The Rules of Ex Club – No. 4
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Vent Your Spleen! (Please see the Rules in Formal Info)
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I was controlling him, making him feel like nothing. He couldn’t spend a penny without me asking for a receipt. Well… he wasn’t working, and he was spending on my credit card. So I was controlling the money. I was the controling one… I was trying to control MY money, but he always ended up buying whatever he wanted and I was paying for it. I was making him feel like he’s nothing and controling him because I was asking him to get a job, I was such a bitch, always telling him what to do (like “go get a job”, and “do something during the day other than masturbating”). Ok, what an assole.
This is so true. The mid ranger that I know speaks so ill of his wife, that some unsuspecting person might believe him. However, his tirade about how awful his wife was/is gave me an opportunity to suggest that she might be an abuser (reverse psychology) and I told him I would send him a book mailed directly to him from Amazon regarding signs of an abusive relationship. Guess which book that was…Black Flag : 50 Warning Signs of Abuse (of course).
He texted me a picture of the book letting me know he received it.
I wonder if he’s going to read it?
Why does the mid range do so? Why is the ex the abbussive one?
Because it always has to be the other person’s fault because the narcissist’s perspective makes it so.
HG- When my mid midranger ex disengaged from me he told me some lame story about how he was letting me go because he’s busy with his residency in med school and I need to go find someone else who can get married and have babies right now and not wait for him since I am 30. Is this just a lie he told me or would he have told others that too?
by others I mean would that be how he explained our breakup to family and friends?
That is likely, yes.
Most likely a lie and it may well have been used before, such lies often are. I cannot say anything more without further information provided.
He hates women now because of me.
Women trap men.
I occupied his mind.
I controlled his mind.
After everything he did for me, i was not appreciative.
Gross.