You’d Better

YOU'D BETTER

What goes through the mind of the Lesser Narcissist when he has decided that he must respond with regards to some transgressor, some traitor, some disloyal appliance which has affronted him in some way?  What are his thoughts as he bears down on the one who now represents everything that he despises? Whether they have escaped him, exposed him, challenged him or some other capital crime against the Lesser Narc Empire, what is his response? This is a glimpse inside to understand what is his mind-set.

You’d better fucking get in line you bitch because you’ve messed with the wrong marine. You’d better get your backside back where it belongs and do as you are told. You’d better shut your hole, open your legs and give me what is my right. You’d better keep your mouth shut otherwise I will shut it for you. You’d better not go crying to your brothers or I will beat the shit out of them too. You’d better get back to our home and you’d better be there by the time I get back, do you hear me? You’d better listen to me and you’d better listen good, I own you, you are mine and if you so much as think of ratting on me, I will make your life not worth living.

You’d better understand that I wear the trousers around here and the sooner you get used to that, then the easier it is going to be. You’d better not start letting your mouth flap to people and telling lies about me, you know what happened last time you did that. You’d better do as you are told because it is for your own good, yeah? You’d better get back here and do it straight away, do you hear me? You’d better have a good excuse for what you’ve done, I am sick of you not doing what I want. You’d better learn your place missy.

You’d better get this house tidied. You’d better have my dinner ready. You’d better have some money for me for my beers. You’d better not have eaten my do-nuts. You’d better get that damn child of yours to shut up so I can watch the game in peace. You’d better dress pretty for me. You’d better stop dressing like a whore. You’d better stop talking to the neighbour ‘cos I know what’s going on, I’m not stupid.

You’d better stop with those long words you use, thinking you are all clever and mighty. You’d better forget any idea of going back to school, you belong here with me. You’d better remember whose side you are on. You’d better remember who looks after you. You’d better remember that if it was not for me, you’d still be living in that shit hole with no money. You’d better not be taking the piss out of me. You’d better not call me stupid. You’d better not treat me like a fool. You’d better stop with those ideas, you won’t be anything. You’d better stop trying to better yourself. You’d better stay with me.

You’d better stay away from her, she is trouble I tell you. You’d better tell your mother to shut her mouth, who does she think she is talking to me like that? You’d better give it me or I will just take it anyway. You’d better stop making things up. You’d better leave me alone, can’t you see I am tired. You’d better stop your moaning, I will get a job when I want to. You’d better stop your nagging or I will make you stop. You’d better stop going about your needs, I am sick of you being selfish.

You’d better give me a baby soon or I am finding someone who will. You’d better get rid of it because I sure as hell don’t want no kid. You’d better go to the clinic. You’d better be in when I get home or there will be hell to pay. You’d better have it fixed or else. You’d better stay out of my way because I am this far from beating you down. You’d better stop taking his side. You’d better believe me when I tell you I didn’t do nothing.

You’d better not call the cops. You’d better not say anything. You’d better tell them the truth and that you made a mistake. You’d better tell them I was here all night. You’d better not touch my phone. You’d better let me see your ‘phone. You’d better not complain. You’d better not moan. You’d better give it to me or I will just do it anyway. You’d better get a new one then. You’d better pass me a beer. You’d better find me some money. You’d better get off my case. You’d better clean this place, it’s a shit hole. You’d better get off your fat ass and do some work.

You’d better run back home or I will come and drag you back. You’d better tell your father to keep his nose out or I will break it. You’d better answer me. You’d better pick up. You’d better open this fucking door or I swear I will kick it down. You’d better not be seeing nobody else. You’d better be in by ten. You’d better not be flirting with him or I will kill you both. You’d better stop going out. You’d better stay in. You’d better do what I want. You’d better know what I mean. You’d better not make me repeat myself.

You’d better wipe it up and get on with it. You’d better pretend everything is alright. You’d better make sure he is gone when I get home from the yard. You’d better not have those kids there. You’d better ring your mom and tell her you are fine. You’d better get used to it because that’s the way it is. You’d better enjoy yourself. You’d better smile. You’d better stop that crying. You’d better show you like it. You’d better show me that you care. You’d better do it right this time. You’d better get on with it.

You’d better start showing me some respect. You’d better realise that I am the boss. You’d better start earning your keep. You’d better stop complaining. You’d better shit or get off the pot. You’d better show me that you love me. You’d better stop being jealous. You’d better realise they’re my friends. You’d better stop being such a pain in the ass. You’d better stop trying to be better than you are. You’d better remember where you come from. You’d better get with the programme. You’d better do it my way or get the fuck out. You’d better stop this. You’d better quit messing around. You’d better suck it and suck it good. You’d better have something I like to eat. You’d better not have made any of that foreign rubbish. You’d better have paid the bills. You’d better not have used my car. You’d better not have let her in. You’d better not have spoken against me.

You’d better let me do it or I will find someone who will. You’d better put out for me. You’d better take it and not cry. You’d better quit asking. You’d better know what I meant. You’d better stop trying to confuse me. You’d better stop blaming me when it’s your fault. You’d better get out of my way. You’d better see that you do. You’d better tell him what’s going to happen if he keeps doing that. You’d better be a good mother. You’d better start taking better care of me. You’d better smile.

You’d better get me something for this headache. You’d better quit your backchat. You’d better make this pain go away. You’d better sort this mess out. You’d better take the day off work to look after me. You’d better get your mom to have those damn kids. You’d better give me some peace. You’d better stay home and help me. You’d better go and find someone who can help. You’d better get it fixed. You’d better deal with it. You’d better sort it out. You’d better not have done. You’d better not have fucked it up.

You’d better realise I can do what I want. You’d better know you can’t stop me. You’d better understand I call the shots round here. You’d better do what’s right or else. You’d better know who is the boss.

You’d better stop being a bitch. You’d better keep your legs shut. You’d better be a man. You’d better stop being a pussy. You’d better be there. You’d better be here. You’d better be nowhere I can find you.

You’d better make things good again. You’d better be waiting for me. You’d better not be going to your parents. You’d better not be telling tales about me. You’d better not be ringing the police. You’d better not be grassing me up to them. You’d better get back home right away if you know what’s right for you.

You’d better do what I fucking well want.

You’d better shut the fuck up. Now.

You’d better.

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38 thoughts on “You’d Better”

  1. I’d like to tell him that he’d “better” eff off and find a new punching bag, but that would be fuelish of me.

    Don’t be fuelish!

      1. Me too! I am the Ferrari of negative fuel appliances. Only the highest grade fuel. Lol.

    1. Bahahahah! Good one.

      I became a terrible negative fuel source. The Nex’s made me so high.. it was a challenge to bring me down. The abuse was deflected or I saw through it. Either way, breaking me meant damage to the facade. Tread lightly.

    2. Julie. Lol. Nice. Love her! Tangent, but her “She Used to be Mine” makes me cry every time. Sigh… love her.

    3. Oh God. I just listened to it again (“She Used to be Mine”). Now I’m a blubbering fuelish mess. You gotta check it out.

  2. “You’d better not call the cops cuz I’ll be calm by the time they get here”

    Anyhow, the picture makes me LOL everytime I see it

  3. YES SIR MR TUDOR, IM DONE, THANKS FOR All YOUR KNOWLEDGE ON THIS TOPIC I UNDERSTAND NOW EVERYTHING , PAST , PRESENT , WHY THIS WHY THAT , I’M FREE , WILL NOT CHANGE BEING AN EMPATH FOR ANYTHING IT’S A GIFT! LET THE DEAD BURY THE DEAD! H. WANTED SO VERY MUCH TO MEET YOU BUT I NOW UNDERSTAND WHY THIS COULD NEVER TAKE PLACE FOR YOU ARE NOT REAL ! YOU ARE OUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND WHICH COMES FROM WITH IN IT’S (GOD’S VOICE SPEAKING TO US !DO I TELL THE TRUTH? PLEASE,PLEASE,ANSWER ! SINCERELY SHARON 🎊🎉🎁!

  4. I survived 11 months with a lesser. The “You’d better” was like reading a recount of that time. Almost every part of it, word for word.

    1. Morgan.. i agree. Nothing more than puffy chested toddlers making demands. All about that control. Tito.. hand me a tissue

  5. My Lesser father:

    You’d better set the table, you’d better clean the table, you’d better help your mother, you’d better do well in school, you’d better be respectful, you’d better do as I say, you’d better drive your mother, you’d better help your sister, you’d better not be a slut, you’d better go to church.

    Cruel, arrogant, delusional man who would whine like a baby anytime he had a cold, a headache or his tummy hurt.

      1. He wasn’t even that ‘subtle’. He would tell you exactly what would happen: that he would break your head with a baseball bat, or a tyre iron, smash your face, strangle you to death, etc…and would always scream it to your face. A f-ing psychopath.
        I honestly felt as if he was just looking for an excuse to get violent and hurt people. I once saw him chase a man with a shovel because he had entered his storage room without asking for permission first.

      2. That was a very mild example but a constant. Yes, I also heard specifics: “One word (from my mother which was a gamble) and I will drive this car into the canal and there will be no wedding” (he was drunk and driving erratically on the night before my wedding and the younger children were also in the car and crying). “Go and bring me your 3 favourite toys and dont try to fool me (to all of us) I will be smashing them to show you how it feels to have something you enjoy ruined” This was because he could not get the stereo to work and blamed us for breaking it (we were forbidden to touch it). He went into a rage in front of company and demanded this to show his control (who were shocked but tried to make light of it) . “If I find out that you are lying I will crush your skull with this ashtray”. “How would you like to wake up and find that she (my mother) is no longer here?”
        These are but a few of the things children can expect to hear from these monsters and you may never know because you didnt hear them and we are threatened not to repeat them. This of course does not cover the things you see.

        Now can you see why I have no tolerance for talk of how hard the addiction is for those who are in these relationships and have children?

      3. NA… ommmg that was my mothers fav line. I just vomited a wee bit in my mouth. Eww , but you’re right (two thumbs up))

  6. I had a date with a lesser. We just talked and then he started talking smack. I had had enough of his smack. So I cursed him out. He just replied “whatever”. And I said “bye retard” and never spoke or saw him again. These leaders are easy to spot.

    1. IROLL, I’M SORRY YOU WERE SPOKEN TO LIKE THAT,MANY OF US HERE WERE TREATED BADLY BY OUR LOVED ONES AT A VERY YOUNG AGE ,🚼 WERE GROOMED FOR THE NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES ,WE GIVE OTHERS CIUES , WITH OUR EYES , SOUND OF OUR VOICE ! THAT’S WHY CONSTANT STUDYING & LEARNING MORE ON THIS TOPIC WITH H.G. ((FOR WARNED IS FOR ARMED))🐺🐏!

  7. Can I ask, HG, which school and caste of N do you personally hold the most contempt for and your reasons for that contempt?

      1. Thanks for the answer. I actually would have put money in it being a lesser. You’ve got layers, HG! 😀

      2. I dated a victim MMRN for a year …lol! Is the self-pity sincere or only to keep the victim close and giving attention?

      3. Karen
        My definition of MMR is a Middling Martyring Retard, but go with HGs.

      4. When the narc is being totally an asshole, i’m a cry baby with a cry baby gun of tears.

        #totally not the same as their self-pity crocodile tears.

      5. Yes! At least the Greater has some brains, self-respect and can appear rational. I am almost in awe of his carefully constructed covert years-long mind fucking program. It was the mid ranger that finally exposed narcissism to me after all. Pathetic cry baby.

  8. Couldnt even finish reading this one past you better be home by the time I get home.. brings back far too many bad memories I care to remember. This one was a hard pill to try to swallow. But ty still HG. I appreciate all your articles

  9. Thank you, HG for this.
    It makes me see how far I’ve come and how life is better now, and help me see there’s a whole different world out there.
    I can be free If I choose. It’s been hard to want to put the focus on myself and not want to save other’s. Because I can’t.
    Reality can be a rude awakening. Or a great awakening.

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