Sitting Target
Why did the narcissist choose you? How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon? Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe? This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner. What are the things that various types of narcissist look for? How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits? What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists? Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous? Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone? What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights? These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
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By the way HG, I saw that your publications are doing very well on Amazon.com.
No Contact, Escape and Sex and The Narcissist in particular have excellent rankings.
Congratulations!
Thank you.
Mr. Tudor, I do not believe he went just after me. I believe He was hitting the online dating site and writes a lot at one time or daily, to see who will take his bait. Then who writes him back, he plays with them to see who will take the bait. He needed supply, I know for a fact that he has no type Fat skinny old white black young old so on. He is a gigolo actor. When I found out of his Ipp or whatever you call it MAIN woman who stays with him and he stays with her. She is his protector. SHE lied to me of I was a fling. He did it once before. Sorry sweetie blablabla. Then I was being played with as a game between them. WHAT is that about Mr. Tudor. The IPP main supply and Narc. Play with the victims together. Anyways, long story short.She is worse then him. Sicko wacko spit personality. AND I was getting Anonymous death threats of a person who was sending me disfigured bloody photos threats. They know where I live. A lot of the words this person was using matched a lot of the Girlfriends Text.So it was her, or the Narc. using her words to make it look like her. Anyways, NOPE I do not believe THAT any of us was a main target, I believe there were many targets. The one that took the bait, THE narc. would some how start their grooming of us, THEN see who is the new supply, BUT we are part of a supply chain, old new rotated. I know a lot of these has to do with the narc. means of money time and access. Mine was a millionar as Mr. President traveled a lot. He had a gated community beach house, So he had the means, time, and ablity to not worry so much of the Main Supply popping over to catching him in the act. She caught him, of having Motel cards in his car. Women contacting her. FB her. Her calling his motel room and he already left, but his sex supply from a bar from the night before was still sleeping in at the motel. She answered the phone. She walked in on him at a bar with him being touchy feely with a woman sitting by him. See vents yells then play with us the victims too. BUT they are sick sick couple doing this together. JUST my story of victim, main supply and the narc.
Hi HG,
Have a quick question about something specific to my relationship with a middle range narc. When I met my girlfriend she was 1 1/2 years into a divorce and I noticed that she would get uncontrollably upset mainly after a few drinks about her relationship. I put it down to the fact that it was still not that long ago and pretty normal to still be upset. Move on 7 years and we had a child together. This behavior went on for almost the whole relationship again mainly after she had been drinking. The last time I saw her she went out with one of his friends and came back uncontrollably crying about the reason behind the breakup. This is over 8 years since she was married to this guy. Is this normal narc behavior or just something to my relationship. I thought it might be a form of triangulation.
Thanks
Triangulation and pity play.
HG, here is the question I asked.
When the narc said, “I am so attracted to you,” what did he mean?
Precisely that.
Thank you, HG. Sorry if I am overcomplicating things. I just thought that, perhaps, he could sense or see certain traits he found desirable, which is what may have made him feel and say this.
See Sitting Target.
This is an excellent book. The amazing thing is that even the choice of a profession based on the cadre of a narc is accurate. I was really blown away by that. HG, when the narc said, “I am so attracted to you,” what did he mean? Thank you!
You are welcome and thank you.
Sorry, HG. My question got overlooked. Would appreciate the response when you get a chance. Thanks so much!
H.G. MY MALE NARCISSIST FRIEND SAID JUST AS HE PLANTED THE MOST WONDERFUL SOFT KISS ON MY LIPS , YOU DO KNOW I FIND YOU VERY ATTRACTIVE ,? I TOLD HIM HE TOOK SOME CHANCE DOING THAT,BUT, 2DAYS LATER HE TOLD ME HE WOULD DESTROY ME ,RED FLAGS WENT UP IN MY HEAD I LET IT GO, WAS I DESTROYED? ALMOST,BUT WITH YOU HELP H.G. I KNOW WHY NOW THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH, 😘😄😅😄! SINCERELY SHARON