirade, Lou Tenant ) just fabulous!

    1. Bibi says:

      Hurt God? Why would HG be hurt? Shouldn’t he be Hot God?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Think of it as God of Hurt.

      2. Mb says:

        No doubt he IS hot 😉 as well, obviously the ‘hurt’ comes from his childhood manipulation by his matrinarc which greatly made him the ‘Godlike’ yet still hurt being he is today. ( IMHO)

      3. Mb says:

        Bibi! 1000 apologies! Spellcheck changed my typed ‘Bibi’ to ‘bono’ and I sent before I noticed! Yikes! Sorry! Love the name ‘Bibi ‘ reminds me of Netanyahu’s nickname.

      4. Bibi says:

        Gotcha. Hot works too. Or as HG would have it…Hawt. 😛

      5. Bibi says:


        No worries. ‘Bibi’ is taken from the Swedish actress Bibi Andersson. Hurt God uncovered that I was a big Ingmar Bergman fan.

        Another actress fave is Liv Ullman. Bibi and Liv merge (literally) in the film Persona.

        Here is the trailer:

  18. Bekah B says:

    H G = Hurt God.. Interesting.. 🤔

  19. Melissa says:


  20. Jasmine says:

    “No way buster! ” lol. I love it❤

  21. raine turner says:

    As usual – brilliant and timely! I am having way too much of a problem with the no contact- due to my damned curiosity and ego — I think!

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