Understanding the Fuel Matrix
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All narcissists have fuel matrices and you need to understand where you fit into that fuel matrix and how that particular matrix functions as part of protecting yourself.
This Logic Bulletin takes you through :-
1. The Fuel Matrices of all sub schools of narcissist. This includes updated and expanded information about the Upper Lesser Type A and Upper Lesser Type B Narcissists, plus the Middle Mid Range Type A and Type B Narcissists.
2. What the Fuel Matrices look like, their size, the nature of the matrices and who sits in them.
3. How the relevant narcissist of each sub school relies on the individuals in the Fuel Matrix
4. What the Virtual Fuel Matrix is and how it operates.
5. How a Long Distance Appliance fits into it the narcissist fuel matrix and how that functions.
6. Detailed descriptions of each sub-school of narcissist, their behaviours and actions to increase your understanding of the different types of narcissist. This is a comprehensive expansion which will help you understand a lot more about the way different sub schools of narcissist operate.
A fascinating and educational exploration of the fuel matrix and the interaction between you and the narcissist, this is essential to know how the narcissist behaves so you can ensure your No Contact Regime is as effective as possible. It is also advanced reading for those who feel they are well-acquainted with the narcissistic dynamic from their existing reading and consultations.
This extensive Logic Bulletin is available at just US $ 10 and is a bulletin you will read several times and refer to often and can be obtained here
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Michelle, what a lovely idea. My love of Bond passed down to me by my Father, a greater, and yes, Bond has been my true love (fantasy) from inception. Daniel Craig my celebrity crush and perhaps most favorite Bond. I’ll be in the UK mid Jul—If you can pull together your film extravaganza. US works as well. Getting HG there, well, that’s the tricky part—would take more than a bit of magic I suspect. But how wonderful to think about!
Yes, I’m sad Daniel Craig only doing one more. He is closer to a real life James Bond I think.
I’m sure you could all think of a way to get HG to US. All use your womanly ways…. if there is a giant pot of fuel at the end, I’m sure he would go there…. Fuel is what drives him! That’s his carrot!
I know the US will love him. And over there, make even more of a fuss over him. Because over here we are a bit, well…. “stiff upper lip and all that!” Kind of reserved to a degree… And being the power hungry guy he is, US is the way to go!
I go to the US anyway, it’s a great country. My fuel needs are met by existing matrices, something I have repeatedly and consistently explained on this blog from the very beginning.
‘Merica!
HG great information. Mine was a President of a military Aero Space Company. He boast of him self in many internet sites of his company achievement a book he is writing. One main IPP who he choose to help him live a normal life of social family traveling and splashed all over her FB. Yet, she knows of his cheating then finds out he is a Narc, She does nothing AS she gets women of his confronting her. She puts her children at risk. He has many Dirty Little Secrets. The secret double life of him saying he is single and all lies to trap us into siring us to him. Well he got so cocky he was messing around with women at work and a sex scandal and now possible a law suit. So at times Justice prevails.
Thank you.
Thanks HG. You cleared up my confusion about the Greater schools. I thought I had been ensnared by an UGN but my ex greater exhibits all the LGN, however, he also exhibits some of the mid- and upper descriptions.
Is this exhibition of mid- and upper traits a progression to the higher ‘greater’ schools as he ages (38 yrs old) and hones his skills? He is fully aware of what he is, having been diagnosed NPD at age 19. Or once a LGN always a LGN?
The answers to these questions will conclude my curiosity and my role in the ensnarement and I am wiser to the Red Flags future contacts with narcs–male and female.
As a sude note, when I confronted my ex on NPD, he laughed at me, said it took me long enough to figure it out, confessed his diagnosis. My escape led to violence before I was able to physically get out the door, literally, violence which he never exhibited before.
In the overall scheme of things it matters not what he is or isn’t, was or never will be. I am a Super magnet empath. How I heal and conduct myself from today forward is what matters. Narcs be damned. The result will always be the same. Emotional, maybe physical pain also, and unrequited love.
I don’t regret having met my ex as I learned from the experience. I live in Sedona, Arizona where many empaths live. Empaths come here from all over the world. Also many ‘gurus’ (narcs) and false prophets peddling their wares. Gathering followers. Lost souls. Strangest place I’ve ever resided. Interesting to watch–now I watch from a distance as the inevitable plays out–the inevitable being the duality of narc-empath.
One is either an empath or narc–very few fall into the norm category. The duality strongly exists and where there once was a ‘balance’, this has shifted to where one can toss a dime in this small community and hit a narc–male or female. Empaths beware.
The LGN cerebral was indifferent. The DSM refers to it as schizoid. I thought he was calm. He taught me emotional discipline bc I absorbed his emotionlessness and upset manifested as cold fury. This was new to me…but lashing out felt shameful bc of his calm. I refused to talk to him when I was angry in person. I could tell “come in …we can talk about it” was like walking into the dragon’s lair.
Our last words were
Me: what’s wrong with you?
Him: I’m fine
Me: “I’m fine” is what I say when I’m upset
Him: I noticed
Me: you confuse me….You text me everyday but don’t seem to want to spend time with me.
Him: I’m sorry, I’m in a funk
Me: “I’m in a funk” and “I’m fine” are two different things…
Him: Want to meet for lunch and we can talk? I’m not going to discuss these things via text.
Me: you expect me to accept a relationship that is mainly via text.
I can’t count the NISS he would flirt with. Between his tenants, running groups, admirers, etc.. it was atleast 10 women.. Those were just the ones I met. His IPPS always lasted two years and I never met any of them. He spoke softly and women would move in close. He hypnotized them with his stare. Im a magnet and this was fascinating to watch. He didn’t care about sex so I wasn’t hurt and walking away from him was the easiest of all. But….my presence left these women confused, resentful, and feeling rejected. He stared at these expressions of discomfort like only they existed. This was the fun part.
Beautiful information as always in this 3 part series. I share a mutual love of Bond movies. Question…..is Bond an upper mid ranger or a greater?
Greater.
Who doesn’t love Bond? Only one more with Daniel Craig…..
We should all plan to see it together somewhere along with HG, (he can have a mask on), and we watch it together at the cinema…. that would be awesome!
But I don’t know of many of us who are over here in UK. So maybe it would be done best over in US.
As many more would join you, I’m sure HG.
How cool would that be, you could all get to see HG Tudor, and watch James Bond with him….
Always wondered why I liked James Bond.