The Igniters of Fury – No. 4


A series that allows you to understand what are the different things that you do which are likely to ignite the fury of a narcissist. Keep in mind that different schools of narcissists have different levels of control over their fury. Use this information to understand why you have been treated to heated or cold fury and to use this information to further your own position post escape.

6 thoughts on “The Igniters of Fury – No. 4

  1. Bubbles🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Narcs seem to text “code” messages … meaning … you are compelled to reply with “what do you mean” “I don’t understand” “please explain”
    Our “greater” friend does this constantly ….. always playing games

    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  2. DoForLuv says:

    Hi H.G.

    I have a question one thing what always seems to happen with people who have high narcissistic traits ; text me 1 to for 4 senteces but I don’t respond within a few seconds (me busy) so they call/videocall me in the app . When answering the “ call” they always end the call and say it was by accident . is this something your kind does ?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Yes, it is called hoovering and then plausible deniability to avoid the appearance of desperation.

      1. DoForLuv says:

        Makes so much sense thank you !

      2. Caroline-is-fine says:

        Hey, HG…can I ask you a miscellaneous narcissistic-related question? It’s OT.

    2. Anm says:

      Yes, my ex does that. If i happen to take the call, and I tell him I am busy, he will say something stupid like, “why are you still talking/texting me then?”

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