The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 21

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12 thoughts on “The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 21”

  1. So so true. What is it with the blocking HG? Narcissist block only to unblock you days or weeks later. I mean really what is the purpose? Why block you on social media but not other avenues? I just don’t get it

      1. Nope. He can’t he’s been suspended from fb for a month. I don’t care if he does. Well actually I do. I’m fine with him leaving me blocked. I have so much less anxiety now. It’s been a blessing. I never thought I would say that but it really and truly has been. When they block you it allows you to detox

    1. Thanks HG. I couldn’t really see anyway as we weren’t fb friends anymore but I guess there was something he didn’t want me to see. Who freakin knows. I took it more as him just wanting to cause me pain

      The thing I don’t get is if they want fuel why block you? That likely restricts fuel. I can’t really understand why they’d block anyone being the fuel junkies that they are

      1. Well there will be other people providing fuel and if there are other conduits opens between you and the narcissist, blocking one may provoke you into contacting us through a different conduit and providing fuel anyway.

      2. True and to be honest that has always been the case but not this time. I honestly am surprised I haven’t. I don’t know why I haven’t. I suppose on some level your psyche just becomes sick of it all. Anytime I have had the urge to contact the first thing I do is ask why ? The answer is always he’s a narcissist. How many times do you have to touch a hot stove and get burned before you realize it’s going to burn you? And then I put the phone right down.

        There is only one answer to all of this and it’s the same answer over and over. HE IS A NSRCISSIST. It really is the only answer one needs

    2. Remember the golden rule…EVERYTHING is about THEM! When they unblock you, they have a motive…to see what YOU are up to, or to access your photo’s, etc. Social Media is a HUGE tool for Narcs. They can easily paint a false picture of both YOU and THEM. It simply is NOT usually within their best interest to have you as a social media friend. You would object to much of what they are doing because they are constantly looking for fuel and/or your replacement.

  2. Hello HG

    Please could you consider my questions about a conversation I (on/ off shelf IPSS/DLS) had with the MRN (cerebral) on a messaging site. I am rarely “home alone” but am this weekend so I invited him to my house and his numerous responses were positive, flirty and enthusiastic. He messaged me first thing today to say he would no longer be able to visit due to tiredness because he has been working 12 hour shifts all week. (True, but he knew that when he agreed)

    a) Did he ever intend visiting?
    b) How could he resist my fuel even if he is tired?
    c) Is this some sort of test?
    d) Is this an exercise purely in asserting control?
    e) Genuine and courteous in letting me know?

    Best wishes for a fuel filled bank holiday!

    Daisy

  3. How true! A weapon used for triangulation, control, and facade management. Thank you, HG!

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